Online dating in 2007 vs now: what the h-ll happened?

[Blade Runner]

Ha, I read the whole thing ... funny to me while reading it: blah blah blah blah blah
Leslie, why you wasting all of our time? just say "Girls, look out for a guys on Bumble, they might not be what they seem."

jaja, "el abuso hacia mujeres" ... me parece que ya lo haceis vosotras muy bien por si mismas - despues de todo, estan en Bumble, no?

 

[griffinmill]

The problem with dating apps is that it's the sexual marketplace on steroids.

I do better than most men. I'm currently sitting at 250 matches on Tinder since having it on my phone for 6 months. That means I must be in the upper percentile of attractiveness since I know some people who hardly even get any matches at all.

But how many of those matches am I converting?

Am I ever meeting 25-35 year old non-single moms who are slim and semi-attractive?

No.

Any girl who is willing to actually put on a nice dress and leave her house to come and meet you has an SMV that is dented in some way. There are very minimal exceptions to this rule in the UK or America.

Unless you are a male 8 or 9. But even then, yes, even then, it's not going to be a walk in the park for you. It's just going to be slightly easier for you than a man of below-average looks.

I need to leave the UK to meet girls from apps who are on my level of SMV. In other European countries I'm at least meeting young girls who I find attractive. But apps today, in 2020, are a slog, and a real drain on not only your time but your mental health.

 

[marcelo_redpill]

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[marcelo_redpill]

Another thing that's worth mentioning is that online dating has exposed women's sexual racism. Ethnic women, particularly asians and indian women, hate their own race of men and want white men. There are countless stats to back this up.

there is a article in internet called "white men wanted" but usuall who really wants white men is latina/hispanic and blacks.

 

[robinman]

there is a article in internet called "white men wanted" but usuall who really wants white men is latina/hispanic and blacks.

asian women definitely want them

 

[SlickyBoy]

Let that sink in. They can just sit there and check their Snapchat/IG notifications once in a while. They don't even have to open up a separate app and swipe their thumb right. Even that is more work than they need to do to get laid with an endless stream of guys they find attractive.

This is why hot women are useless - because they don't have to be useful.

But my guess is while dating apps are still the occasional boredom toy for most single western women, they are less important than "ordinary" social networking. IG simultaneously validates social circles as well as the tingles of travel, appearance and wealth. It's totally free and they can pretend they aren't even dating while using it. Even when supposedly committed, modern women can keep the "for rent" sign hanging outside and get indignant when their boyfriend/husband dares protest their constant self-marketing to men everywhere. Dating apps now are little more than forwarding services for IG (and until recently, TikTok) accounts.

Giving an 18 year old woman a limitless supply of dick in a society that trains them to indulge is like giving an 18 year old guy ten million dollars in cash with no trustee preventing him from blowing it all.

The difference is even if an 18 year old guy blew 10 million dollars and was broke ten years later, he could dust himself off and recover.

But there is no such reset for the 18 year old girl who blows 10 million guys and is broken ten years later.

Traditional values became traditions for a reason - anything less was tantamount to community suicide.

 

[nomadbrah]

Did you guys see this study:

Are men intimidated by highly educated women? Undercover on Tinder

In this study, we examine the impact of an individual's education level on her/his mating success on the mobile dating app Tinder. To do so, we conduc…

www.sciencedirect.com

The preference for hypergamy is confirmed when comparing the situation of hypergamy directly to the situation of no hypergamy. Indeed, when considering all subjects, they are 26.5% more likely to (super)like an evaluated profile that is higher educated than themselves, compared to when that is not the case. This effect is driven by the female subjects, who (super)like higher educated profiles 92.2% more often, while this effect is not significant for the male subjects.

Just write you have a PHD in Theology.

 

[SlickyBoy]

^yeah, because it can never be their fault the guys don't want them.

 

[robinman]

Here's the sickest part. Yubo

Literally a hookup app for teens. So basically society has created a platform for young adult men to beg jailbaits for sex under the guise of "looking for friends"

You can find countless articles on teenage sluts using online dating:

How uncommon is it for adult men to 'court' teen girls?

The culture they described is limited mostly to fundamentalist religious communities, including certain Christian groups and some Orthodox Jewish or Mormon communities.

www.al.com

I'm a teenager and I'm attracted to older men 15-30 years older than me. I'm not attracted to boys my age. What should I do?

Answer (1 of 75): You should wait. Fact the first: thoughts are not wrong. You feel what you feel. You like what you like. If older men do it for you, honey, then that's what you like. And that’s fine. Fact the second: you are not alone, this is not unusual. Again, if it doesn't bother you that...

www.quora.com

Tinder Is Full Of Teenagers

The massively popular dating app claims to block underage users. The only workaround? Lying. And everyone is doing it.

www.fatherly.com

I just found out that my 15 years old daughter has been using Tinder app by lying of her age to 19. Most of her messages are from guys wa...

