Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone

There's no need to feel (that) sorry for them anyways, society is built to help them cope. They will spend the second four decades of their lives being spoonfed you-go-girl dogma and SSRIs and wealth transfers from families. Besides a dark period of lucidity when they're alone with their thoughts here or there they will mostly be sheltered from having to think about or feel the consequences of their decisions. You and I and everyone else here will be non-consensual sugar daddies and friendzoners by proxy.
Well, that doesn't sit well with me. Through taxation which has engendered a larger state I have already subsidized much of this anyway. It still doesn't make it right. Then again, that's why we're here on this forum.

One thing to point out. I have kids and I have a stable family. There is no comparing this to anything. At night when I'm putting my kids down and they embrace me, I often think to myself that this is what a billion dollars feels like. But even a billion isn't enough.

With that said, no amount of go-girl, anti-depressants and money will ever substitute for what I have. This is the wisdom behind "money doesn't get you everything et al.". Don't think for one second that superimposing a female "hero" in shat wars will make women not regret this. It is biology, there is a drive within them, as there is in men too, for kids and all the rest. Sure, like many things, such desires can be redirected, but only for so long. And this is the so long period.

They are miserable, make not mistake about it. And they are suffering. But, there is cause for our own resentment here. For these women deliberately disturbed an order of things and this misery they are and will endure is the price. This is a cautionary tale. And I've come to realize that much of the liberal left is a cautionary tale.
 

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They are miserable, make not mistake about it. And they are suffering. But, there is cause for our own resentment here. For these women deliberately disturbed an order of things and this misery they are and will endure is the price. This is a cautionary tale. And I've come to realize that much of the liberal left is a cautionary tale.
I have literally had women tell me how sad they are, how they wish they were married, how much they hurt (psychologically) from their abortion. I know a ton of hard left people, and they are all unhappy. Vegans, communists, outspoken feminists etc are all hurting. The proble is, they won't let anyone help them, and they will pass that hurt on to others.
 
I have literally had women tell me how sad they are, how they wish they were married, how much they hurt (psychologically) from their abortion. I know a ton of hard left people, and they are all unhappy. Vegans, communists, outspoken feminists etc are all hurting. The proble is, they won't let anyone help them, and they will pass that hurt on to others.
They say misery loves company. I shutter slightly, because once upon the time we regarded this piece of wisdom, true as it may be, as cliche. Today, I regard this as more of a statement versus cliche, because it describes, unfortunately, so much of what society is experiencing. Radical feminists are made because they are outside of of the mating paradigm and therefore they resent it. But their exclusion is for good reason. Destruction is all that is left for them. And so, if they can convert an unknowing female, especially one that is well within the mating paradigm, than they will and they'll do it with gusto. At the very least, they know they've created not necessarily someone just like them, but, someone that will suffer just as they do. We hear these sentiments throughout the canon of human experience. "Some people just want to see the world burn...", I think that's from Batman. This is a large part of their motivation and, therefore, the evil that resides just underneath the surface.
 
Always looking for newbies to groom to be as bitter and resentful as them to justify their choices and keep their fragile ego just this side of shattered.
Ah, and ego is at the center of it all, isn't it. This makes it all the more difficult to feel any sympathy for them.
 
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A lot of Gen X guys will retire and go overseas. They'll move to SEA or Eastern Europe, have a family late in life, marry women 30 years younger.

Meanwhile, many Gen X women will simply get old in the coffee shops with their aging bisexual purple-haired soul sisters talking about the male patriarchy.

No man will have left them a house or an insurance policy or pension.
 

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A lot of Gen X guys will retire and go overseas. They'll move to SEA or Eastern Europe, have a family late in life, marry women 30 years younger.

Meanwhile, many Gen X women will simply get old in the coffee shops with their aging bisexual purple-haired soul sisters talking about the male patriarchy.

No man will have left them a house or an insurance policy or pension.
I know plenty of gen x women that divorced their husbands for cash and prizes. However, most of them have been pretty foolish with it. I wonder what will happen to my generation, millenials. I think the men will simply be too broke to ever actually have a family at all.
 

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Late Gen X (1970-1980) was intensely cynical. They were also self-indulgent-professional college students who were in the school for 10 years, job hoppers, PC-revolutionaries and general nihilists. Many girls who came of age in the 90's when PC swept through the land bought into the patriarchy oppression and Lesbian chic and commitment-free sex through and through. The nineties was a decadent era when my generation (I was born in 1974) just sneered at all institutions-marriage, religion, family, government, traditions. Think REALITY BITES.

As for Gen Y, in my opinion Gen Y girls grew up in the nineties as daughters of Yuppies in a roaring economy when everybody could have a McMansion. Their expectations are high.

And the economy has been so bad in Gen Y's lifetime that none of them have been able to move out of their house. Its hard to get married when you do a teenager's job or live gig-to-gig. That, in my opinion, is why Gen Y males are so heavily involved in pornography. They simply cannot have a normal sex life because they live at home in their thirties.

