The destruction of modern day women

That has been my experience on all dating apps (a very small pool who meet my requirements and are interested). I think there are very few white, devout Christian women of a suitable age (of any denomination). On secular apps you can select religion but for most people it is like selecting their height. There is no indication they really believe and practice anything.

You would possibly do better on an Eastern European focused dating site but would need to determine if potential matches are cultural or practicing Orthodox women.

Christian Cafe is quite cheap (in comparison to other apps). What I dislike is that you can't screen (who can see your profile) for ethnicity and age. I get endless messages from women in Africa and older women (usually Filipino and Latin American) who are in their mid-40s or older.
Yes, exactly. LOTS of winks from older African, Indian, and Filipina women. It seems to me that the vast majority of white Orthodox women are safely locked behind the "Russian firewall". And half of those Russian women online are gold-diggers who think the west is paved in gold. It makes more sense to put our trust in God to put the right woman in our path. Besides, at my stage in life, there is no urgency.
 
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Yes, exactly. LOTS of winks from older African, Indian, and Filipina women. It seems to me that the vast majority of white Orthodox women are safely locked behind the "Russian firewall". And half of those Russian women online are gold-diggers who think the west is paved in gold. It makes more sense to put our trust in God to put the right woman in our path. Besides, at my stage in life, there is no urgency.
Based on my experience it would be easier for you to find someone suitable when you are in your mid-30s at the latest. Otherwise for white ladies a large age gap is not acceptable.
 
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Well to a degree this is true, as her window is 18-25, 30 max realistically (30-40 is red flag danger zone). A man does have more time overall to get his stuff together. So in that respect I'm not even against the idea that a man has to work and compete to meet his woman, however that begs the question: what does he get in return? Like think about this, in the West even if you're let's say the most ''high status'' guy, you've got everything in order, obviously hopefully you are deep in the faith, you are fit and muscular, you've got a good network and social status, you're contributing to your community, you have a plan and a vision for your life, good leadership skills, genuinely caring, even in that top scenario there's almost no way to find a virgin wife, whereas in the past that was 100% guaranteed. That basic idea of virginity as a basic counterpart of the proposition in a marriage/relationship has been entirely eroded, which is spectacular, as you could say that a virgin woman is like a millionaire guy (of course with there being more variables, but for the sake of comparison).
 
Well to a degree this is true, as her window is 18-25, 30 max realistically (30-40 is red flag danger zone). A man does have more time overall to get his stuff together. So in that respect I'm not even against the idea that a man has to work and compete to meet his woman, however that begs the question: what does he get in return? Like think about this, in the West even if you're let's say the most ''high status'' guy, you've got everything in order, obviously hopefully you are deep in the faith, you are fit and muscular, you've got a good network and social status, you're contributing to your community, you have a plan and a vision for your life, good leadership skills, genuinely caring, even in that top scenario there's almost no way to find a virgin wife, whereas in the past that was 100% guaranteed. That basic idea of virginity as a basic counterpart of the proposition in a marriage/relationship has been entirely eroded, which is spectacular, as you could say that a virgin woman is like a millionaire guy (of course with there being more variables, but for the sake of comparison).

I was asked recently (by a friend) what my views on prenups are. I said they seem entirely unchristian because they are about protecting one's value rather than giving it away. Young women refusing to commit to "normal" but committed Christian men is the female version of a prenup. Their desire to only "give" their youth to a materially high-status male is not a gift at all, the same way a prenup is a wealthy man not "giving" himself to a woman. They refuse to step out in the faith that God will bless the marriage, and instead ensure that if/when things turn south, that they will be compensated for what they provided.
 
Look at how this development is ''celebrated'' is pretty disgusting. Women being without a family and all the mental issues that will come with it, working away slave jobs as their lives decline in value and fade away. But there's money to be made on it! 45% is staggering though, that'll have huge, huge implications.

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Rise Of The SHEconomy Is Good News For These Retailers: Study​


With the U.S. population of prime-working-age single women growing, a study finds retailers from Nike and Lululemon to TJX and Sephora are poised to be among the biggest beneficiaries of this group’s appetite for spending.

By 2030, 45% of prime-working-age women between 25 and 44 in the U.S. will be single, the largest share in history, up from 41% in 2018, according to a 35-page study titled “Rise of the SHEconomy” by investment bank Morgan Stanley. 
In total, the single-women population will grow by an average annual rate of 1.2% through 2030, to 77.5 million, compared with a 0.8% growth rate for the overall U.S. population.

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Strangely enough they never mention all the men on the other side of that equation. No interest at all in the HEconomy it seems. Not that I mind as I'm not only happily married, but it continues to strike me that for globalist cabal men basically have ceased to exist. How do they imagine this is sustainable? We are only ever needed as potential cannon fodder. Over 200,000 Uranian men could attest to that fact, if they were still alive, that is.
 
