Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone

Young men do not have to do anything.

The great wheel of history is still turning.

We do not live in a static environment. Things are going to happen in this generation's lifetimes that will change things.

Pandemics happen in cycles, so do major wars....

If they are going to defeat the evil globalist regime that pretty much has unlimited power by now, they will have to win the greatest uphill battle in the history of the world. And I don't even know if they care to do so. Why not avoid that hell and almost certain death and instead eat ice cream and play video games and watch porn.

I have not given up but the situation is extremely dire. I am just grateful I got to enjoy some of the last few good years of the west before it collapsed, IMO, on 9/11/2001 and everything went sideways. But what these young men face is beyond devastating circumstances.
 
If they are going to defeat the evil globalist regime that pretty much has unlimited power by now, they will have to win the greatest uphill battle in the history of the world. And I don't even know if they care to do so. Why not avoid that hell and almost certain death and instead eat ice cream and play video games and watch porn.

I have not given up but the situation is extremely dire. I am just grateful I got to enjoy some of the last few good years of the west before it collapsed, IMO, on 9/11/2001 and everything went sideways. But what these young men face is beyond devastating circumstances.

Stalingrad was a massive uphill battle. But that didn't stop the Soldiers from fighting on and winning the Battle ultimately. So great is their will that there were even soldiers with guts hanging out were still shooting their guns.

Nothing created is undefeatable. And God will always have the last say. The Resurrection is a guarantee that this evil world will come to an end. God will Win.

So will we Win with him or Lose against Him?

Ultimate Hopelessness is Cowardice and Unbelief.

This is the unforgivable Sin of Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit Jesus talked about (Mark 3:22-30). Christians are not permitted to be truly hopeless even when everything else seems hopeless.

The Church survived all calamities by their hope in Jesus they never gave up hope no matter what.
 

jordypip23

Ostrich
Gold Member
You meet many like-minded men. Not women. In Southeast Asia you'll rarely meet a white woman. They may claim to dislike men but they cannot live without men and feel insecure due to local Asian women.

You'll never see a black woman of the ghetto variety overseas from the US. You'll never meet a Cholo. The real unpleasant white trash of the lowest order-the meth addicts or whiggers or slutty single mothers-never travel overseas. They're too uneducated, too unskilled, too poor, too entangled in the legal system, too addicted to drugs.

Mostly though, Americans overseas mind their own business. Some are running businesses and making money, others are just whore mongers (I'm not one) and a few like me simply cannot live under the strictures of the US.

All the males have one thing in common. No interest in the US or its culture or its problems.

I have not been back in the US for 13 years. Literally have not set foot there, period.

The only news I got was bad news. My brother called me once to tell me that our grandmother's condo in Detroit worth 400 K in 1986 sold for barely 1/5 of that because the formerly pleasant German-Polish neighborhood was taken over by Section 8 and became a giant crackhouse.

A few years later my brother called me to tell me he was leaving Los Angeles. He's an urban planner who lived in Orange County but still could not afford a private school and feared his daughter going to public schools with the Mexicans had trashed them. So he had to move to another state.

Not every white can move to a rural area of the US. You're actually more cut off and more backward in a rural US area than in a foreign city in Southeast Asia or Eastern Europe. I like living in cities with amenities and don't want to live in some 100 year old farmhouse with six feet of snow in the winter five miles down a dirt road from the nearest Wal Mart where there are no restaurants or ethnic cuisine. I don't like rural areas in the US and as an average working middle class white man its either that or move to another country.

I've got no attachment to Michigan. I would not live there if I were paid 10 times what a live on in SEA. Actually, Michigan became a third world country in the time I was living overseas so that now it looks worse than parts of Indian where I lived. Certainly worse than Dubai.

See, Americans are so ignorant often times that they can be made to believe that despite their squalor the ME or SEA is a "hell hole". I lived in Dubai. Believe me, its much nicer than Michigan. So is Bangkok. So is Hong Kong.

Sometime during the Bush era, the US lost its secure middle class and began to backslide into a third world country. Had you told me 20 years ago when I was living in America that it would be common to see entire white families on the street homeless, I'd have said that was impossible. After Bush was elected, the US went downhill fast.

