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<blockquote data-quote="Rob Banks" data-source="post: 1356935" data-attributes="member: 12046"><p>Obviously monogamy and virginity are important, but we can do without these charts.</p><p></p><p><em>“Minimum more than one partner risk: 52%.”</em></p><p></p><p>So basically, marrying a certain woman is like buying a stock or making an investment with a 52% chance of success.</p><p></p><p>This is a very autistic way to look at things (I’m not calling you autistic, but rather whoever drew up that chart).</p><p></p><p>This continues to be the biggest pet peeve of mine on the forum because it’s sad to see so many formerly fallen men who are becoming good Christians (like I am trying to do myself) end up with a cynical view of marriage that is even further from the truth than the view of a blue-pill cuck who believes in “true love” and “soulmates” as defined by Hollywood.</p><p></p><p>If God blesses you with a woman, you will know <em>intuitively</em> that you need to be with her. It is similar to the way we love our parents and our children. We don’t love them because they possess certain qualities and check off certain boxes. We simply love them because they are our parents and our children. We would not trade them for anything.</p><p></p><p><strong>This intuitive feeling (that a certain woman is right for you) is not to be confused with strong feelings of mere lust.</strong> That is one of the reasons why men and women in the past were forbidden from having sex during the courtship process.</p><p></p><p>Ideally, when you find a woman like this, you don’t have to worry about adultery or divorce for the same reason you don’t have to worry about her killing you in your sleep.</p><p></p><p>Yes, betrayals happen, but they are an exception to the rule. There are also sons who kill their fathers, but that doesn’t mean every man who is a father should start to fear his sons.</p><p></p><p>Now, that doesn’t mean that you ignore all red flags and marry a whore. But even in that case, when you meet a whore, you should intuitively have an aversion to her based on her attitude and physiognomy even if you aren’t aware of exactly how many men she’s been with.</p><p></p><p>Marriage is not a business partnership where you choose a woman based on a list of pros and cons. It is quite telling that many of the same men who advocate this calculating business-like approach to marriage are resentful towards women who do the same by practicing hypergamy and seeing men as walking ATM’s.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rob Banks, post: 1356935, member: 12046"] Obviously monogamy and virginity are important, but we can do without these charts. [I]“Minimum more than one partner risk: 52%.”[/I] So basically, marrying a certain woman is like buying a stock or making an investment with a 52% chance of success. This is a very autistic way to look at things (I’m not calling you autistic, but rather whoever drew up that chart). This continues to be the biggest pet peeve of mine on the forum because it’s sad to see so many formerly fallen men who are becoming good Christians (like I am trying to do myself) end up with a cynical view of marriage that is even further from the truth than the view of a blue-pill cuck who believes in “true love” and “soulmates” as defined by Hollywood. If God blesses you with a woman, you will know [I]intuitively[/I] that you need to be with her. It is similar to the way we love our parents and our children. We don’t love them because they possess certain qualities and check off certain boxes. We simply love them because they are our parents and our children. We would not trade them for anything. [B]This intuitive feeling (that a certain woman is right for you) is not to be confused with strong feelings of mere lust.[/B] That is one of the reasons why men and women in the past were forbidden from having sex during the courtship process. Ideally, when you find a woman like this, you don’t have to worry about adultery or divorce for the same reason you don’t have to worry about her killing you in your sleep. Yes, betrayals happen, but they are an exception to the rule. There are also sons who kill their fathers, but that doesn’t mean every man who is a father should start to fear his sons. Now, that doesn’t mean that you ignore all red flags and marry a whore. But even in that case, when you meet a whore, you should intuitively have an aversion to her based on her attitude and physiognomy even if you aren’t aware of exactly how many men she’s been with. Marriage is not a business partnership where you choose a woman based on a list of pros and cons. It is quite telling that many of the same men who advocate this calculating business-like approach to marriage are resentful towards women who do the same by practicing hypergamy and seeing men as walking ATM’s. [/QUOTE]
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