Answer (1 of 5): Tell her she is really putting herself and the men in terrible predicaments. Sit her down and tell her that you are aware of what’s going on. Tell her you’re not angry but concerned. Kids do dumb things. It’s your job to communicate with them and inform them. My father often puni...

www.quora.com

i could post ENDLESS LINKS

but let's be real, little girls want to be fucked by grown men, i mean that's how history worked for thousands of years, so why do people try and deny it happens today? we all know tinder is where 99% of people fraud. why is it hard to believe a hormone driven teen slut would't lie to fuck a 26 year old stud?

 

[SlickyBoy]

Tinder Is Full Of Teenagers

The massively popular dating app claims to block underage users. The only workaround? Lying. And everyone is doing it.

www.fatherly.com

From that article:

Jenna joined Tinder in 2016, shortly after the company announced that the platform would be excluding the 13- to 17-year-olds it had previously welcomed. Though Tinder co-founder Justin Mateen had defended providing young people with access, saying it was a way to make friends, the company caved to public pressure.

I had no idea they even tried to let that slip by at Tinder when it first came out - WTF? That company had a team of lawyers and compliance people review this and they knew exactly what the risks were and they took them. They figured they could jump start their user base for a period before the public demanded they cease, and gain some publicity in the process. Very calculated.

 

[lonetraveler]

Deleting all dating apps is the single best choice you can ever make in life. It took me a while to learn this lesson. I kept hoping. Ever since I deleted all my apps and truly moved on from ever thinking about "what if", I have become happier, I have more time and I have more money. Dating apps are nothing but an emotion and monetary drain you. You will not find what you are looking for on dating apps. Yes, you've heard the stories of the people that do but it's like winning the lottery and you don't invest your life savings into the lottery, do you?

The problem with dating apps is that the women who use them get trained by the apps to become greedy. There is a constant rotation of desserts on the dessert tray as a woman so women get trained to always want more. You will never amount to their expectations with dating apps and she will treat you as if you don't amount to her expectations. You will feel the way she treats you as being lesser than what she truly desires in the relationship and the second she decides she's tired of you or has found a suitable replacement guy, she moves on.

Unless you want to date a desperate fat ugly girl, just delete dating apps and never install them ever again.

Occasionally I try those apps again due to the "what if" and they never fail to disappoint me again. They are demoralizing and the profiles are predictably bad. If you were to reverse the genders, the things that they write would look even more pathetic.

"Don't be boring"
"I probably won't respond"
"Shoot your shot, send your best pickup line"
"Please be funny"
"Send me $5 on venmo/cashapp"
"Add me on instagram/snapchat"
"I'll probably like your dog more than you"
"Swipe left if you disagree with me politically"
"If you don't like fat/thicc girls.."
"Call her daddy"
"I like to travel" (for instagram photos)
* Single mom *
* Convenient political message for virtue signal points *

 

[GibsMeDat]

Occasionally I try those apps again due to the "what if" and they never fail to disappoint me again. They are demoralizing and the profiles are predictably bad. If you were to reverse the genders, the things that they write would look even more pathetic.

"Don't be boring"
"I probably won't respond"
"Shoot your shot, send your best pickup line"
"Please be funny"
"Send me $5 on venmo/cashapp"
"Add me on instagram/snapchat"
"I'll probably like your dog more than you"
"Swipe left if you disagree with me politically"
"If you don't like fat/thicc girls.."
"Call her daddy"
"I like to travel" (for instagram photos)
* Single mom *
* Convenient political message for virtue signal points *

For a while, literally every chick also had "Black Lives Matter" or "All Cops Are Bastards" on their bios too

 

[lonetraveler]

For a while, literally every chick also had "Black Lives Matter" or "All Cops Are Bastards" on their bios too

They still do, it's dramatically worse now.

 

[Coja Petrus Uscan]

Something relevant has popped up on The Daily Mail:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...cGuirk-unmasked-vile-messages-got-sacked.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...-Tinder-creep-reveal-abused-rejected-him.html

A guy who I think could be said to be a chad - top 1% - has been publicly shamed and lost his job because he was 'harassing' women on Tinder:

Here is one of the women who have accused him:

Who I think would have fallen into the WNB category of most pre-July 2019 posters.

It's not the intention of the article, but gives you some insight into the situation.

He heavily negs women to the point an average guy would risk being reported to the police, but these women contend with him, trying to establish their value.

He also fornicated with this one:

on their first meeting,at which she just turned up at her home. The bang was enough for her, she moved on. Chad not like.

