I want to offer a bit of a white pill for any young guy out there. I frequently go to a mall or other venue to enjoy a cup of coffee on Saturday morning and like to observe people. I see a lot of young white couples (early 30s) with multiple babies/small children. Usually both the husband and wife are decent looking and at a normal body weight. Most of the women are not tattooed (that I can see). I know this is a qualitive observation and may not be reflective of overall society (I live in a Canadian province with a young population). I have also had several young couples live next to me over the years and the young women seemed very decent. Again just my observations but if you are a young guy there are women out there. How you meet them I have no idea.