Maybe it was military defense spending. Trillion dollar wars instead of high-speed rail or decent roads. Maybe NAFTA, because at the rate SoCal is going the Mexican cartels will be selling cocaine out of the Governor's office in 10 years.

Or perhaps it was simply Wall Street greed as wages stagnated while living costs rose.

I feel fortunate because I attended Central Michigan University with some Polish-American football players from Flint, Michigan. I knew one well named Stanley. Stanley dropped out of college his junior year to marry the Polish girl he impregnated and returned to Flint. In those days, you married a Catholic girl or ran out on her-abortion was not possible. Stanley got stuck in Flint. He did the best he could and paid off a mortgage on a modest house and got a management job. Anyhow, I contacted on social media not long ago. His house is worth nothing, his wife left him with the kid anyhow, a black guy shot him for no reason from behind in a random driveby and poisonous sludge comes out of his faucet.

I shuddered. Could have been me. I am very grateful to my college girlfriend for breaking up with me. I could have been trapped in Michigan in a house worth nothing in a bad economy sending my kids to some lousy public school where my son was introduced to crystal meth by the Mexican dealers in the eighth grade or my daughter was raped by black teen felons who were 18 and still in the eleventh grade. Scary stuff.

Luckily I got out. No debt either. I don't pay taxes. My savings are in a Hong Kong HSBC. I do nothing for the US.

Flint has mostly been a shithole for decades now (I feel for your friend). Much of Detroit has been extremely rough for a long time, save for the rebounded tiny inner "gentrified" core of the city just prior to the pandemic (Downtown, Midtown, Corktown). There are a few decent suburbs of Detroit left that have shown a nice rebound prior to the lockdown, but now even those may very well be in jeopardy & they aren't necessarily all that attainable on a pure middle class income either.
 

WEDO

Woodpecker
Young men do not have to do anything.

The great wheel of history is still turning.

We do not live in a static environment. Things are going to happen in this generation's lifetimes that will change things.

Pandemics happen in cycles, so do major wars....

It's definitely an uphill battle but there are two things American guys should do. Stop marrying or cohabitating with women that have children.
And fight like hell for custody of their children during a divorce. The only guys that I have ever seen get full custody were when the mother did drugs. But the guys that fought for full custody and lost seem to get more visition with their children than guys that just roll over because they feel the system is stacked against them.
 

kel

Ostrich
Completely ignore women with children, in fact. I stopped f*cking them, even, to do my part (lol). No validation whatsoever, not even to be used as my toy.

I've said it before, in this thread even probably, but longer term, we're going to have to be cruel to a lot of women as they age. It'll be sad, because at base we don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, and a lot of these women were just useful idiots led down the wrong path. But, that's life, and it's cruel. You only have a limited window, and women who missed it need to be used as cautionary tales for the good of future generations. Old cat ladies need to be at best mocked and more often just ignored. Don't listen to them in the public square, reject everything they say out of hand, make no attempts to ease their lives or their psychological burden (the state is going to do that anyways, no need for you to do it as an individual), they are uninvested in the future, they are dead ends and that can not be encouraged.
 

STG

Woodpecker
It's definitely an uphill battle but there are two things American guys should do. Stop marrying or cohabitating with women that have children.
And fight like hell for custody of their children during a divorce. The only guys that I have ever seen get full custody were when the mother did drugs. But the guys that fought for full custody and lost seem to get more visition with their children than guys that just roll over because they feel the system is stacked against them.

I agree.

The purpose of sex is to procreate. Your desire to procreate is to pass on your genes. Its simple. All living forms do this.

When you cohabitate and raise another man's seed, you cuck yourself. The reptilian part of your brain is satisfied because on some basic level having sex in pre-clown world meant you would eventually pass on your genes.

The man who wifes up a single mother and raises another man's children is the same genetic dead end as the guy who lives with his parents and never leaves the basement.

