Just learn from it and move on.
Next time let it happen naturally.
When you're secure in yourself you won't have to strategize how to be with the woman... It will just matriculate naturally.
My 2 cents.
Yes but I am still with her so can't just 'move on.'
I just have to live it but I am finding it difficult. I am not convinced this isn't a kind of self-sabotage as well.