Sad, but true. The overexposure of tech and the in your face sexuality makes it even worse for these dudes. We should pray for everyone, but them, too. Seriously.
Brodiaga said:^What makes you think the world will improve for guys like him? If anything, the world is getting worse for him, not better. In the 1950s this guy could find a decent wife and have children if he had his shit together. He wouldn't find the most attractive girl but he would find wife material, someone who is not obese or crazy. Now he is completely fucked unless he goes to a poor country like the Philippines.
Blade Runner said:Sad, but true. The overexposure of tech and the in your face sexuality makes it even worse for these dudes. We should pray for everyone, but them, too. Seriously.
just a human said:I see that many man don't understand, that women see online dating apps different than we. They don't use them for dating. Mostly. When online dating was new- yes, many women wanted to try- how it is, to have sex with whatever man they want. They tried it, and thats all. Those times are gone. Because females biologically are different. They don't have this hormonal pressure, and constant need for sex, that males have. They just wanted to try it, cause it was new and exciting. Now they mostly use those apps for feeding themselves with false illusion , that all man want them. They don't need real action, real sex, as much as we need. This illusion is enough for them. They compensate somehow their poor existence this way.
But there was an excellent comment by one women, on reddits red pill woman's forum- she wrote, that many women don't understand that , if a man want to take her home for one night, it doesn't mean, that he will want to take her home for Christmas.
So- misunderstanding still goes both ways...
Tinder is presently offering free Passport feature -- it lets you swipe anywhere in the world. I recently made an account and to my surprise got tons of prospective matches. Only to find that most were girls using passport from Mexico or Thailand to swipe in my major metropolitan American city.
I talked to a few and they were as vapid or rude as any American girl. It's an old tale that these chicks from shit hole countries are submissive. Unless you're rich, the internet has given them a smorgasbord of options much like their Western counterparts.
People who engage in online dating are self-selected. What they all have in common is, nobody they know in real life wants to date them. Think about that — if a guy is on OKCupid or Tinder, the one thing you know about him is, he couldn’t find a girlfriend any other way. Simply by signing up for a site, he’s advertising the fact that he’s a loser.