Thank you for sharing. I couldn't agree more on all those points! I believe God is faithful and He will lead you where you need to go. Because you have an open mind and are motivated purely by wanting to seek the Lord, rather than familiarity or identity, I know wherever you end up, it'll be the right place. Just keep praying about it with your husband (bless his soul for being so supportive), keep attending these churches, keep studying the Scriptures (all of them), and keep communing with Christians of all denominations, and I know you'll arrive at where you need to be very soon.