Why does a male lion kill the cubs of the pride when he takes over? Those cubs aren't his and he is there to pass on his genes. (No I am not saying infanticide is moral)

All American men are being cucked today. We have a welfare state that will take care of women regardless of who, how, or why they breed. Men pay more in taxes which is redistributed to the single mother's bastard children. Government housing, WIC, food stamps, etc. Pre-clown world a woman either had to keep her legs closed or have a shotgun marriage. A bastard child was shameful. Now a bastard child is a badge of honor.

The welfare state is destroying civilization. Will it take complete collapse to reverse things? It won't even be so much of a collapse as it would be a correction.
 
I agree.

The purpose of sex is to procreate. Your desire to procreate is to pass on your genes. Its simple. All living forms do this.

When you cohabitate and raise another man's seed, you cuck yourself. The reptilian part of your brain is satisfied because on some basic level having sex in pre-clown world meant you would eventually pass on your genes.

The man who wifes up a single mother and raises another man's children is the same genetic dead end as the guy who lives with his parents and never leaves the basement.

Why does a male lion kill the cubs of the pride when he takes over? Those cubs aren't his and he is there to pass on his genes. (No I am not saying infanticide is moral)

All American men are being cucked today. We have a welfare state that will take care of women regardless of who, how, or why they breed. Men pay more in taxes which is redistributed to the single mother's bastard children. Government housing, WIC, food stamps, etc. Pre-clown world a woman either had to keep her legs closed or have a shotgun marriage. A bastard child was shameful. Now a bastard child is a badge of honor.

The welfare state is destroying civilization. Will it take complete collapse to reverse things? It won't even be so much of a collapse as it would be a correction.

One of the ironies of the situation is that virtuous women (married and traditionalist women with political awareness) are cognizant that they are being "cucked" as well working part-time or seeing their husband's check being cut to pay for some other woman's brood.

Feminists even have a term for it: "The Mommy Wars." Yes, 60% of women (and 40% of stupid men) vote for the welfare state, but that also means that 40% of women vote against it. We don't see these women when we're single though because they're at home raising kids rather than at the clubs or at political rallies. Feminists secretly loath them.

I've seen a variety of themes on this issue including many on this page alone:

1) Christ will come and "sort it all out" during the end times. (Which begs the question, why form cultural movements to deal with something that God will take care of?)
2) Abortion is wrong. Yet, if a woman has a child out of wedlock with some guy that gamed her and fled, and realizes her mistake, should this child and woman be condemned to a rudderless life?
3) Men need to somehow "man up" and fix all this, on their own, as a bunch of herdless cats. I read above a comparison to D-day but D-day was a government initiative, headed by FDR, using many men who were conscripted into combat. Not individual red-pilled guys who need to be cultural revolutionaries.
4) Think in terms of darwin biology (have kids of your own, to heck with someone else's) but also, live up to God. Either we consider Darwin in terms of the lions eating the cubs OR a higher moral standard. But don't flirt with one while looking at the other (like that jealous girlfriend meme.)

I think many may be hoping for a version of what Roosh termed "poosy paradise" where unspoiled young women, without kids, are going to also be mature and ready to start a family. But are there enough such women and how to meet them without tearing the whole thing down?
 

STG

Woodpecker
2) Abortion is wrong. Yet, if a woman has a child out of wedlock with some guy that gamed her and fled, and realizes her mistake, should this child and woman be condemned to a rudderless life?

A woman either has responsibility and equality or she doesn't.

If you believe woman are equal to men: Some guy gamed her and fled, she is stuck with the child. That is her problem and no different then if I had a bastard child and the woman ran off. The way that her and her child's life is of no problem of mine just like the problems of other men in society aren't mine.

If you believe woman and men are different: That woman that was gamed and impregnated can be viewed almost as a property crime. This woman was a father's daughter and was still the father's to eventually marry off to a man the father approved of. This was how old fashioned America was, with shotgun weddings and enforced chastity until marriage. When the father married his daughter off to another man, the wife was now the "property" of the man who married her.

Now you have a mix of ideas. Woman are "equal" but they aren't. They have freedom to act in degeneracy but this is subsidized by the welfare state. In a way they get the best of both worlds. The welfare state has replaced the father and husband in the woman's life.

