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<blockquote data-quote="scorpion" data-source="post: 1523993" data-attributes="member: 3591"><p>It_is_my_time: I have to agree with bucky here. If you honestly want to have a family you need to get the ball rolling on that very soon if you&#039;re already in your mid 40s. 99.9999% of men who have fathered children throughout history have done so without first laboring for 20 years, 7 days a week to accumulate the resources to support them. You are essentially building an idol out of money and thinking that it will insulate you and your children from trouble and hardship. I can assure you, it most certainly will not. Put your faith in God, not money, to protect your family. The alternative explanation, as bucky pointed out, is that you really actually don&#039;t want a family deep down and have constructed this elaborate plan about needing all this money as a sort of psychological defense mechanism or excuse. Not every man is called to fatherhood. Maybe it&#039;s not for you. If so, you should be honest with yourself about that. Either way you definitely should quit posting this blackpilling nonsense about having to work for decades in advance to be able to afford children.&nbsp; Not only is&nbsp; it asinine and fear-based, it demonstrates a lack of faith in God&#039;s providence and is needlessly discouraging to other men. I say all this in the spirit of love, because I would like to see you achieve your goal of being a father. Yes, times are very tough. But having children is always a leap of faith. You can do it soon. And if you don&#039;t do it soon you probably never will.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="scorpion, post: 1523993, member: 3591"] It_is_my_time: I have to agree with bucky here. If you honestly want to have a family you need to get the ball rolling on that very soon if you're already in your mid 40s. 99.9999% of men who have fathered children throughout history have done so without first laboring for 20 years, 7 days a week to accumulate the resources to support them. You are essentially building an idol out of money and thinking that it will insulate you and your children from trouble and hardship. I can assure you, it most certainly will not. Put your faith in God, not money, to protect your family. The alternative explanation, as bucky pointed out, is that you really actually don't want a family deep down and have constructed this elaborate plan about needing all this money as a sort of psychological defense mechanism or excuse. Not every man is called to fatherhood. Maybe it's not for you. If so, you should be honest with yourself about that. Either way you definitely should quit posting this blackpilling nonsense about having to work for decades in advance to be able to afford children. Not only is it asinine and fear-based, it demonstrates a lack of faith in God's providence and is needlessly discouraging to other men. I say all this in the spirit of love, because I would like to see you achieve your goal of being a father. Yes, times are very tough. But having children is always a leap of faith. You can do it soon. And if you don't do it soon you probably never will. [/QUOTE]

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