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<blockquote data-quote="fortyfive" data-source="post: 1566566" data-attributes="member: 21410">OP. Your main problem is self-pity. That thing is behind almost every unsuccessful, depressed man in this world, blaming a whole universe for his failure and fate.Self-pity is a very addictive, sweet poison. But it is a learned behavior.When we humans encounter adversity, then we can react in many ways.Unfortunately, we often choose to blame circumstances and wallow in that sweet toxic feeling, expecting others to pity us endlessly.But the problem is, that thing would keep you forever on the bottom, making you an eternal loser. The whole incel industry is precisely about that.You have to stop using this behavior right now. You need to replace it with a much better response. The decision to never surrender to anything except God, the decision to continue to live, fight, and be even rightly enraged sometimes. You have to learn to react differently to adversity.Do it consciously until it becomes a learned habit.Replace pity even with anger (avoid uncontrolled, destructive rage) but never go back to sorrow and nihilism again.Keep going and fighting. This world is not a place to rest. Heaven will be.The world is not fair and is full of evil. So what? Do you let him win even without trying to fight? No way.Never surrender to this fallen world, govt, culture, and all kinds of pathetic sucker rulers around.Look at the heroes of the Bible. They never succumbed to any hardship.These men are our role models, not modern effeminate cowards.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="fortyfive, post: 1566566, member: 21410"] OP. Your main problem is self-pity. That thing is behind almost every unsuccessful, depressed man in this world, blaming a whole universe for his failure and fate. Self-pity is a very addictive, sweet poison. But it is a learned behavior. When we humans encounter adversity, then we can react in many ways. Unfortunately, we often choose to blame circumstances and wallow in that sweet toxic feeling, expecting others to pity us endlessly. But the problem is, that thing would keep you forever on the bottom, making you an eternal loser. The whole incel industry is precisely about that. You have to stop using this behavior right now. You need to replace it with a much better response. The decision to never surrender to anything except God, the decision to continue to live, fight, and be even rightly enraged sometimes. You have to learn to react differently to adversity. Do it consciously until it becomes a learned habit. Replace pity even with anger (avoid uncontrolled, destructive rage) but never go back to sorrow and nihilism again. Keep going and fighting. This world is not a place to rest. Heaven will be. The world is not fair and is full of evil. So what? Do you let him win even without trying to fight? No way. Never surrender to this fallen world, govt, culture, and all kinds of pathetic sucker rulers around. Look at the heroes of the Bible. They never succumbed to any hardship. These men are our role models, not modern effeminate cowards. [/QUOTE]

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