If you breed 'em, we'll feed 'em.
 

ball dont lie

Kingfisher
Gold Member
ONE
After he came home from work he would shove dinner in, jump onto the couch and lay there watching cheap TV shows for the remainder of the night - with his feet up high. The kids and his waifu had to share the other sofa. He wouldn't ask how we did at school, how his waifu felt, how everything was going etc. The only thing he would say was 'YOU ARE BLOCKING MY VIEW' whenever someone would walk past him

TWO

Fastfoward 20/25 years.

I got a friend who fits the physical description of my dad. Short, with an average face. He is a general practicioner living in one of the bigger cities in The Netherlands. He speaks 4 languages and is socially calibrated. He also likes to go to the gym at least 2/3 times a week

And he is an incel. He gets no play from the girls because he is short, and because everything else about him is just average


THREE

They also spend more time in the gym. Are more fashion conscious, are taller than their parents, spend more money on dating and self improvement..

Yet my friend is an incel and my father laid on the couch farting and eating pizza from his chest for years. Walking around on the same leather slippers for 2 years +. With no fear that his wife would ever leave him. My doctor friend also has no real capital despite belonging to the top 20 percent of the population

Times have changed, things have gotten so much harder. It's too easy to be judgemental as an older person.


ONE
You are underestimating this guy from the previous generation's vibe and mindset. He did not give a fuck about the wife and that had a real effect on the relationship. He was letting his wife know his place in the relationship. Guys these days are scared out of their mind to say anything that would in any way, possibly, be taken negatively by the female. Women dont want neutered puppies who work out all the time and wear tight clothes.


TWO
Again, what is the mindset of this guy. So what he is a doctor. So what he makes money. I used to work with a LOT of Dutch guys in China, a whole department of them. Every single one was feminine, scared of conflict and had terrible mindsets.

Being short does not matter. There are many women who dont care.


THREE
Yes, Things are worse. And then what? Complain? This entire forum was for years was the answer to the question, then what.

Were things easier before? Yes, absolutely, without question.

The first thing he should do is get out of that city. Go somewhere that doesnt have an enormous housing price bubble. Save money instead of putting it all into an overpriced apartment. It clearly isnt improving his quality of life, since he is getting it to be in the city. A place that has been bad for him.

Then he needs to work on his mindset. If you begin each day thinking that everything is against you and im short so nobody will like me. How on Earth could he succeed.



My suggestion would be to find older posts in the forum and read them. There is a lot of knowledge there about being positive, good mindset, living life for you and not for some woman, finding your own purpose and focusing on that, etc.

All those things will make getting women easy and at the same time, let that person understand the women are not the important part of life, just something that comes once you get the rest in order, including finding meaning.
 

ginsu

Woodpecker
Since no one is saying it and it has to be said. The essence of where the criticism is coming from is lost on the guys who think they are complaints from people who didn't do enough self development.

They are meant as warning signals and a call to come together to form some kind of conclusion or even a course of action before its too late. It already is too late (IMO) but the fact that guys are still bothering to criticize/complain about it means they still have hope that it can be turned around. and are looking for solutions. After all the first step to solve something is to understand the problem completely. This is the opposite of pessimism.

The guys who are '' complaining'' are doing so because they are able to think outside of themselves and are considering the fate of the average person and the next generations. Its a ''me,myself and i'' mindset VS big picture societal thinking.

I imagine most guys here are happy about their own future. If they took and are taking advantage from having access to the knowledge on this forum and many other places like it. Its easy to reach the top 20% of men, and from there just a few years to reach the top 10% and if you then move to the right place/country you can skyrocket to the top 5/3%. Everyone knows this, no one needs to read it again. Its not about you and me as individuals.

Its about not wanting to see society deteriorate even more and the concern we have about our countrymen, family, children and grand children. While i am optimistic about my own future, i fear for everyone else i care about who is not awake enough to see the cliff that they are headed towards. This is where the critiques about modern life are coming from. Its also normal to have a period of mourning/anger/complaints upon realizing the downfall of western society and the rot its spreading around the world. It takes time to process and you can never really get over it completely.