Bottom Line: Many Gen Y middle-class whites won't reproduce. The people that reproduce are poor urban minorities and the rural white underclass and these births are haphazard hit-and-run results of short-term relationships. Poor people who have a bunch of kids.

A good number of middle class white Gen X and Gen Y males will move to other countries like Eastern Europe or SEA upon retirement. They will have families with younger women. Middle-class white women will die alone in record numbers.

We'll have a huge underclass, in my opinion. The middle-class will just vanish. You'll have some wealthy people with small families and a big underclass. Kind of like Brazil.
 

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I think you're right, pornography is a cope. I am in my early 30s and struggling to find employment that will let me do something other than split an apartment in a dingy part of town. It's impossible. So much manufacturing has been outsourced, people want a masters degree for jobs that 10 years ago only required a bachelors, and 10 years before that, only a highschool diploma.

I would love to have a family but I would literally have no where to raise them. And you're right about the expectations of Millenial women. Shockingly, I cannot stack up to their fathers, who have decades of work experience in an economy that actually valued labour and didn't denigrate men for being men.

But, I do know a ton of girls that got knocked up in highschool or their early 20s. All of them live with their parents and receive government assistance in some capacity, their children will probably grow up to be as near sighted and impulsive as their parents.
 

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The nineties was a halcyon Economic era when every middle-class 30 year old woman was a little girl whose Yuppie father could own a McMansion and make a great deal of money in the last great decade before NAFTA and the Great Recession and 9-11 and China become the US manufacturing plant.

For the underclass, this is not really relevant. Their time preference is so high and their education so minimal and their expectations so low that feeding kids they had through "chem-sex" on Food Stamps and sending them to bad public schools is immaterial. For them, pregnancy is simply a downside to casual hookups and once in a while they hit up a girl on the wrong night.

I feel middle-class PC Gen X did them no favors. The institutions like marriage and traditional gender roles and religion that protected them from upper-class exploitation like Epstein's circle were destroyed by sneering Gen X middle class who threw them bones like gender fluidity and hedonism and ethnic pride and PC in the nineties.
 
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edit: I just saw Dr. Black Pill's posts above after posting this, and it made me laugh even more, subject matter and name.
 
The nineties was a halcyon Economic era
Dr. BP harps on the nineties, but by and large he is right. The issue I have with demographics analysis is usually that it is extrapolated to make predictions, and although there is that saying, "demographics is destiny," most prognostications using these have been woefully errant. The 1980s and 1990s were a really good run, for quite a long time, post stagflation and market tumults of the 1970s (seriously, check those out). They set up the worst parts about modern society and emboldens them, even. Examples would be Universities and the rating system, money flowing like mad into college athletics and also into entertainment of pro sports, and technology increasing to set up pride for the market crashes of the 2000s.

It is interesting what will happen to Gen X and Y moving ahead. I've said this before, as a general rule, the average woman being caught up in career and "the economic future" started probably with girls born in the late 1970s. By the time you get to anyone born in the 1990s, the process was complete: total indoctrination success at university with huge loans, and tech that created smaller numbers of filthy rich for men, and tech related attention whoring and economic capitalization (time limited of course) for women.

Dr. Black Pill, what do you think is the current age range that will go to the East (EE or Far East) and have families?
 

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Gen Y never had a good run. Which must be a bummer, because unlike kids born in 1970 who grew up during Watergate and graduated from college in 1993 and entered the job market when anybody who could walk and talk could get a job, Gen Y came of age post 9-11 and worse, during the Great Recession.

Anyhow, in the next 20 years you'll see many Gen X males selling the house their parents left them and moving to Prague or Manila or wherever.

The finite number of Gen X-males mostly-who became wealthy from tech have second passports to New Zealand. Auckland is real popular. When things really get adverse in the US they'll simply move there. The average American has this idea that the 1% will stay and fight the good fight in the event of the total disintegration of the US-they won't. They'll hire a private jet and fly off to that house in NZ or Sydney and will be drinking champagne at 20,000 feet.

Middle-class Gen X will settle for a cut-rate version in developing countries of Southeast Asia or Eastern Europe.

A sixty year old white middle-class male can sell the house his parents left him, deposit his money in a Swiss bank account, move to Belarus and marry a 25 year old feminine Slavic or Asian woman. Not all, of course.

But Gen Y will see massive numbers of Gen X just emigrating overseas upon retirement. Nothing will stop them. No kids, no wife, nothing but their career.

I've been an expat since the age of 25 in 1999. I cannot say the US was perfect in the nineties. What I can say is that it went downhill as soon as George Bush was elected. Partly because of agreements like NAFTA that Clinton signed and partly because of trillion-dollar wars that went on for 20 years.

