Fr. Josiah did have a video on this topic recently...My wife and I have been struggling to choose Godparents for our son. There just aren't that many married Orthodox we know who take the faith seriously and who have had good judgment in our times. There is one couple with children middle school and high school aged we decided to ask. We knew them from church but not extremely well, only meeting them in the past year, so they asked us to visit them so we could get to know each other better. They're still hesitant to say yes after that meeting but it was an enlightening experience to see what an Orthodox family looks like. I learned that the father disobeyed the Church authorities including our priest and continued going to Church during the lockdown, basically implied he would have to be arrested. He commented that the whole Church should have refused the leaders of our Church and gone anyways -this was after I criticized the leaders, so he turned it on me, saying I should have gone, but in a nice way. Very true and humbling! Who am I to make such a comment? I am no better than them.
Found out that they have already refused several people who wanted them to be Godparents because they didn't think the people asking took it seriously enough.
The mother stayed at home for many years after the children were born and now only works a few hours a week. The children are homeschooled though they do have some online classes, much much less on an hourly basis than actually going to school. They remarked that society is too corrupted to let your children be overly involved with it nowadays. Even group sports were no good they said, as how can you take your children to evening vespers or the Lenten services if they're in a group sport?
They stated that it is very important to teach your children obedience. They once gave their children some soup for dinner and the one daughter refused to have it so the father said "that's alright, you'll have it the next meal." That went on for quite a few meals until she finally did eat it and then there were never any problems after that. Children are also served last and they are never asked what they want. The children do not have internet on their phones and the family doesn't have a television. One of the daughters is now reading "Spiritual Warfare" by Saint Theophan the Recluse.
And get this - most of the family actually sleeps on boards with a thin mattress pad over it. They showed us the beds, and the beds are in fact hard, but it is apparently good for the back and you get used to it.
The family also has chickens and a garden. Suffice it to say they seem like a very saintly family. It was inspiring to see that you can live that life and have a saintly family in the midst of our metropolitan area so at least if they say no (praying they say yes), I learned a lot about how to be an Orthodox parent.