Only if you completely lack empathy can you just focus on your own success in life. While disregarding the rapid deterioration of society and the effects it has on the average person. While they are ignorant by their own choice i still feel compassion for them, even more so for the younger ones.

I think most on here who are critical (complaining) about society are coming from that perspective. Don't take it to mean that they are not doing enough to improve their own lives or that they are depressed. But that we want the best for everyone else too, and don't want to see more suffering.

Its nice that our lives are good, But at some point the majority will drag you down with them. You can work on yourself as much as you like but no man is an island. The trends in society will eventually catch up to you, your children or your grandchildren THAT is what this complaining is about. Guys are concerned with the world their children are going to inherit. Individual self development is not enough to relieve those worries.
 
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Blade Runner

Pelican
Only if you completely lack empathy can you just focus on your own success in life. While disregarding the rapid deterioration of society and the effects it has on the average person. While they are ignorant by their own choice i still feel compassion for them, even more so for the younger ones.

I think most on here who are critical (complaining) about society are coming from that perspective. Don't take it to mean that they are not doing enough to improve their own lives or that they are depressed. But that we want the best for everyone else too, and don't want to see more suffering.

Its nice that our lives are good, But at some point the majority will drag you down with them. You can work on yourself as much as you like but no man is an island. The trends in society will eventually catch up to you, your children or your grandchildren THAT is what this complaining is about. Guys are concerned with the world their children are going to inherit. Individual self development is not enough to relieve those worries.

I've had to deal with the "suck it up" crowd before and usually this nuance falls on deaf ears for them. I am forgiving of them in the sense that we that visit this forum have a personality that lends to a "go get it" mentality, which is masculine and appropriate, but you adeptly point out the additional factors that I have also before. Those are, principally, that being shielded in part from the overall decline only lasts for so long --- you're still part of the society and it is indeed very important so that people can have goals to strive for and also trust in a system, or else chaos ensues. Your point about children/posterity cinches the conclusion.
 
Excellent posts Ginsu and Blade Runner. You hit the essence of the guys who are rightfully upset with things.

I'm in a position where I have made it. It has been 20+ years of hell but I made it. I don't worry about me. I worry about any children I may have. I want to leave them with enough to be safe. And then I realize between the coming one state Democratic party rule probably taxing my kid's inheritance into nothing combined with skyrocketing crime rate across the country, and you can't overlook how big this issue is.

The young guys are not complaining "it isn't fair" and the rightful advice is "pick yourself up by your bootstraps". The young guys are pointing out how f'ed society is and how it is very tough to escape it and soon you no longer will be able to escape it. And even if you have millions of dollars and the perfect wife and family, your kids will face the same hell. Men need to bond together and understand that advice from 20 years ago no longer works.
 
Since no one is saying it and it has to be said. The essence of where the criticism is coming from is lost on the guys who think they are complaints from people who didn't do enough self development.

They are meant as warning signals and a call to come together to form some kind of conclusion or even a course of action before its too late. It already is too late (IMO) but the fact that guys are still bothering to criticize/complain about it means they still have hope that it can be turned around. and are looking for solutions. After all the first step to solve something is to understand the problem completely. This is the opposite of pessimism.

The guys who are '' complaining'' are doing so because they are able to think outside of themselves and are considering the fate of the average person and the next generations. Its a ''me,myself and i'' mindset VS big picture societal thinking.

I imagine most guys here are happy about their own future. If they took and are taking advantage from having access to the knowledge on this forum and many other places like it. Its easy to reach the top 20% of men, and from there just a few years to reach the top 10% and if you then move to the right place/country you can skyrocket to the top 5/3%. Everyone knows this, no one needs to read it again. Its not about you and me as individuals.

Its about not wanting to see society deteriorate even more and the concern we have about our countrymen, family, children and grand children. While i am optimistic about my own future, i fear for everyone else i care about who is not awake enough to see the cliff that they are headed towards. This is where the critiques about modern life are coming from. Its also normal to have a period of mourning/anger/complaints upon realizing the downfall of western society and the rot its spreading around the world. It takes time to process and you can never really get over it completely.

