You were "46 and single and wanting to find a good submissive wife" , and "the Holy Spirit" urgently sent you to Vietnam??My friend, may I ask if you believe in God?
I'm 46, two failed marriages, and had come to terms with finishing my life alone.
I prayed to God that if it was His will that I live alone, then I'd do the best I could to serve Him in that position.
Without writing a novel here, I'll tell you that the Holy Spirit overwhelmingly directed me to Vietnam. I met my fiancée in a place I never thought possible. We have an 8 month old son that has given me purpose. My fiancée is a devoted Christian, knows the truth about this world, submissive, and dedicated to her role in the hierarchy.
While I led her in sin by having premarital sex (I've repented and will not have intercourse again until married), there is no denying the gifts that the Lord has blessed me with. I had a hard time with having a mixed child, but he's a beautiful boy.
I understand the difficulty finding a good woman in the west and I'm handsome and workout daily. I found that I couldn't connect with many western women on the inside. Thats really where it matters imo.
Don't give up. Pray
Well, seems like the "Holy Spirit" has played it safe and wisely with you. For Vietnam/Phils it had to be, indeed.