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That has been my experience on all dating apps (a very small pool who meet my requirements and are interested). I think there are very few white, devout Christian women of a suitable age (of any denomination). On secular apps you can select religion but for most people it is like selecting their height. There is no indication they really believe and practice anything.

You would possibly do better on an Eastern European focused dating site but would need to determine if potential matches are cultural or practicing Orthodox women.

Christian Cafe is quite cheap (in comparison to other apps). What I dislike is that you can't screen (who can see your profile) for ethnicity and age. I get endless messages from women in Africa and older women (usually Filipino and Latin American) who are in their mid-40s or older.

I've been on dating apps for or a couple months now, and I list that I am a Christian seeking a woman to court for marriage. Two things seem important to mention.

1) barring the unlikely scenario that a Christian man gets lucky right away and meets a good Christian woman he is attracted to and who is looking for marriage, he will have to endure a lot of misses. A lot, a lot. Some will be outright rejection for any number of reasons, other times he will have to be the one to cut it off.

2) with enough time, he will, even if he puts his faith at the forefront, start to get into situations that give his sexual urges too easy of an outlet. Simply put, he's going to start finding women who are attractive and want to get physical sooner rather than later.

I haven't met any woman who "checks all the boxes," and the ones who seemed to didn't express mutual interest. But I've had enough close-calls to keep me from COMPLETELY giving up hope that it's a legitimate platform for Christian men looking for a wife. My two rules for myself are, if I meet a woman and commit fornication, it's over, I have no business continuing on the sites. And second, my regular life can't suffer. I can't be getting so absorbed in them that the things I find important elsewhere start falling by the wayside.

I tend to think, yes, I'm wasting my time. It's discouraging and distracting. But as another poster said, faith IS active. Sitting around praying for a wife doesn't mean God will deliver her to your doorstep. I've also literally talked to nonbelieving woman about Jesus and the gospel, and hopefully planted some seeds. It hasn't been all bad. I'm probably very close to being done with the sites, at least for a while, but in a way I'm kind of glad for this stretch of time. It's been good practice for me to put myself out there, not have anything to show for it, and yet still come away saying God is good.
 
Based on my experience it would be easier for you to find someone suitable when you are in your mid-30s at the latest. Otherwise for white ladies a large age gap is not acceptable.
While there are exceptions, this seems to be the rule, unfortunately. The root of this as a problem has to do with the fact that you can so easily get bypassed while the girls are going through the (wasting) 20s decade. You are building, and they are declining, which means it's a setup for failure, on average, for both sexes.

Yes, the praying thing (I've made my thoughts known on this before) won't hurt, but as a mode or method of advice the part where this forum could help mpre would be better plans and strategies of organically being around women who are at least somewhat possible, or reasonable.
 
I was asked recently (by a friend) what my views on prenups are. I said they seem entirely unchristian because they are about protecting one's value rather than giving it away. Young women refusing to commit to "normal" but committed Christian men is the female version of a prenup. Their desire to only "give" their youth to a materially high-status male is not a gift at all, the same way a prenup is a wealthy man not "giving" himself to a woman. They refuse to step out in the faith that God will bless the marriage, and instead ensure that if/when things turn south, that they will be compensated for what they provided.
Well said, it all comes down to trust at the end of the day! That's why traditional marriage is such a good thing: it gives that security for both parties.
 
I was asked recently (by a friend) what my views on prenups are. I said they seem entirely unchristian because they are about protecting one's value rather than giving it away. Young women refusing to commit to "normal" but committed Christian men is the female version of a prenup. Their desire to only "give" their youth to a materially high-status male is not a gift at all, the same way a prenup is a wealthy man not "giving" himself to a woman. They refuse to step out in the faith that God will bless the marriage, and instead ensure that if/when things turn south, that they will be compensated for what they provided.
You could argue they are a Christian concept since it deters a woman from divorcing, which helps keep the parents in the same household for the kids.
 
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While there are exceptions, this seems to be the rule, unfortunately. The root of this as a problem has to do with the fact that you can so easily get bypassed while the girls are going through the (wasting) 20s decade. You are building, and they are declining, which means it's a setup for failure, on average, for both sexes.

Yes, the praying thing (I've made my thoughts known on this before) won't hurt, but as a mode or method of advice the part where this forum could help mpre would be better plans and strategies of organically being around women who are at least somewhat possible, or reasonable.
This is based on my observations. I almost never see a younger white woman with an older white guy here in Canada. Of course we all know a few couples like this but it is very rare. If you are willing to take a larger and much less attractive women (one that is overlooked by her peers) perhaps this is possible.

I have gotten interest from younger (early to mid 30s) Latin American women (Brazilian, Colombian and Ecuadorian) online. If you have the resources to relocate down there, meeting and marrying one of these ladies might work. There are a lot of Brazilians where I live in Canada and they seem quite happy. My son and daughter all have numerous classmates from there. They are largely European in appearance. A guy I know that lived in Brazil for several decades said they prefer the easier and safer life here in Canada.

