Requested perm ban (would like to thank a couple members)
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britchard said:
Its not upset or offended. I don't agree with core principles or values that a lot of members share.
Okay maybe I'm a little upset haha. There's too much hate, too much negativity, too much self loathing like fuck man. If the bitterness could be consumed everyone would OD
Also going out of your way to hurt peoples feelings, taking pics of them like wtf
I'm not with that.
Agree with what everyone else says, if you're over the forum, just quit looking at it and posting here, no need to make a thread and ask for a permanent ban, it doesn't kind of come off as a little try hardish.
I will go against the grain a bit, and say the guy does have a couple points I'll agree with at least about the group think that goes on here, but that's why I don't really bother posting on a lot of threads about racism, politics, gun control, etc.
Also while I agree with a lot of what Roosh has to say about fat women, I never really understood the fat shaming thing, I always figured Roosh did that and battle feminists as a way of creating "shock value" in order to draw attention and create a reaction, which obviously worked otherwise he wouldn't have been on The Dr. Oz show. No hate on Roosh, but my attitude is why bother and also why go so negative, better to keep a positive vibe. But like I said controversy creates attention, attention creates book sales, and gets you on TV shows which just keeps perpetuating the cycle.
I will go against the grain a bit, and say the guy does have a couple points I'll agree with at least about the group think that goes on here, but that's why I don't really bother posting on a lot of threads about racism, politics, gun control, etc.
Also while I agree with a lot of what Roosh has to say about fat women, I never really understood the fat shaming thing, I always figured Roosh did that and battle feminists as a way of creating "shock value" in order to draw attention and create a reaction, which obviously worked otherwise he wouldn't have been on The Dr. Oz show. No hate on Roosh, but my attitude is why bother and also why go so negative, better to keep a positive vibe. But like I said controversy creates attention, attention creates book sales, and gets you on TV shows which just keeps perpetuating the cycle.
You don't agree with my core values and principles?L M McCoy said:
Dude just avoid the bad and flow with the good.
It's what you should be doing in life anyways.
The world isn't pretty, but doesn't mean you can't have a good time while being fully aware of the bad going on.
I can understand why they see it as attention whoring.....because you posted about leaving. (I get the shoutouts - that's fine).
But you need to remember this "toxic" thing you talk about.
It's called reality - the gents on this forum including you have had the blindfold taken off and have seen how woman/men/humans really are.
You can't blind yourself again....I have a feeling there are other things playing a factor in your decision and you aren't fully disclosing them.
It's what you should be doing in life anyways.
The world isn't pretty, but doesn't mean you can't have a good time while being fully aware of the bad going on.
I can understand why they see it as attention whoring.....because you posted about leaving. (I get the shoutouts - that's fine).
But you need to remember this "toxic" thing you talk about.
It's called reality - the gents on this forum including you have had the blindfold taken off and have seen how woman/men/humans really are.
You can't blind yourself again....I have a feeling there are other things playing a factor in your decision and you aren't fully disclosing them.
^ Like Ziltoid said....a perfect example is Clean Slate http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-44564.html That guy registered an account 7 years ago, put it to sleep and then started it up again after a divorce.
Kamikaze
Woodpecker
Do people even know you're on this forum? If so, that was definitely a bad move. I would change my username BEFORE the ban, if that's the case.
This forum is just for fun, man. We have to admit there is a lot of racist trash, but also A LOT OF GOLD. I don't click on 95% of the thread titles, to be honest.
I am a poster on the RVF but I am not associated with it publicly. That was YOUR choice, and you fucked up. Roosh, Tuthmosis, MikeCF, Scorpion, Excelsior do not speak for me. You should know any all-male circle that talks as freely as this will be looked down upon by any bitch, male or female, who manages to find out.
Just read up and restrain your posting. I would recommend that thread I linked, honestly, as a refresher as to why the RVF is valuable. Where else are you going to get such a concentrated dose of real talk and truly valuable insights? Then again, you could just be a passive consumer and not contribute. But if that's the case, you could just learn to ease up on your posting, and make sure your quality-to-regular posts ratio remains high.
I would also not discount the forum as an opportunity to expand your writing skills. A well written, well thought-out post will receive recognition, and that's important. It will help you grow as a writer and as a person.
This is what you make of it. It's alright that you get offended by certain posts. Push back. I do. At a certain level, though, it's just disagreeing with people. It's alright to put your 2 cents in, but I really don't get the whole 'I don't want to be associated with this group,' that's bizarre. The idea that I could ever be associated with what EVERYONE here says makes absolutely no sense. Just ease up, find your voice and only post when you have something valuable to share.
