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<blockquote data-quote="Jack198" data-source="post: 588256" data-attributes="member: 7749">Good cite. Also <a href="http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mind/sexual_assault/female_offenders/2.html" target="_blank">a good rundown of the mindset</a> of these teachers.&quot;...the women are generally self-centered and needy, in contrast to caring about the children's vulnerability and probable inability to make adult decisions about sex. These women seek their own goals and many seem unable to comprehend what they are doing to the child or to their own families. Most, in fact, were married when they decided to sexually abuse an underage minor. Afterward, they often describe how good it felt to be admired by these boys.&quot;&quot;Dr. Patrick McGrain, assistant professor of criminal justice at DeSales University and an expert on sexual deviance, says that such women often suffer from low self esteem. &quot;Something's missing from the puzzle and they're looking for it,&quot; he commented. &quot;You won't find abuse in their background, such that you could say they're in that cycle of abuse where they then become the abusers. Often they're controlled in some aspect of their lives, like in their marriage, so they're looking for a way to control someone else. Some of them are sexually immature and it's probably just a need to feel desired. These boys will compliment them all the time and make them feel sexy. They don't consider what might be at risk; they're looking for something, whether it's to 'create' a young person into an adult or just trying to fill in something that's missing, they'll think only about their own goals.&quot;&quot;I'd say for the ones who are not married they are just acting out the usual self-centered hamsterization tendencies we've all seen with modern Western women, albeit on an extreme level.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Jack198, post: 588256, member: 7749"] Good cite. Also [url=http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mind/sexual_assault/female_offenders/2.html]a good rundown of the mindset[/url] of these teachers. "...the women are generally self-centered and needy, in contrast to caring about the children's vulnerability and probable inability to make adult decisions about sex. These women seek their own goals and many seem unable to comprehend what they are doing to the child or to their own families. Most, in fact, were married when they decided to sexually abuse an underage minor. Afterward, they often describe how good it felt to be admired by these boys." "Dr. Patrick McGrain, assistant professor of criminal justice at DeSales University and an expert on sexual deviance, says that such women often suffer from low self esteem. "Something's missing from the puzzle and they're looking for it," he commented. "You won't find abuse in their background, such that you could say they're in that cycle of abuse where they then become the abusers. Often they're controlled in some aspect of their lives, like in their marriage, so they're looking for a way to control someone else. Some of them are sexually immature and it's probably just a need to feel desired. These boys will compliment them all the time and make them feel sexy. They don't consider what might be at risk; they're looking for something, whether it's to 'create' a young person into an adult or just trying to fill in something that's missing, they'll think only about their own goals."" I'd say for the ones who are not married they are just acting out the usual self-centered hamsterization tendencies we've all seen with modern Western women, albeit on an extreme level. [/QUOTE]

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