Purity obsession


Other Christian
Just learn from it and move on.

Next time let it happen naturally.

When you're secure in yourself you won't have to strategize how to be with the woman... It will just matriculate naturally.

My 2 cents.

Yes but I am still with her so can't just 'move on.'

I just have to live it but I am finding it difficult. I am not convinced this isn't a kind of self-sabotage as well.


Read Madonna-whore complex. Not a fan of Freud but he was right that a lot of men have this complex. Same as a "savior complex". They are self sabotage.

I think it comes from a lack of experience and/or options.

I have fallen for this trap too. You grow out of it eventually. Unless you never mature.