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NYT Article: "What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity"
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<blockquote data-quote="armenia4ever" data-source="post: 1183498" data-attributes="member: 7713"><p>Blame lies with her and the men she slept with.</p><p></p><p>She KNEW those men were married. It didn't matter. That's a sign of the degeneracy of the age. Dosequis made the point we would have given some Chad a pass if the roles were reversed.</p><p></p><p>Maybe 5-10 years ago, but now many of us see how it undermines family stability which is what we all have been lamenting the lack of. If some Chad was sleeping with married women and destroying their marriages, we might point out the husbands beta behavior, but most of us would denounce Chads actions. </p><p></p><p>Adultery was a big deal for MANY cultures around the world because of what it does to the family foundations and the relationships between husbands and wives. Yet after the sexual revolution we give it a pass. </p><p></p><p>Marriage should be sacred and if we ever want to rebuild the good that was in the West, we have to start there and with the family.</p><p></p><p>This degeneracy is everywhere in our culture that does not respect marriage. </p><p></p><p>When my wife was going to a local community college, a guy in her class wouldn't stop hitting on her. I can respect boldness, but when you find out someone is married? (Obvious considering her ring)</p><p></p><p>The guy openly talked about his dick to her and how he was gonna fuck her. Turns out this guy loved the hunt of all of it. He had fucked some other married girl in one of his classes and after finally doing the deed, he dipped. Destroyed her marriage. It was a notch for him.</p><p></p><p>Imagine that same thing happened 500 years ago in somebody's village or city. This this man would have been lynched and probably killed by the community.</p><p></p><p>My works works as a waitress where this 50 year old drug dealer ask sir everyday when he's there about when she's coming home with him while flashing huge stacks of cash. I met the dude when I stopped by there for lunch and played it cool.</p><p></p><p>The first story he tells me is how he - some short Mexican dude dresses like he's some sort of Thug still - beat up his neighbor who was huge polish guy. </p><p></p><p>I keep thinking to myself that this guy is acting like he's 20 years old even though he's 50. The guy apparently did some sort of stint in jail, but hasn't learned anything in 50 years. To quote Trump, "Sad!"</p><p></p><p>I understand why men cheat. I understand why women will cheat. I especially understand how men who haven't slept with their wives in forever might cheat, and yeah their wives should see it coming. </p><p></p><p>However if we want to build for a solid foundation for the future, we can't excuse the behavior.</p><p></p><p>Dosequis mentioned that the men should divorce their wives and then sleep around. In this day and age, divorce can ruin a man. We should be encouraging men to take the lead to better themselves and take the lead in restoring the relationship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="armenia4ever, post: 1183498, member: 7713"] Blame lies with her and the men she slept with. She KNEW those men were married. It didn't matter. That's a sign of the degeneracy of the age. Dosequis made the point we would have given some Chad a pass if the roles were reversed. Maybe 5-10 years ago, but now many of us see how it undermines family stability which is what we all have been lamenting the lack of. If some Chad was sleeping with married women and destroying their marriages, we might point out the husbands beta behavior, but most of us would denounce Chads actions. Adultery was a big deal for MANY cultures around the world because of what it does to the family foundations and the relationships between husbands and wives. Yet after the sexual revolution we give it a pass. Marriage should be sacred and if we ever want to rebuild the good that was in the West, we have to start there and with the family. This degeneracy is everywhere in our culture that does not respect marriage. When my wife was going to a local community college, a guy in her class wouldn't stop hitting on her. I can respect boldness, but when you find out someone is married? (Obvious considering her ring) The guy openly talked about his dick to her and how he was gonna fuck her. Turns out this guy loved the hunt of all of it. He had fucked some other married girl in one of his classes and after finally doing the deed, he dipped. Destroyed her marriage. It was a notch for him. Imagine that same thing happened 500 years ago in somebody's village or city. This this man would have been lynched and probably killed by the community. My works works as a waitress where this 50 year old drug dealer ask sir everyday when he's there about when she's coming home with him while flashing huge stacks of cash. I met the dude when I stopped by there for lunch and played it cool. The first story he tells me is how he - some short Mexican dude dresses like he's some sort of Thug still - beat up his neighbor who was huge polish guy. I keep thinking to myself that this guy is acting like he's 20 years old even though he's 50. The guy apparently did some sort of stint in jail, but hasn't learned anything in 50 years. To quote Trump, "Sad!" I understand why men cheat. I understand why women will cheat. I especially understand how men who haven't slept with their wives in forever might cheat, and yeah their wives should see it coming. However if we want to build for a solid foundation for the future, we can't excuse the behavior. Dosequis mentioned that the men should divorce their wives and then sleep around. In this day and age, divorce can ruin a man. We should be encouraging men to take the lead to better themselves and take the lead in restoring the relationship. [/QUOTE]
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