But if you had told me when I went overseas that one day the US would have cities overrun with homeless people and 35 year old men would live at home back when I left the US in 1999 I would have said it was impossible. But then again, in 2001 when I was 27 the idea of the US being at war for 20 years was incomprehensible.

The US has slowly become a third world country as the developing world caught up.

I was an investor in a horror film in the Philippines starring Sunny Leone https://retrosploitation.vhx.tv/products/i-eat-your-skin and I observed that even the highways in the Philippines are better than the US.

So I'm saying many Gen X will take off...that is, depending upon the exchange rate. If the US dollar is worth nothing in 10 or 20 years then they might not.

Men can reproduce at sixty. When all the cynical aloof bisexual Gen X alternative chicks who were the hotties of yesteryear with their purple hair with grey roots and Green Day concert tattoos are ending their lives poor and alone many Gen X men will be enjoying a nice villa in the tropics somewhere with a young exotic wife and young children.

Now mind you, not the lower class whites. I am from the Rust Belt and I know lower class whites. These men who had a kid out-of-wedlock at age 20 back in 1995 and wracked up a series of minor charges and did some jail time and only had a GED won't be going anywhere. But the middle class Gen X whites who never married, never had kids and did nothing but work and work will emigrate in vast numbers to get away from what will be a full-on Third World country in 20 years.

I should add that most of these will be European-Americans. More specifically they'll be WASPS.
 

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You're not wrong. I've seen this in Asia. A sixty five year old man with toddlers running around. Of course anyone can afford a nanny in Asia, and all of them have one.

But let me tell you about Stanley. My college roommate was a Polish-American football player from Flint, Michigan. He was a hell of a running back. But the summer of 1994-when I was 20-Stanely, a few years older, hit up a girl on the wrong night. In those days, if you hit up a Polish-American or Irish-American or Italian girl on the wrong night, you ran as far as you could or you married her. No abortion back then. Stanley married her and got stuck in Flint. He was most of the way through an advertising degree. Somehow his parents mortgage a house. The Flint really went downhill in the nineties. Crime rose so high that Olga left him, took the kid and moved to California. Stanley was stuck in Flint, managing some pizza place, making payments on a house that was worthless, living in a formerly tidy Polish enclave (If modest) that had become a ghetto. At night, he was like a peasant in Transylvania hiding from vampires. We got in touch on social media. His story made me shudder.

Myself, I married a slightly younger woman when I was 40 who was eight years younger, and we have two children. Which is probably optimal.

Anyhow, it will be bleakest for the Gen X hotties of yesteryear, who after a lifetime of nihilism, bisexual carousel-riding, birth control pills, hanging around the coffee shop, getting two Master degrees and being professional students, smoking marijuana to smooth over the rough spots and now have some grey in their dyed purple hair will be in a worse situation. Phoebe from FRIENDS and Winona Ryder's bad 90's attitude was kind of edgy in 1994 when they were in their twenties but when you are 50 you're just a cranky older woman.
 

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Late Gen X (1970-1980) was intensely cynical. They were also self-indulgent-professional college students who were in the school for 10 years, job hoppers, PC-revolutionaries and general nihilists. Many girls who came of age in the 90's when PC swept through the land bought into the patriarchy oppression and Lesbian chic and commitment-free sex through and through. The nineties was a decadent era when my generation (I was born in 1974) just sneered at all institutions-marriage, religion, family, government, traditions. Think REALITY BITES.

As for Gen Y, in my opinion Gen Y girls grew up in the nineties as daughters of Yuppies in a roaring economy when everybody could have a McMansion. Their expectations are high.

And the economy has been so bad in Gen Y's lifetime that none of them have been able to move out of their house. Its hard to get married when you do a teenager's job or live gig-to-gig. That, in my opinion, is why Gen Y males are so heavily involved in pornography. They simply cannot have a normal sex life because they live at home in their thirties.

Bottom Line: Many Gen Y middle-class whites won't reproduce. The people that reproduce are poor urban minorities and the rural white underclass and these births are haphazard hit-and-run results of short-term relationships. Poor people who have a bunch of kids.

A good number of middle class white Gen X and Gen Y males will move to other countries like Eastern Europe or SEA upon retirement. They will have families with younger women. Middle-class white women will die alone in record numbers.

We'll have a huge underclass, in my opinion. The middle-class will just vanish. You'll have some wealthy people with small families and a big underclass. Kind of like Brazil.
DBP you certainly live up to your name, myself as a Gen-Y I think I had it pretty good especially during the ten year commodity boom of 2004-14 during which I made over a million dollars working in the oil industry, even during the oil glut I made the most I ever have last year and am on track to make over 100K this year as I usually do. I agree that times are tough in certain areas and the dating market isn't great but for a young guy who is willing to move to where the money is and knows how to find a quality woman (yes, they're out there) it isn't as bad as you portray it as.
 
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