This is the state of Tinder. Chad's chasing 5s land-whales-to-be and being passed up by 7s after an ONS. Pakistan recently banned it. Maybe the only thing that country is doing right.

Western fathers just allow their daughters to be on what most men hope will be is a sex vending machine; while their sons are turned into raging simps by a sea of rejection. I've never seen the MSM cover online dating from a perspective of reality. Nothing on the reality of it for most men and constant references to hookup culture, which only exist for about 1% of males and another few percent get the odd bite.

 

[bucky]

Something relevant has popped up on The Daily Mail:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...cGuirk-unmasked-vile-messages-got-sacked.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...-Tinder-creep-reveal-abused-rejected-him.html

A guy who I think could be said to be a chad - top 1% - has been publicly shamed and lost his job because he was 'harassing' women on Tinder:

Here is one of the women who have accused him:

Who I think would have fallen into the WNB category of most pre-July 2019 posters.

It's not the intention of the article, but gives you some insight into the situation.

He heavily negs women to the point an average guy would risk being reported to the police, but these women contend with him, trying to establish their value.

He also fornicated with this one:

on their first meeting,at which she just turned up at her home. The bang was enough for her, she moved on. Chad not like.

This is the state of Tinder. Chad's chasing 5s land-whales-to-be and being passed up by 7s after an ONS. Pakistan recently banned it. Maybe the only thing that country is doing right.

Western fathers just allow their daughters to be on what most men hope will be is a sex vending machine; while their sons are turned into raging simps by a sea of rejection. I've never seen the MSM cover online dating from a perspective of reality. Nothing on the reality of it for most men and constant references to hookup culture, which only exist for about 1% of males and another few percent get the odd bite.

My initial takeaway from those article was that man, Aussie chicks are bad at makeup.

Seriously though, the dating scene looks ugly out there. I'm so glad to be happily married and I feel bad for young, single guys nowadays.

 

[Waverer]

The text exchanges look very petty and immature on both sides - but then don't these things always look that way? Why should anyone lose their job for it? And if him, why not her?

 

[FactusIRX]

Something relevant has popped up on The Daily Mail:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...cGuirk-unmasked-vile-messages-got-sacked.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...-Tinder-creep-reveal-abused-rejected-him.html

A guy who I think could be said to be a chad - top 1% - has been publicly shamed and lost his job because he was 'harassing' women on Tinder:

Here is one of the women who have accused him:

Who I think would have fallen into the WNB category of most pre-July 2019 posters.

It's not the intention of the article, but gives you some insight into the situation.

He heavily negs women to the point an average guy would risk being reported to the police, but these women contend with him, trying to establish their value.

He also fornicated with this one:

on their first meeting,at which she just turned up at her home. The bang was enough for her, she moved on. Chad not like.

This is the state of Tinder. Chad's chasing 5s land-whales-to-be and being passed up by 7s after an ONS. Pakistan recently banned it. Maybe the only thing that country is doing right.

Western fathers just allow their daughters to be on what most men hope will be is a sex vending machine; while their sons are turned into raging simps by a sea of rejection. I've never seen the MSM cover online dating from a perspective of reality. Nothing on the reality of it for most men and constant references to hookup culture, which only exist for about 1% of males and another few percent get the odd bite.

This story has everything you could want in 2020: roastie Tinder **** , covered in tattoos and makeup, who are in their 20s but look like they are in their 40s, psychopathic Chad who has learned he can be as mean as he wants to women because it gets him laid, and soyboy balding fat whiteknight reddit boss who just cannot believe a man would treat m'lady like that.

 

[Seeker79]

The high percentage of overweight or obese women in their 20s, is astounding.

 

[griffinmill]

If I went apeshit over every girl on an app who didn't want to meet me, I'd have no time for anything else.

Girls can change their minds at any moment. This is to be expected on Tinder.

Leaving voice messages like that and sending angry texts is serious sour grapes and actually reinforces the chick's opinion of herself (why else are you getting your panties in a bunch) and she can then go off - like here - and parade the messages to all her friends and even the media.

He shouldn't have lost his job though.

But yeah, a decent looking guy and in a country packed with hot women he's getting turned down by landwhales.

 

[KiwiInBudapest]

Haha. Can't say I really blame the Chad.

Sure, it's just stupid to send messages like that but I think most of us went through a bitter angry face during the early stages of red pill.
And I think he's probably just a guy that is ultimately looking for someone worthy to wife up and raise a family. But even if you got a lot of alternatives on these apps it's going to be depressing to just encounter woman after woman after woman with shitty attitude who tells you feminist bullshit and who got no value to offer you besides her vagina.