You're again making an unrealistic straw-man excuse there, though. Nobody needs to spend "3-4 hours force feeding per day". It can be unpleasant forcing yourself to eat more, absolutely. But it just doesn't require anywhere near that. A normal diet with 2-3 easily made high cal shakes gets anyone up to that, which is at the very most 30 minutes a day of effort.
If you had provided a legit biological reason for not being able to put on muscle (ie an actual medically diagnosed condition) I wouldn't doubt you at all. It's just that you've jumped from excuse to excuse as the thread has evolved, each of which has been more flimsy than the last. And the overriding theme has been "I tried my hardest! There is no possible way I could have tried harder! There is no way I'll EVER put on muscle!". You haven't been willing to accept at all that you didn't give weightlifting a good enough effort to accurately evaluate it. Or willing to accept responsibility that the fault may lay with you, in any way.
I don't think providing responses to each of your excuses in turn is being "smug" and "on a high horse" and all that. If anything its providing solutions to problems you had working out. But you clearly don't want to hear them, because they disagree with your world view. Its an awful shame, because from the sounds of things as a severely underweight guy weightlifting is exactly what you need.
I wasn't trying to put you down in this thread, for whats it worth. My two main thoughts were A) you, personally, should give weightlifting another try, where you give it a proper effort. It could have a massively positive influence on your life - which would be a great outcome for the thread. Or B) if you were set in your ways personally, then at least you could be convinced not to drag anyone else reading the thread down to the same "giving up" mental level at least. Its just not good life advice to be giving to people on the forum to never try hard at anything that requires more than 5 months effort.
But, if you've gone ahead and blocked me because you don't like your worldview being questioned in a fairly polite manner that says it all I guess.
If you had provided a legit biological reason for not being able to put on muscle (ie an actual medically diagnosed condition) I wouldn't doubt you at all. It's just that you've jumped from excuse to excuse as the thread has evolved, each of which has been more flimsy than the last. And the overriding theme has been "I tried my hardest! There is no possible way I could have tried harder! There is no way I'll EVER put on muscle!". You haven't been willing to accept at all that you didn't give weightlifting a good enough effort to accurately evaluate it. Or willing to accept responsibility that the fault may lay with you, in any way.
I don't think providing responses to each of your excuses in turn is being "smug" and "on a high horse" and all that. If anything its providing solutions to problems you had working out. But you clearly don't want to hear them, because they disagree with your world view. Its an awful shame, because from the sounds of things as a severely underweight guy weightlifting is exactly what you need.
I wasn't trying to put you down in this thread, for whats it worth. My two main thoughts were A) you, personally, should give weightlifting another try, where you give it a proper effort. It could have a massively positive influence on your life - which would be a great outcome for the thread. Or B) if you were set in your ways personally, then at least you could be convinced not to drag anyone else reading the thread down to the same "giving up" mental level at least. Its just not good life advice to be giving to people on the forum to never try hard at anything that requires more than 5 months effort.
But, if you've gone ahead and blocked me because you don't like your worldview being questioned in a fairly polite manner that says it all I guess.