Filipino women are also quite open to a large age gap. I grew up with Filipinos and have had great experiences with them. Many of the ladies I have seen online appear to have a large percentage of European DNA. I believe they may also be more loyal and domestically minded than a white lady.

My view is that the problem now largely lies with white women and the societal forces that got us where we are (delayed marriage, credential inflation for jobs, massive inflation, feminism, low birth rates, constantly seeking pleasure and experiences, decline in faith, etc.). Until we have a return to early marriage (in early 20s) and the ability for young men to earn a living and purchase a house at an early age this problem will continue.
 
I've been on dating apps for or a couple months now, and I list that I am a Christian seeking a woman to court for marriage. Two things seem important to mention.

1) barring the unlikely scenario that a Christian man gets lucky right away and meets a good Christian woman he is attracted to and who is looking for marriage, he will have to endure a lot of misses. A lot, a lot. Some will be outright rejection for any number of reasons, other times he will have to be the one to cut it off.

2) with enough time, he will, even if he puts his faith at the forefront, start to get into situations that give his sexual urges too easy of an outlet. Simply put, he's going to start finding women who are attractive and want to get physical sooner rather than later.

I haven't met any woman who "checks all the boxes," and the ones who seemed to didn't express mutual interest. But I've had enough close-calls to keep me from COMPLETELY giving up hope that it's a legitimate platform for Christian men looking for a wife. My two rules for myself are, if I meet a woman and commit fornication, it's over, I have no business continuing on the sites. And second, my regular life can't suffer. I can't be getting so absorbed in them that the things I find important elsewhere start falling by the wayside.

I tend to think, yes, I'm wasting my time. It's discouraging and distracting. But as another poster said, faith IS active. Sitting around praying for a wife doesn't mean God will deliver her to your doorstep. I've also literally talked to nonbelieving woman about Jesus and the gospel, and hopefully planted some seeds. It hasn't been all bad. I'm probably very close to being done with the sites, at least for a while, but in a way I'm kind of glad for this stretch of time. It's been good practice for me to put myself out there, not have anything to show for it, and yet still come away saying God is good.
I tried online dating mainly as an experiment and because of others (mainly boomers who know nothing about it) telling me I should try. Mainly because of my age the only attention I am getting is from overseas. The local women who check me out are all old and very unattractive. Some look way older than their stated age and many make no effort to look nice for photos. I am unwilling to consider someone my age and will continue to look overseas.

My plan is to let Christian Cafe run and close the secular apps (Hinge, etc.). I have received some very kind messages from ladies on Christian Cafe and even when there is no match you can tell they are decent people. I will reduce my time on there but check messages from time to time.
 
Why are you even going on about this? You already clearly stated your reasoning.

You know, it's ok to not have other people agree with you. You do not have to force the issue.
I’m not forcing anything. I’m just saying no reasoning to have insurance if you just have faith bro.
 
The other issue I was going to post on is the social reality that women are far more interested in relationships and matching other women, or possibly men, but again for both classes of these people, for obvious reasons, it isn't going to be a 20s girl. If it is, you had a really good male friend looking out for yoi, because that frankly won't happen with women. There is too much envy. And for most men it is more about how much effort it would be to care, and as older men with family or competition, it ain't gonna happen. Even after you've made it, sad to say, it still is ALL on you later in life. Sadly, few will do much to help. This is just the reality. I've lived it for more than 5 years as a high value man from a major country.
 
That has been my experience on all dating apps (a very small pool who meet my requirements and are interested). I think there are very few white, devout Christian women of a suitable age (of any denomination). On secular apps you can select religion but for most people it is like selecting their height. There is no indication they really believe and practice anything.
Catholic Match Used to (I believe still does) require you to answer a number of faith questions with Yes or No.

The answer to the question about contraception is an extremely good filter. Anyone who isn't serious about their faith won't see it as important.
 
The reality is that men 30+ have a much better chance of meeting a secular woman and converting her to Christ under their leadership than they do finding a young, attractive, single virtuous Christian woman who's been saving herself for Prince Charming. Most guys would be much better off taking this approach than picking through these Christian dating sites, which I hate to say it, but are mostly inhabited by, shall we say, "Christian" women of necessity who are 40+ and/or rather unfortunate looking. Not only are the pickings slim, but the quality is lacking and it's highly questionable how truly faithful most of those women are to begin with.

I challenge single men looking for a wife to start wearing your faith in Christ on your sleeve. Speak boldly and be not ashamed of the Gospel (Rom. 1:16). I think you'll be surprised by the results. Remember, the Gospel message was literally designed and intended to call sinners to repentance. There are many secular women out there ready and waiting to hear it, and plenty of them have the potential to make good wives.
 
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