151 Anonymous
March 19th, 2013 @ 12:25 pm
{TL;DR This guy is an asshole who couldn’t get laid in Toronto and blames it all on the women.} Wow, I tried not to let this get to me, but I don’t think I can until after I’ve had myself a rant. First off, beware before you click this link–99.9% chance it will piss you off…you don’t even have to be from Toronto, you just have to hold a proper respect for women. This guy basically complains about 15 things he thinks are the reason he couldn’t get laid while in Toronto. First off, I guess Toronto women are just much better at sniffing out the sexist pig this douche is, and that’s not my personal opinion, he makes it obvious (at one point addressing us as “specimens”). He writes as if he’s entitled to a woman’s attention, and that if he does a good job at keeping it, he’s entitled to a one night stand. My counter towards all his reasonings:
1. DC or Toronto, you already disgust me by factoring in that women who care more about food after alcohol than sex are somehow that of the lower class. I’m not going to “slut shame”, neither is better than the other–a matter of a fact, it’s good that they want to sober up, if a CONSENSUAL one night stand is what they decide on, that’s on them, but ever think they just want to make the decision with a clearer mind frame? And even if they’re just hungry, who are you to bash on a female for craving food, are we SUPPOSED to want sex JUST BECAUSE we went to a club or bar? A woman is entitled, just like a man, to just want a damn night out–no other intentions or reasons.
2. Because of sexist jerks as yourself, many women have no choice but to be warry and build our defences up very high–cause the moment we’re raped or harassed the first person blamed is us. Rape culture, welcome to reality.
3. Who are you to judge another person’s “cool level”. In your article you come off as a guy who think he’s got so much game but came to Toronto and found out different and now he’s crying about it.
4. Judging by the picture you used for this point–you don’t even know what obese is. Frankly, it seems (due to the picture) any woman who doesn’t fit into the “slim” body type is automatically obese. There’s woman you think are hot, and anybody a pound larger is obese to you. Your objectifying of women is just getting worse and worse.
5. I don’t know the statistic or details of why you get more smiles in Montreal than you do in Toronto, but I’m just going to go with my bias opinion that we’re better at smelling out your type–the ones we don’t want. Assuming from this article that you spent most of your time in downtown Toronto, the real reason is probably because we get enough creeps like you that make it obvious sex is the only thing they have in mind. We’ve learned how to defend ourselves against it as best we can.
6. Once again, this “mother hen” you speak off is probably unattractive to you because you’re racist and seem to only think your view of a beautiful woman is some sort of official view of how all women should look. Also, back to rape culture. EXCUSE us for grouping ourselves just so we can worry less about being drugged or raped or harassed etc. Just like sometimes men have their “wing man” to help them score, us ladies, unfortunately, have our (as you’ve titled) “mother hens” for the night to help keep us safe.
7. What can I even say? You’re racist. Anybody not “white” is not of your taste, anything not of your taste is automatically ugly. You couldn’t even say it in a classy way. It’s understandable if Indian women or other races are not your taste, each person has a preference, but to insult them and say one is okay because they’ve made themselves “look more white” is just ridiculous.
8. Once again, you’re labeling women and putting tags on us like we’re animals. Grouping us in levels depending on how attractive you find us. You disgust me. As in us going into groups and “hordes”, I’ve already explained.
9. “Raising the egos of women”…you’re sexist is showing…again. Cause weather you like or dislike this PUA culture you seem to think is out of control–regardless your saying the women of Toronto aren’t good enough to have the
egos” that we do–also saying that women are only self confident because men/a male is the one feeding their ego. News flash, a woman doesn’t need a man to boost her self confidence…a man is not always the factor as to why a woman think’s she’s of high worth. A woman doesn’t need some asshole like you to tell her she’s pretty to BE pretty. Seems to me you think everything good about a woman has to rely on a man, and that females need some sort of male confirmation before they’re allowed to be happy.
10. I don’t know about DC, but 2AM last call isn’t exactly a rare occurrence, many states in the US have the same law. I don’t even know why you’re complaining. Come to the club or bar earlier if you’re so desperate for time.
11. Your ego just skyrockets into oblivion. You assume you’re entertaining and making good conversation. Unless you’re the woman on the other end, or you can read minds, you don’t decide for us who we think is a good or bad company.
12. Welcome to CANADA. Our tax is 0.13%, do some research before you travel. Not only that, bam, it would not be hard to find reviews online that tells you drinking and eating out in bars/clubs in Toronto is EXPENSIVE. Welcome to huge metropolis living. Oh, and to you less women willing to have sex with you is equal to crappier women.
13. I don’t understand why it’s a bad thing if people of neighbouring area codes chose to go into a larger cities downtown district to party–that’s generally the same for other large cities since they have better accommodations/choices/venues etc. Regardless, once again, you’re pretty much saying that the only use for bars and clubs is purely to get laid. Well, I don’t know about DC, but many people go to bars and clubs to wind down, dance, or just enjoy themselves IN PEACE FROM ASSHOLES LIKE YOU, after a long week of school or work. I’m sure there are people with the same intentions as you–but there’s no rule that only people looking for a one night stand are supposed to go to bars and clubs. That’s such a naive way of thinking.
14. Ugh, once again, you act like women are some damn sexual tool or arm candy. I don’t understand why it’s so acceptable in society for men to have “legitimate rights” to complain about friend zoning and the like but when a woman complains about creepers or even gets raped it’s HER in question and not the opposite sex. “Oh maybe you should’ve worn a longer skirt” etc. GTFO.
15. Regardless of what you saw, I’m sure women are the same. And not because of “lack of sex” but because, once again, welcome to the big city! Large city comes many obstacles like harder to find a job, etc. You pretty much have a view that sex is the a 100% MUST HAVE to be happy, and that’s actually kind of sad. I actually really pity you for having that view. I’m sure sex can bring happiness to some people, and I won’t judge, but it’s not THEEEE deciding factor. The deciding factor is ones self. So if women decide not having sex with you is what makes them happy, get over it. Suck it up. Maybe you should’ve worn your not so asshole revealing personality out.
All in all, many of the comments even agree with this guy and also complain about friend zoning, which just brings me back to my earlier point about it that I mentioned above. Seriously, as a wise man once said: “The women are the strong ones, truly.” I guess it’s true…considering the comments and about how these men keep complaining and blaming women for their happiness levels. Wake up men, just like men are not the key to a woman’s happiness, it’s vice versa. Grow the hell up and make your own happiness and don’t depend on a woman to do it for you.
