This is the consequence of the bad culture, not the cause. It is a very pointed way of saying it (and some would consider harsh I imagine) but I think it's more true than not: society had it the right way in that they "fooled"/sold the young, raging libido men to marriage early in life (20s) as compared to the mid 30s men and older, because by that time most men realize the time vampire and nonsense in dealing with most women. Of course, this is a direct result of making careerism a big thing, and also having specialized careers that eat up a lot of the 20 yo decade. But that's still only a problem if women shun marriage in their 20s. It always comes back to incentives: what's the point in "manning up" if you don't get anything out of it? I love it when those old "conservatives" talk about that, as if women at age 22 are trying to marry anyone nowadays, like they did for those boomers and older.Nowadays, many men tend to stay boys either until their late 20s/30s, and sometimes their entire life, which is a situation in which everyone loses: the men, the women, the children, the communities, society at large, only the global regime with a monopoly on violence that wants to keep us all weak, distracted and confused wins.