When you argue that abortion is necessary/the lesser of two evils in some cases, do you believe that the woman and child would be better off with the abortion (i.e. that the woman would be better off ending the pregnancy and the child would be better off dead)?
Or are you arguing that despite abortion being a negative outcome for the mother and child, it is beneficial/necessary for the rest of society and therefore should be accepted/encouraged?
Neither.
Abortion is neither necessary nor a good idea, morally.
And it also should not be used to engineer a society with fewer "undesirables", morally.
So if we want to have an academic debate, it can end there, abortion is immoral.
But these decisions were made for practical reasons, whether you agree with those reasons or not.
In a secular society, you can't just toss the reasons out and expect feminists to cuck to your morality.
Anyway, most if not all of what my government does is something I consider immoral or evil, so that is an insufficient argument for change, or alternatively, one for revolution.
If terminating pregnancy is the problem, abortion is dying off on its own as it is now one of the least popular methods of doing so. Why is it the only method receiving any attention, despite already dropping to pre-1973 levels on its own?
If you ban only surgical abortion, you will still get millions of terminated pregnancies (the bad) and at the same time you have eliminated whatever demographic benefits it resulted in (the good). You may say nothing bad can be good, but that is untrue. War can lead to good outcomes even if innocents die. There are measurable demographic changes caused by abortion. You may not think they are worth the cost, but they do exist.
So this answer is neither a good idea for society, nor a morally supportable one.
The only morally supportable decision would be to ban all methods of abortion (and I would argue birth control as well). The only societally supportable decision would be to bad all forms *except* surgical abortion. The answer being proposed is neither of those, but a third way, bad both morally and socially.
The idea of whether it can be tolerated at all or not really comes down to your definition of when life begins. And there is little to no discussion or debate about that. If people are split on this viewpoint, what do you propose we do about it?
Also, we shouldn't make decisions based on what our enemies want, but it is worth noting, if you put yourselves in (((their))) shoes, continuing unrestricted private abortion for white teens while ending it for welfare queens is the best of both worlds for them. If they can get unwitting Christians to go along with them for a moral reason, they will take advantage of that, much in the same way they are playing on the sympathies of Ukrainians to push for war by NATO.