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<blockquote data-quote="Feyoder" data-source="post: 1481420" data-attributes="member: 14063"><p>After coming from a rather brutal breakup with an EE girl who was 15 years my junior (I misjudged her girl game and bought the lie that a secular lifestyle / relationship ever ends in anything other than misery for everyone), and seeing the many experiences of other men, and more of my own, it can work but:</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"> Your permanent home must be in her country of origin:<ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">E Michael Jones talks about this in "The Slaughter of Cities". The gist is that your morality comes from your social group. And when you shift people around they go morally crazy. The temptation for an EE girl (at least in my own western shit hole) is insane daily. And if she makes any friends it multiplies (even if you somehow restrict her friend group to the church alone).</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">But living in these places might be unideal. They're polluted. Bad health services (though there's ways around this). Bad policing (but in a mono-culture/ethnos the need is far less). Bad infrastructure. (PM me for more details).<br /> <br /> </li> </ul></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">The age difference isn't as big a deal for sure but if, visually, it looks ridiculous (you look way older for e.g.) it'll be a big strain on the relationship (murmuring).<ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Also, just like in the West looks matter. This surprised me but it's not the 90s any more or even the 2010s. Guys, at least in the country I'm thinking of (the best one imo--PM), dress well and are fit.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">The bankroll factor is something only misguided people think will overcome these limitations. And it might, for a while, for a purely secular transactional relationship. If you can beat the girl game here though... good freaking luck. In my experience, for the good ones, a basic Western level income will put you well into the necessary category for that anyway.<br /> <br /> </li> </ul></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">You <strong>must </strong>know the native language at a very good level<br /> <br /> </li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Most important: You should be religious and of the same religion.<ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">No having premarital sex.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Family focused</li> </ul></li> </ul><p>Given that, I really think it can work out. And I've seen it. But it's rare because 99% of the time these conditions are not met.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Feyoder, post: 1481420, member: 14063"] After coming from a rather brutal breakup with an EE girl who was 15 years my junior (I misjudged her girl game and bought the lie that a secular lifestyle / relationship ever ends in anything other than misery for everyone), and seeing the many experiences of other men, and more of my own, it can work but: [LIST] [*] Your permanent home must be in her country of origin: [LIST] [*]E Michael Jones talks about this in "The Slaughter of Cities". The gist is that your morality comes from your social group. And when you shift people around they go morally crazy. The temptation for an EE girl (at least in my own western shit hole) is insane daily. And if she makes any friends it multiplies (even if you somehow restrict her friend group to the church alone). [*]But living in these places might be unideal. They're polluted. Bad health services (though there's ways around this). Bad policing (but in a mono-culture/ethnos the need is far less). Bad infrastructure. (PM me for more details). [/LIST] [*]The age difference isn't as big a deal for sure but if, visually, it looks ridiculous (you look way older for e.g.) it'll be a big strain on the relationship (murmuring). [LIST] [*]Also, just like in the West looks matter. This surprised me but it's not the 90s any more or even the 2010s. Guys, at least in the country I'm thinking of (the best one imo--PM), dress well and are fit. [*]The bankroll factor is something only misguided people think will overcome these limitations. And it might, for a while, for a purely secular transactional relationship. If you can beat the girl game here though... good freaking luck. In my experience, for the good ones, a basic Western level income will put you well into the necessary category for that anyway. [/LIST] [*]You [B]must [/B]know the native language at a very good level [*]Most important: You should be religious and of the same religion. [LIST] [*]No having premarital sex. [*]Family focused [/LIST] [/LIST] Given that, I really think it can work out. And I've seen it. But it's rare because 99% of the time these conditions are not met. [/QUOTE]
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