TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce

[mr_ks]

I've been following this guy for a while for his tech and lifestyle related videos. He has never mentioned his wife before in much detail, and this 'personal' video is unusual for him.

He does seem red-pilled, though he is mainstream, I think the younger generation are getting more and more red-pilled on relationships, career etc.

He focuses here on how material success did not help his relationship. Interesting red-pilled perspective, I think this is a good video that can red-pill more people not in the manosphere.

 

[Manbeline]

As anyone on this forum would say, material success is just one part of the game. I can tell that he is likely an agreeable person who was bluepill before his divorce, and like all men who goes through it, is now a little more red pill. Same thing, different guy. This is kinda why guys needs to get experience in the field first before marrying. Back in the day, we had the culture to keep said things from happening, but due to lack of strong masculine figureheads and feminism making divorce attractive, this is going to keep happening until something changes. Either a hard war/ times to force women to stick close to a man, or the revamp of our justice system to not punish men or reward women.

 

[Caduceus]

1st mistake:
Apologizing to his wife repeatedly
No frame control

2nd mistake:
Trying to get her dried up pussy wet again with various gifts
The worst kind of beta behaviour


Game saves marriages.

 

[SilentOne]

No man should be getting married today. It's counterintuitive. I know most men want to believe in that fantasy but will learn the hard way, like this guy did.

A contract where someone can just walk away without any reason and take half of your assets is just a silly thing to sign.

 

[bbgun]

Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

 

[mr_ks]

The most interesting aspect of this is that I'm seeing more and more non-manosphere youtubers getting red-pilled, and they are pushing these ideas out to their subscribers. I think this could be useful. The mainstream media only pushes their own corporate narrative, but these types of youtubers are shunning corporatism, and are capable of expressing red-pill truths to their followers.

In old days, 'professionals' had their own organizations, and that allowed those professional men also to have more cultural clout in society. Corporations have killed off any free discussions and unity between workers. But, these kinds of youtubers are just telling people about their real experiences, and they are not afraid to talk down big corporations, and possibly even modern culture.

These tech youtubers have a following consisting mostly of 'intelligent' men, if they can move out into also talking about cultural things that could have a big impact. The manosphere could treat these well and try and get them on 'our side', cos they may afraid of losing income, so we should try and support them without being too harsh, and not put people down if they still somewhat blue-pilled.

 

[mr_ks]

The average man can never compete with the elites and the establishment if we cannot even get our women on our side. These are women from our own 'communities', ethnic groups, social groups, extended families and we are losing them. The elites have everthing locked up and the rest of us below the top 5% are gradually losing out in terms of quality of life. 'Our women' dont seem to understand how their behaviour will negatively affect their own children further down the line.

 

[SilentOne]

Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

Funny thing is I was just talking about this as a risk in another thread called children and financials.

 

[Dilated]

SilentOne- yup! A deal where one person can wake up on a Tuesday, decide they don’t like you anymore, take half your shit, and plunge you into expensive litigation is not a deal at all.

Women would immediately counter with- ‘but marriage isn't like a business wahhhhh!’.

Isn’t it interesting that women treat it exactly like a business during divorce? They think they’re so clever.

 

[JayR]

He might never see his son again. Japan is notorious for their refusal to sign the Hague Convention treaty on child abduction and for denying divorced fathers any custody rights. All he can do is wait until his son is 18 and then try to find him.

 

[Dirtyblueshirt]

He might never see his son again. Japan is notorious for their refusal to sign the Hague Convention treaty on child abduction and for denying divorced fathers any custody rights. All he can do is wait until his son is 18 and then try to find him.

Oh I think he will. My guess is that his ex will use the kid as a bargaining chip to shake this guy down for $. If this guy is in the financial shape he claims, she will use him to finance her "independence".

The exception to this is if she is independently wealthy (e.g. family money), or if she completely drained their accounts before leaving.

 

[Christhugger]

It's beating a dead horse to point out to redpill men how risky marriage and kids is... What's the solution, don't do it?

The new realization, some other colour of pill, is that this is exactly the behavior (((they))) want from you, to give up.

History is littered with an infinite number of forgotten men who had perfectly good reasons to avoid having children. (War, crushing tyranny, extreme poverty, plague, starvation, etc.) "Divorce rape" doesn't even make the top 50 list of risks/hardships your ancestors went through to bring you here.

 

[mr_ks]

The solution in my opinion, is for high-quality men to aspire to more than one wife. Dont offer any woman exclusivity, tell her another girl will come and live in the house. See if you can gain some ground, push the boundaries. If you have two wives, and one wants to leave, she cant take the house or half the estate.

 

[SilentOne]

It's beating a dead horse to point out to redpill men how risky marriage and kids is... What's the solution, don't do it?

The new realization, some other colour of pill, is that this is exactly the behavior (((they))) want from you, to give up.

History is littered with an infinite number of forgotten men who had perfectly good reasons to avoid having children. (War, crushing tyranny, extreme poverty, plague, starvation, etc.) "Divorce rape" doesn't even make the top 50 list of risks/hardships your ancestors went through to bring you here.

Red Pilled men don't get married today. It's an oxymoron. A lot of guys like to dilute themselves into thinking they are red pilled but are far from it. Now you can become Red Pilled while already married. That's different.

I'm not here to derail this thread. This is about an ungrateful women snatching a child away from an unexpected father and moving across the world. The stuff woman are allowed to do today without repercussions is really amazing.

 

[Feyoder]

Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

How is this not criminal? What a ludicrous situation that we, as men, don't have the organisation to make this illegal.

Nightmare situation.

 

[jordypip23]

I've been following this guy for a while for his tech and lifestyle related videos. He has never mentioned his wife before in much detail, and this 'personal' video is unusual for him.

He does seem red-pilled, though he is mainstream, I think the younger generation are getting more and more red-pilled on relationships, career etc.

He focuses here on how material success did not help his relationship. Interesting red-pilled perspective, I think this is a good video that can red-pill more people not in the manosphere.

I have yet to watch this video, but I am definitely surprised by the news (I am familiar with some of TechLead's videos).

He did come off as pretty red-pilled & definitely seemed to gravitate towards a more traditional, conservative, Asian type of lifestyle. He didn't seem like the most fun guy in the world lol (but he did have an amusing dry humor in his videos). I wonder if there was a fundamental compatibility issue with his wife. In any case it is beyond foul if she is about to run overseas with their kid. I need to watch this video later when I get a chance.

 

[Caduceus]

Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

How is this not criminal? What a ludicrous situation that we, as men, don't have the organisation to make this illegal.

Nightmare situation.

Either you are really young or have been living in a cave for the last 20 years.
Things have been this messed up way for quite a long time now.

 

[mr_ks]

I wonder if there was a fundamental compatibility issue with his wife.

In any case it is beyond foul if she is about to run overseas with their kid. I need to watch this video later when I get a chance.

I doubt it's a 'compatibility' issue. He is right about it being related to money. Many people that use their careers and financial success to define themselves end up with similar problems. It is all very shallow and superficial. He talks about it in the videos.

 

[CaptainS]

Try as hard as you can to save your family but have a backup plan. Take the child's passport or have it surrendered to the court. When she leaves, call the police. Don't let that bitch leave the country with your kid.

Now, that kid is getting indoctrinated. She's telling how she HAD to take him away for his safety.

 

[DonovanVC]

Not a lot of redpill moments here. Lots of talk about buying gifts to appease, keeping up with the joneses, hoping that financial success will solve everything,
living in a lonely empty apartment, not wanting to judge her.

Also shows you can marry a girl from a less feminist country and still get screwed.