I don't know where a better place might be for this, but I was listening to the Lord of Spirits recent episode on marriage, and while I agree with most of the things they say, I'll occasionally find myself debating a nuance of the approach, and I'm not sure if it is because the priests/fathers are married. If you look at society now, you come to the realization that hierarchical order and men in proper control of a society is necessary, as the realization that God is our Father, and man is ordained as the priest of the creation. Yet you constantly see this confusion of what good christianity did for women, for example, being carried to the lengths of the modern day scenarios, which are totally corrupted and men (and God) being called evil. The essence of the red pill is that one shouldn't blame women; they are what they are. We are so far removed from this, though, that life has become absolutely awful (even though we have the material and convenience aspects) for the sexes. It is so bad at this point, that now Islam looks like they "know what they are doing", even having large portions of their practice and theology that are wrong, unhealthy, or at best inspired by false or questionable sources. What's worse is that you can't even talk about this, since the modern day (feminized in the west) is irrational and hysterical. I guess what I'm getting at is that those of us who want healthy relationships have realized that as long as man is not considered head, priest, or logical provider/protector/decider, how can anyone even remotely get along without chaos/destruction/loss of fertility entirely??? I don't know if there is an escape route for the priests to talk about this, but even the sharpest among them seem unwilling to restore a theology of St. John Chrysostom, for example, where we have defined roles and those do not include women in any position remotely close to authority. It sounds bad to the modern person but it seems so obvious to a critical thinker, it makes you almost depressed.