Only if you completely lack empathy can you just focus on your own success in life. While disregarding the rapid deterioration of society and the effects it has on the average person. While they are ignorant by their own choice i still feel compassion for them, even more so for the younger ones.

I think most on here who are critical (complaining) about society are coming from that perspective. Don't take it to mean that they are not doing enough to improve their own lives or that they are depressed. But that we want the best for everyone else too, and don't want to see more suffering.

Its nice that our lives are good, But at some point the majority will drag you down with them. You can work on yourself as much as you like but no man is an island. The trends in society will eventually catch up to you, your children or your grandchildren THAT is what this complaining is about. Guys are concerned with the world their children are going to inherit. Individual self development is not enough to relieve those worries.

Wonderful comment. Wish I could like it twice.

Let's put the topic back on track in regards to 30/40 year old women dying alone. It's a neat allegory for western civilization, isn't it? Oligarchs and businessmen and cultural leftists falling for "chad" consumerism and then when the chickens come home to roost, they "hit the wall", then they're like deer in the headlights.

Let's review the players in the tragedy:

1) The ignorant. People who like ant drones getting by, don't really think too much about it, and go along. They're not hostile to what we have to say here but these ideas aren't mainstream enough to reach them. That being said, I do hear Roosh's name come up a LOT in various social circles. Terms such as "The Wall" and "red pill" are in the common vernacular.

2) The sellouts/collaborators. Folks who have drunk the cool aid and would rather die than go back. In a way, they're like unrepentant sinners. Even when their beliefs harm them, like with a drug addict, it's all they have left.

3) But finally, there are those who want to "self improve". This may even go for 30/40 year old women. I haven't read "Lady" yet, but perhaps Roosh should come out with a book specifically tailored to women who have hit the wall but still have time left. A 30 year old woman still has a life to live. She's not "dead yet." If she could do just a fraction of the level of "game" that men have had to do to even find a decent woman to marry, most could get wifed up and have a happy family and kids. It would mean dropping all of their bad habits, but begins with WANTING to change.

In other words, redemption.

What I fear is that the collaborators are rewarded for selling out. I know a few: corporate executives who happily lay off thousands of Americans to be replaced by third worlders for a slightly bigger house. They are true human garbage. They cut a deal with the bear: They help the bear catch other joggers provided they get eaten last.

But fortunately, in general, SIMPs lead miserable lives and most simps, IMO, are leftists. I think most 30/40 year old unwed women sadly just fell for a culture that didn't give them many avenues for redemption.

Perhaps Roosh needs to have a tour, for the ladies.
 
ONE
You are underestimating this guy from the previous generation's vibe and mindset. He did not give a fuck about the wife and that had a real effect on the relationship. He was letting his wife know his place in the relationship. Guys these days are scared out of their mind to say anything that would in any way, possibly, be taken negatively by the female. Women dont want neutered puppies who work out all the time and wear tight clothes.


TWO
Again, what is the mindset of this guy. So what he is a doctor. So what he makes money. I used to work with a LOT of Dutch guys in China, a whole department of them. Every single one was feminine, scared of conflict and had terrible mindsets.

Being short does not matter. There are many women who dont care.


THREE
Yes, Things are worse. And then what? Complain? This entire forum was for years was the answer to the question, then what.

Were things easier before? Yes, absolutely, without question.

The first thing he should do is get out of that city. Go somewhere that doesnt have an enormous housing price bubble. Save money instead of putting it all into an overpriced apartment. It clearly isnt improving his quality of life, since he is getting it to be in the city. A place that has been bad for him.

Then he needs to work on his mindset. If you begin each day thinking that everything is against you and im short so nobody will like me. How on Earth could he succeed.



My suggestion would be to find older posts in the forum and read them. There is a lot of knowledge there about being positive, good mindset, living life for you and not for some woman, finding your own purpose and focusing on that, etc.

All those things will make getting women easy and at the same time, let that person understand the women are not the important part of life, just something that comes once you get the rest in order, including finding meaning.

