Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone

Barron

Ostrich
Gold Member
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It's crazy how women don't realize that being a divorcee, or worse, single mom, SIGNIFICANTLY lowers their SMV.

The moment a woman ditches her husband to hop back on the cc she'll never be more than a 5 at best
 

Laner

Hummingbird
Gold Member
I have been noticing allot of women no mater how old still getting laid. Just not so much with chads anymore. So they see those guys choosing younger women and get jealous. Then they usually re imagine their whole life get Hyperreligiosity maybe turn into a survivalist or some other shit to make themselves feel interesting. Thought this was a interesting article.

After about 20 years of getting any guy I wanted, suddenly I’ve realized I suck at socializing.​


You are not wrong.

A close friend of my wife is 39 and dating a guy who is 28. She is top 1% in looks for her age. He is very good looking, fit, has money. A really good guy as well. But she has to keep herself from enjoying him too much or else she will get hurt. She knows it won't last, but they have been together for 4 months so she has strong feelings for him, and those feelings are mutual.

She can't even enjoy the relationship in the moment. Its very sad.
 

Arcite

Sparrow
Women are winning the war of the sexes. They will not die alone. There are plenty of simps and beta bux desperate waiting to commit to secular women finishing their carousel ride or Christian women ending their "season of singleness," code for unchaste serial monogamy or delusional purity waiting for Mr. Perfect.

Either way, feminism has given women a script of college -> career in the city -> dating attractive men in their 20s -> marriage and kids in early 30's (plenty of simps waiting), and divorce if there is an ounce of dissatisfaction in their marriage expectations. The government wholly supports this. Single motherhood is elevated as a virtue (stunning and brave!). Government programs are there to cushion the financial and reputational fallout of divorced women, even as they take children, money, and future earnings (alimony) away from their soon to be ex-husbands.

Women are having it all. Society is making it so.
I have to agree with this. Denizens of the internet can get so caught up in the philosophy of their preferred community that they simply take it for granted as self-evidently true and don't even notice when reality contradicts it, and red-pillers are no exception.

I was an AFC all through my teens and twenties, into my early thirties. At any given time I had oneitis for some girl who didn't feel the same way about me--I even blew six solid years of my twenties, ages 24 to 30, what should have been my prime dating years, on one, continuous case of oneitis for one girl the whole time! I consider myself to have become "redpilled" at age 32 when I learned of the existence of the seduction community. I read Mystery's The Venusian Arts Handbook, Magic Bullets, and the old Roissy blog, watched some RSD and David DeAngelo videos... but never really put any of that "game" stuff into practice. Partly because of approach anxiety, partly because of my lingering scruples over premarital sex, partly because of a Madonna-whore complex that prevented me from liking any girl who would have premarital sex enough to have sex with her, I never went out "sarging," never tried my hand at being a PUA. I thought maybe I could at least use "game" in church to find a wife, but that didn't happen either.

But I did come to believe, based on all this redpill stuff I was reading, that at least I would have the last laugh. All my former crushes who weren't interested in me would hit the wall, and then they'd spend the rest of their lives from age 35 or so crying themselves to sleep every night while petting their cats, moaning in loneliness and despair, "why, oh why, didn't I marry that nice guy Arcite?" Right? That's what's supposed to happen, right?

Wrong. Instead, I could pull up the social media apps right now and show you that every single girl I ever had unrequited oneitis for is now married. Every last one! And not to Poindexters either; in most cases they landed greater betas, despite in some cases being over 30. Now, since roughly half of them never had any biological children, you could reasonably speculate there is some simmering regret there, but given that the majority of them are devout Evangelicals, I'm sure they have no problem believing it was God's plan so they could focus on ministry or their adopted black babies or whatever. What they are certainly not doing is proclaiming from the rooftops to the younger generation of early twenties women that their lives are miserable failures and imploring them not to make the same mistakes they made, to instead settle down and start a family before you're 25. And that is what would need to happen in order for their failures to be used to turn society around.

This idea that the modern feminist house of cards is about to come crashing down Real Soon Now because men will rise up and refuse to marry thirtysomethings is wishful thinking.
 

2020Dude

Pigeon
But they are not attracted to these men and in a relationship with them they would be miserable. Women have access to sex, but struggle to find relationships with men they want to have relationships with. Also once they are 60+ the dating pool becomes inverted, so many widows competing for the few single men. This is a result of men dying younger and dating age gaps.

