Start flirting with other girls, then dump her when she's at a high point, if she's into you this will make her crash and burn, if not, then at least you won't be fiddled like a fool. Otherwise:ok so this girl likes dancing and shakes her ass at other guys and invites them to dance with us.
once they get grabby she says she doesn't like it and I end up having to stiff-arm them away.
i can anticipate this awkwardness each time we go out.
If we'd had the conversation about being in a committed relationship I'd drop the hammer and tell her the behavior is unacceptable.
I don't want to be the one to initiate the conversation since that puts her in the drivers seat.
if anyone's successfully dealt with this type of female, pls share any tips are appreciated.