Why not destroy her and her family's name? She earned it, and others deserve to know.
If they ask, I'm not saying shout it from the rooftops. Hiding shit promotes deception, as she did with you. Bad example by your dad.
I disagree entirely but I understand your opinion. I wanted to when it happened but I’m happy I didn’t now with a clear head.
Trust me people knew in the end anyway and if I had done that it would have reflected on me just as poorly, very low class thing to do. My father was saving my honor and not letting me be at her level, it worked.
Hate to put it this way but it may just be something you don’t understand, a cultural thing.