1. If my dad were to be 25 years younger my mom would have left him many years before she actually did. That is by her own admission

They'd probably wouldn't even be together in the first place

The thing you are right about is that he had a natural disdain for bootlickers and has never pedestalized women. I unconsciously copied those traits, which helped me a lot without even knowing it

2. LOL. No hard feelings here bro, you are right in a way. But the Dutch people that you meet in China are by no means representative of the general population

Likewise I could say that 90 percent of the American dudes in China walked around in weird blocked unisex button shirts, had scruffy beards, 'intellectual' rectangular shaped glasses, manboobs, crazy eyes and would usher the words 'white privilege', 'racism' and 'omg, that's so rude' within 5 minutes of meeting for the first time

The other 10 percent were overweighted, sported baseball caps put sideways, tried to stare you down yet immediately backed down as soon as they felt someone meant business and had trashy tattoos

I forget the last 1 percent: veterans that had some sort of mental trauma from their overseas tours. Would use extremely violent language and generally give off a killervibe

Matthew 7:4

How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?

Also, being short doesn't matter? Height is the number 1 asset to have on the dating market.. and basically everywhere else. By taking a plane to Miami I went from average (6'0) to tall and people treat you with so much more respect

3. The posters above me have touched upon this point already, so I won't. I do wish to suggest to read my posts again because you didn't get the point I was trying to make

My friend and I got to know each other in China despite being the same age and attending the same university. He got serious with a girl there and decided to persuade her to continue her studies in Germany

The relationship didn't last and now he is looking for a new way to go back to China. Women weren't mentioned yet I know its a bit part of the why
 
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A few pages back I mentioned a woman I know (turns 37 next week, never married, no kids). Anyway she pops up on my FB quite a bit because she is constantly posting her "stories" since she is stuck at home because of COVID-19. Anyway, so what does she post? It's either showing her cooking skills or her workout videos. And let me tell you she can cook. I mean old school housewife cooking skills. She shows the entire cooking process. And her workouts are pretty intense, a lot of body-weight, medicine ball, and kettle bell stuff. It's as if she in training to get wifed up. Yet, this very cute and feminine woman is single and as far I know has no plans to get married. A generation or two ago this woman would have have been married for 12-13 years by now with kids in junior high school or even high school by now. She's a real head scratcher.
 
I don't know how they don't get feel hollow, but their professional aspirations really do seem to engage them. Maybe it's because I'm not very intelligent, or because I'm more neurotic, but I need God and country. Currently I'm trying to find the former, and don't have the latter. I think I'm like many average men.
 
Her cooking and her fitness may be for her own, and only her own, fulfillment. Is she the high-functioning professional type?
Bingo. Yes. She graduated from one of the most prestigious engineering schools in California. She's highly intelligent. The thing is she told me that she is not career driven. She only works to make money so she can travel and be a foodie. I just don't understand how that can be fulfilling long term? Like I said she's highly intelligent when it comes to technical stuff but I have never heard her speak about spiritual, political, or economic matters or anything that deals with things beyond her sphere of influence. I don't know if she even believes in God or not. She's doesn't seem to be an overtly feminist, leftist, progressive type. Though, she did dye her hair purple last year. I just have this gut feeling that she's going to wake up one day at age 50 alone and think, "What have I done with my life?"
 

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A few pages back I mentioned a woman I know (turns 37 next week, never married, no kids). Anyway she pops up on my FB quite a bit because she is constantly posting her "stories" since she is stuck at home because of COVID-19. Anyway, so what does she post? It's either showing her cooking skills or her workout videos. And let me tell you she can cook. I mean old school housewife cooking skills. She shows the entire cooking process. And her workouts are pretty intense, a lot of body-weight, medicine ball, and kettle bell stuff. It's as if she in training to get wifed up. Yet, this very cute and feminine woman is single and as far I know has no plans to get married. A generation or two ago this woman would have have been married for 12-13 years by now with kids in junior high school or even high school by now. She's a real head scratcher.

Cooking is one thing. However, when you see someone post their own work out videos its a sign of insecurity.
 
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