It's funny to even see the age 60 and the word "dating" in the same sentence.
Mariam Thompson, 62, admitted sharing the names of US informants in Iraq to a man she was romantically linked with. She said she had been "desperate" for "someone to love me in my old age" and did not set out to harm anyone. :)

 

Pointy Elbows

Woodpecker
Orthodox
Today I found out a 32 yo daughter of a long-term employee is in alcohol rehab. Known them for 15 years. Agnostic/atheist upbringing. College debt. The bartender years, traveling. She passed up a pre-Med beta - boring. Same guy lost interest when he was in Med School and she was 40 lbs heavier. The depression, drugs, more weight. Finally finding a "trade" in health-care. Now booze.

She's 32, childless, no husband. Who knows about friends. We mock these things, but people are getting hurt and its sad. Our culture is rot.
 

Laner

Hummingbird
Gold Member

In a sane world, these spinsters would be living with one of their siblings and helping take care of their kids.

There are plenty of ways to be loved in your old age. Grandkids are one of them. Also a softer, gentler relationship with your own kids now that they understand the challenges of parenthood.

It really is sad. And unfortunately its only going to get worse as many of these childless women become the gatekeepers in their 'trades'.
 

Caractacus Potts

Kingfisher
Gold Member
I checked the first 8 stories on Duck Duck Go when I searched her name. No pictures of her. There is one artist sketch from a court room. When I did an image search I found one picture of a woman in a red head scarf. It may or may not be here. She was a quasi spook so maybe she practiced good OpSec? She is sixty two so maybe she didn't have social media? Who knows? I do think it is odd that no news agencies looked into it more to find images of her.
 

Blade Runner

Ostrich
Orthodox
I have been noticing allot of women no mater how old still getting laid. Just not so much with chads anymore. So they see those guys choosing younger women and get jealous. Then they usually re imagine their whole life get Hyperreligiosity maybe turn into a survivalist or some other shit to make themselves feel interesting. Thought this was a interesting article.

After about 20 years of getting any guy I wanted, suddenly I’ve realized I suck at socializing.​


Y’all, I’ll be 40 in a few months. He’s younger than me, but that’s never mattered before.

:laughter:

Nor am I going to be upset with men. They can’t help that they’re primarily attracted to youth. And the joke’s on them, really, I was a complete asshole before age 29 or so, and I think most women are (at least when it comes to dating). If anything, I think this obsession with youth is their kryptonite. Poor fellas.

The real problem is I don’t know what to do with myself in social situations anymore. The rules have changed and I’m not sure how to act.

I LOL'd all the way home on this one. You're the cat woman to be and "youth is their kryptonite"? At least she is party honest in the paragraph about being a stupid 20 something a-hole.

How do you reach out to people? Umm, develop a personality. Or not. Either way, girl, understand that any man who has these characteristics, or at least tried to, earned them.
 
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Viktor Zeegelaar

Ostrich
Orthodox Inquirer
I, uh, am not promoting this or anything, but I definitely had a laugh :laugh:

Comments are hilarious, too

Always when I see this type of women I have no idea who they are. Their face probably is 180 degrees different than what we see here through the makeup. Imagine the psychology of someone who has to make themselves unrecognizable before they go out, as Roosh stated.
 

Viktor Zeegelaar

Ostrich
Orthodox Inquirer
I have been noticing allot of women no mater how old still getting laid. Just not so much with chads anymore. So they see those guys choosing younger women and get jealous. Then they usually re imagine their whole life get Hyperreligiosity maybe turn into a survivalist or some other shit to make themselves feel interesting. Thought this was a interesting article.

After about 20 years of getting any guy I wanted, suddenly I’ve realized I suck at socializing.​

Couple of comments on this remarkable piece:

It’s not like I was ever really hot stuff. I’ve never looked like the women on TV or in porn. Short, okay face, small chest, decent booty if I do say so myself, but my looks were never really anything to write home about.

After the powerful, strong and independent start we see underlying insecurity popping up straight away. First of all it is a tragedy that a creature with the brain and emotional states of a woman is unleashed in this confusion, triggering, short term focus spanne world.

And I’m fun, goddamnit!

Swearing of course. I hear this a lot with secular women on the streets. They swear. Filthy, nasty words pop up like it's nothing. They're used to it and I swore too when I was younger, but when you come to God you realize swearing is so insidious and shows your mental state so clearly.

If I had to attribute my ability to get whomever I wanted to one of my characteristics, it would have to be that I’m not interested in conventionally attractive men. Also, my sparkling personality. And my approachability. And my kindness.

It's fine though, I had a good run.


