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<blockquote data-quote="tula" data-source="post: 1222492" data-attributes="member: 15703">I found your message searching for &quot;yellow fever&quot;. I registered only to respond your message. I did something similar to what you plan to do. I resigned from work in my country in order to go an Asian country. I do not know if it was a good decision and I do not know if your decision is good. But my decision brought me suffering.I did not get a good job. It will be difficult to get a job like I had. And I got sick with depression.I tried to find Asian wife. I did not find one as I imagined. It was an illusion what I thought about the Asian woman. The reality is different.What I suggest is: have a plan B. If it goes wrong, what are you going to do? I did not get a good job, running after an illusion.I'm hoping to recover. But that brought me a lot of suffering. I was depressed for months. And with depression, I can not find an Asian wife.Think if what you imagine about meeting a Latino woman: is it real or is an illusion?Think about: what if you cannot get a good job? Consider also other hypotheses. For example, find a Latina from your country online.Remember one video of a person who resigned from work in Japan to go to Thailand:&quot;Making Big Changes in Your Life: Fantasy vs Reality&quot;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LarCAeCG_7o" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LarCAeCG_7o</a>He suffered a lot because of that decision and gives good advice in the video.He says he burned the bridges and had nowhere to return. So he recommends experimenting first, because reality may be different from what the person imagines.If it does not work, you'd better have a plan. Make a safety net.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="tula, post: 1222492, member: 15703"] I found your message searching for "yellow fever". I registered only to respond your message. I did something similar to what you plan to do. I resigned from work in my country in order to go an Asian country. I do not know if it was a good decision and I do not know if your decision is good. But my decision brought me suffering. I did not get a good job. It will be difficult to get a job like I had. And I got sick with depression. I tried to find Asian wife. I did not find one as I imagined. It was an illusion what I thought about the Asian woman. The reality is different. What I suggest is: have a plan B. If it goes wrong, what are you going to do? I did not get a good job, running after an illusion. I'm hoping to recover. But that brought me a lot of suffering. I was depressed for months. And with depression, I can not find an Asian wife. Think if what you imagine about meeting a Latino woman: is it real or is an illusion? Think about: what if you cannot get a good job? Consider also other hypotheses. For example, find a Latina from your country online. Remember one video of a person who resigned from work in Japan to go to Thailand: "Making Big Changes in Your Life: Fantasy vs Reality" [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LarCAeCG_7o[/URL] He suffered a lot because of that decision and gives good advice in the video. He says he burned the bridges and had nowhere to return. So he recommends experimenting first, because reality may be different from what the person imagines. If it does not work, you'd better have a plan. Make a safety net. [/QUOTE]

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