I remain friendly with people where I can, and either avoid certain issues or just slowly drop red pills in the hopes that they will finally see the truth. I think there is a post here about "when you first became redpilled" and there are a variety of answers: 911, JFK, Covid, Epstein, Trump, etc. You could have ranted all day long about the JFK assassination to someone but until they finally had their awakening, they would just have viewed you as weird. I wish it was easier to wake people up, but it's not so the best thing to do is often to put aside disagreements, focus on your commanalities, and hope you can eventually wake them up piece by piece.
There’s a good way to shock normies in a way you’ll agree with. But you need to be willing to get a bit dirty.
You need to be in the same room with them. Check your phone, react..
And when they ask what it is, show them a graphic picture from any one of the groomer books floating out there. If you need a reference use the book “My body is growing” which is for ages 4-8 and contains a graphic description of sex Including a description of how a penis “sprays semen”.
I’ve tried it and the result is that they’re mortified and horrified. Even some normie Libs conceded that parents are mad for good reason.