How many times to I read I and my here? Probably like 200 times in the whole piece. Remarkable, it's all about I and me. Where's the humility, where's the community. We know where it is.

And the joke’s on them, really, I was a complete asshole before age 29 or so, and I think most women are (at least when it comes to dating).

Swearing again, and admitting that instead of feminine, caring qualitites these qualitities were undermined by herself to put out a persona of high status and so on. She thinks most women are at least. Most secular, yes.

Throughout my 20s and 30s, when I moved to a new town, in order to meet new friends, I would just go on a few dates.


The experience trap. New, new, new. Seeking dopamine in short term experiences, emotional highs, no serotinine, a peaceful state.

Now, I move through my days more or less unmolested, free to think my own thoughts.


Rationalization of why it's good she doesn't get attention anymore.

Sure, I still have all my female friends, but many of them are married and have kids, so my social life is kind of up to me.


Painful and confronting.

I love being alone. That’s part of why I’m still single (the other part is a set of raging emotional issues, I’m sure, but that’s a topic for another time).

Rationalization again. Truth is addressed in the second part.

This piece gives a good insight in the illusion of a 40 year woman. The takeaway here is that these women think at 40 they still have all the time of the world. To do new things, to learn ''new skills''. You've just wasted 20 years woman, absolutely wasted it. What a tragedy.
 

Stirfry

Woodpecker
Women are winning the war of the sexes. They will not die alone. There are plenty of simps and beta bux desperate waiting to commit to secular women finishing their carousel ride or Christian women ending their "season of singleness," code for unchaste serial monogamy or delusional purity waiting for Mr. Perfect.

Either way, feminism has given women a script of college -> career in the city -> dating attractive men in their 20s -> marriage and kids in early 30's (plenty of simps waiting), and divorce if there is an ounce of dissatisfaction in their marriage expectations. The government wholly supports this. Single motherhood is elevated as a virtue (stunning and brave!). Government programs are there to cushion the financial and reputational fallout of divorced women, even as they take children, money, and future earnings (alimony) away from their soon to be ex-husbands.

Women are having it all. Society is making it so.
100% correct. But you forgot one thing- who is to blame? Answer: Men. Those very same beta simps marrying these dried up, passed around old ladies are the same ones making the laws that transfer care and responsibility of a husband or parent on to the government. When sex was uncoupled from reproduction it led to rampant hypergamy. Removing the need of a family or spouse for support serves to extend the hypergamous period indefinitely, or at least until she decides to settle on a beta male she can abuse.
 

Seeker79

Kingfisher
100% correct. But you forgot one thing- who is to blame? Answer: Men. Those very same beta simps marrying these dried up, passed around old ladies are the same ones making the laws that transfer care and responsibility of a husband or parent on to the government. When sex was uncoupled from reproduction it led to rampant hypergamy. Removing the need of a family or spouse for support serves to extend the hypergamous period indefinitely, or at least until she decides to settle on a beta male she can abuse.
Don't forget that frivolous divorce, or frivorce, is waiting in the wings of a simp that married a buzzer beater. Statistics are showing that women have a high probability of initiating divorce in their 40's. Not a coincidence that this is about the ten year point of marriage at which point alimony, child support, and divorce leverage peak in favor of the woman. Also, the child or children are no longer babies or toddlers and require less intensive care.

Finally, women clam up sexually once they achieve required pregnancy. I don't advocate meaningless pleasure but sex within marriage is in line with God's design. It is necessary for emotional intimacy between a man and a woman. If there is no sex, you might as well be living with a roommate akin to your sister, mother, aunt, or just a rent buddy.
 
I do not understand why any Red Pilled American Male would get involved with the high maintenance , leftist feminist bitches of 21st Century Modern Day America. I do not like them. If you are horny and need to get laid , just use an escort service. I do not get along with American Females at all , they are always very rude , argumentative , extremely bitchy , and very mouthy and manipulative. They think that they are hot shit , and that 80% of American men are "beneath them". They aren't hot shit , they are the most over-rated women in the world , it's mainly just black men that still like them. I am happy to be an adult male bachelor who is MGTOW ( Men Going Their Own Way ) . The leftist feminist bitches are way too expensive and highly over-rated. They just want a man to argue with and to pay all of their bills for them every month of the year. I don't think that they are currently riding the CC ( Cock Carousel ) , in Washington State , they only "put out" for black men or for rich men. They are not hooking up with the average joe or the plumber or electrician or the cashier / clerk at 7/11. They are very picky , they only hook up with Alpha Male's which to the 21st Century Modern Day American Woman are : black men and rich men.
 
