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<blockquote data-quote="BURNΞR" data-source="post: 1569622" data-attributes="member: 11032"><p>Without going to much detail I will say I also grew up in Canada and I have you beat. It's not a competition but yeah I just wanted to point out that your story is actually not that uncommon. Every other man in Canada obsessively looks at porn, looks like garbage, and has done nothing impressive in the entire scope of their life and they are worse off because they are not in their 20's like you. Half of Millennials and zoomers live with their parents in North America after university/college, work in some dead end job. Studies are increasingly showing trends in incel-dom in Zoomers. You are not special.</p><p></p><p>I find this demonic possession thing absurd but you might feel reassured if you actually spoke to a Christian spiritual leader that could tell you this. I've had high anxiety my entire life and had to see the doctor a lot because I thought I had cancer or other serious problems.</p><p></p><p>I only STARTED to turn my life around 26-27 and I did it by leaving Canada. I wouldn't blame parents too much, they are doing their best and in Canada this tends to go unrewarded. This place is like a meatgrinder for immigrants. Hopeful people are persuaded to come here and get dejected when they realized there is no opportunity.</p><p></p><p>I think you've done the right thing by coming here for advice instead of soyful places like Reddit. And in my opinion your situation is not that difficult to turn around. My only practical piece of advice for now is to sit down everyday with a notepad and write down 1. what your concerns are and 2. your thoughts on how to turn this around. Do this for 10 minutes everyday. I can guarantee you will feel better if you can organize your thoughts like this and give yourself actionable advice that can change your life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BURNΞR, post: 1569622, member: 11032"] Without going to much detail I will say I also grew up in Canada and I have you beat. It's not a competition but yeah I just wanted to point out that your story is actually not that uncommon. Every other man in Canada obsessively looks at porn, looks like garbage, and has done nothing impressive in the entire scope of their life and they are worse off because they are not in their 20's like you. Half of Millennials and zoomers live with their parents in North America after university/college, work in some dead end job. Studies are increasingly showing trends in incel-dom in Zoomers. You are not special. I find this demonic possession thing absurd but you might feel reassured if you actually spoke to a Christian spiritual leader that could tell you this. I've had high anxiety my entire life and had to see the doctor a lot because I thought I had cancer or other serious problems. I only STARTED to turn my life around 26-27 and I did it by leaving Canada. I wouldn't blame parents too much, they are doing their best and in Canada this tends to go unrewarded. This place is like a meatgrinder for immigrants. Hopeful people are persuaded to come here and get dejected when they realized there is no opportunity. I think you've done the right thing by coming here for advice instead of soyful places like Reddit. And in my opinion your situation is not that difficult to turn around. My only practical piece of advice for now is to sit down everyday with a notepad and write down 1. what your concerns are and 2. your thoughts on how to turn this around. Do this for 10 minutes everyday. I can guarantee you will feel better if you can organize your thoughts like this and give yourself actionable advice that can change your life. [/QUOTE]
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