Or go out with a fucking bang, not this soft shit.
This forum is just for fun, man. We have to admit there is a lot of racist trash, but also A LOT OF GOLD. I don't click on 95% of the thread titles, to be honest.
I am a poster on the RVF but I am not associated with it publicly. That was YOUR choice, and you fucked up. Roosh, Tuthmosis, MikeCF, Scorpion, Excelsior do not speak for me. You should know any all-male circle that talks as freely as this will be looked down upon by any bitch, male or female, who manages to find out.
Just read up and restrain your posting. I would recommend that thread I linked, honestly, as a refresher as to why the RVF is valuable. Where else are you going to get such a concentrated dose of real talk and truly valuable insights? Then again, you could just be a passive consumer and not contribute. But if that's the case, you could just learn to ease up on your posting, and make sure your quality-to-regular posts ratio remains high.
I would also not discount the forum as an opportunity to expand your writing skills. A well written, well thought-out post will receive recognition, and that's important. It will help you grow as a writer and as a person.
This is what you make of it. It's alright that you get offended by certain posts. Push back. I do. At a certain level, though, it's just disagreeing with people. It's alright to put your 2 cents in, but I really don't get the whole 'I don't want to be associated with this group,' that's bizarre. The idea that I could ever be associated with what EVERYONE here says makes absolutely no sense. Just ease up, find your voice and only post when you have something valuable to share.
Or go out with a fucking bang, not this soft shit.
Did your girlfriend discover this forum and say if you want to continue dating her you have to stop posting?
Common Mccoy there's more to this story!
Common Mccoy there's more to this story!
There is some great information on this forum and there is some bullshit on this forum.
In this Age of Information, we must filter the flow of information that we allow into our brains.
Fill your mind with constructive concepts and ideas -- Avoid depressing and destructive information. Or, learn to re-frame and re-formulate negativity into solution focused thought patterns.
In other words, stay away from the bullshit if it is having a negative effect on your mind state.
You are responsible for creating your own attitude and frame of mind. Thus, you must take responsibility for the information that you allow into your mind.
If you don't like it, don't look at it.
In this Age of Information, we must filter the flow of information that we allow into our brains.
Fill your mind with constructive concepts and ideas -- Avoid depressing and destructive information. Or, learn to re-frame and re-formulate negativity into solution focused thought patterns.
In other words, stay away from the bullshit if it is having a negative effect on your mind state.
You are responsible for creating your own attitude and frame of mind. Thus, you must take responsibility for the information that you allow into your mind.
If you don't like it, don't look at it.
TheWastelander
Ostrich
So if you felt the place is too negative then why didn't you try to liven it up with some positivity? And where in the hell did you see users taking pictures of fat girls? Do you believe everything Dr. Oz tells you?
Legendver2
Sparrow
vinman said:Roosh said:
A skeptical Roosh using the Skeptical Roosh GIF
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:mindblown:
That's so meta!
Enjoythedecline
Robin
Is this beta ?
At work but I actually wanna leave a more thoughtful reply.
The gist of it: I would prefer that Mccoy not get banned because he's really gone out of his way to help Blackliter. I'm not saying he should stay solely for that reason, but I found the fellow to always be constructive whenever he posted. The community is founded primarily upon helping men, so I hate to see a helpful guy cast out over poorly understood nonsense.
I'd say he should just go away for a few weeks and sort his shit out like we all would do if we found ourselves overwhelmed by negativity. Don't let the polemical elements of this community get you down.
Avoid race threads, whiny threads, threads started by members you don't know, doomsday threads and click bait threads. That is the short and narrow of it. There are a few threads I will not participate in simply because I find the concepts therein offense/insulting.
The gist of it: I would prefer that Mccoy not get banned because he's really gone out of his way to help Blackliter. I'm not saying he should stay solely for that reason, but I found the fellow to always be constructive whenever he posted. The community is founded primarily upon helping men, so I hate to see a helpful guy cast out over poorly understood nonsense.
I'd say he should just go away for a few weeks and sort his shit out like we all would do if we found ourselves overwhelmed by negativity. Don't let the polemical elements of this community get you down.
Avoid race threads, whiny threads, threads started by members you don't know, doomsday threads and click bait threads. That is the short and narrow of it. There are a few threads I will not participate in simply because I find the concepts therein offense/insulting.
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