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American women in their thirties and forties have way too much baggage , they are washed up and past their prime , they usually hit the wall around age : 33-34. They hooked up with numerous Alpha Male's and they rode the CC ( Cock Carousel ) from age : 16-30 , and now they want a financially successful ( upper middle class ) , beta male simp provider to argue with , and to pay all of their bills for them every month of the year. I do not usually find American women in their thirties and forties to be appealing or desirable or a "great catch". They are damaged goods , and they usually have 3 kids from 3 different men. I'll pass , and have some other beta male simp pay all of their bills and argue with them. I have my pride , I am Red Pilled , I am very happy that I made the right choice and decision in the year 2011 to become MGTOW ( Men Going Their Own Way ) . :)
 

Blade Runner

Ostrich
Orthodox
I guess MGTOW is one's personal choice, but I also never saw a reason to broadcast it - if it best suits you, so be it.

I guess where we can agree is that for the most part, and I've noticed this especially as I've gotten older, the amount of effort that is apparently desired when I'm on top of my game and in my prime by American women (relatively older ones) is preposterous. Even for some decent looking 24 year olds this can be the case, because if they aren't faithful or conservative people, ages 21-24 will have been a lot of "experiences" for them (=not good, for them or any future man they meet). If you go to other countries, I'm not saying you won't have to share some portion or have energy and input into a relationship (of course you will), but they actually treat you for what you are: a valuable asset for them. Unlike western women, who as they crater in value, expect more and more when they should really just be making me a sammich and thanking me for being around every day.
 
I guess MGTOW is one's personal choice, but I also never saw a reason to broadcast it - if it best suits you, so be it.

I guess where we can agree is that for the most part, and I've noticed this especially as I've gotten older, the amount of effort that is apparently desired when I'm on top of my game and in my prime by American women (relatively older ones) is preposterous. Even for some decent looking 24 year olds this can be the case, because if they aren't faithful or conservative people, ages 21-24 will have been a lot of "experiences" for them (=not good, for them or any future man they meet). If you go to other countries, I'm not saying you won't have to share some portion or have energy and input into a relationship (of course you will), but they actually treat you for what you are: a valuable asset for them. Unlike western women, who as they crater in value, expect more and more when they should really just be making me a sammich and thanking me for being around every day.
Blade Runner,
In America in the year 2021 , it depends on what state you live in , if you live in a red state you will have an easier time finding a quality woman who has admirable traits and qualities. If you live in a deep blue state like I do , you will end up going the MGTOW route in life , after trying your best and hardest to get a quality chick for 15 1/2 years like I did. Red States are better states to live in if you are a Red Pilled Man. Deep blue states are great states to live in if you are strung out on meth , LGBT , or a woman who has 3 kids from 3 different men. I am 42 years old. I have no kids. I have been making good money ever since 1998 , especially since September of 2003. Substance and quality are very rare and hard to find in deep blue states.
 

Gimlet

Kingfisher
I guess MGTOW is one's personal choice, but I also never saw a reason to broadcast it - if it best suits you, so be it.

I guess where we can agree is that for the most part, and I've noticed this especially as I've gotten older, the amount of effort that is apparently desired when I'm on top of my game and in my prime by American women (relatively older ones) is preposterous. Even for some decent looking 24 year olds this can be the case, because if they aren't faithful or conservative people, ages 21-24 will have been a lot of "experiences" for them (=not good, for them or any future man they meet). If you go to other countries, I'm not saying you won't have to share some portion or have energy and input into a relationship (of course you will), but they actually treat you for what you are: a valuable asset for them. Unlike western women, who as they crater in value, expect more and more when they should really just be making me a sammich and thanking me for being around every day.

Women who are late 30s, 40s and beyond, especially who have never been married, want to be vindicated more than anything else. They want to prove to the world (a world that does not care) that they were right all along to hold out. They want to show those women who married young that they got something better by having high standards and a high value man to bend to them. They want to show up with the man who impresses everyone, especially other women. The female never-married 40 year old Director of Human Resources who is pursued by a divorced 40 year old self employed plumber should fall to her knees and praise God for his interest and do her best to land him. But he will not impress her friends (even though he is more self sufficient than all of them) so she turns up her nose. And if he looks good enough on paper, she will make him jump through hoops, again to be vindicated. Eventually these women end up in their 50s with no man, and claim that all women with a man are secretly miserable, and possibly are being abused. Sour grapes.
 
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