The Gamma Megathread

I think I can make a good argument that there are only three personalities not six, and gammas/deltas/sigmas aren't real. Leonard pointed out on the Owen thread that a lot of the socio-sexual archetypes just differentiated between successful and unsuccessful. I thought about it for a bit, and realized it's really more that the differentiation comes down to whether or not you like/respect the person you're categorizing.

Can you think of an unsuccessful alpha, or an alpha for whom you lack respect? Sounds like a gamma, right? But look at the personality overlaps between alpha and gamma: both are vindictive, both want to be in charge, both are narcissistic. Vox Day also contradicts himself by claiming Gammas are conflict avoidant but also will argue and debate relentlessly far past the point where they've been beaten. Maybe he just means that gammas will retreat from a physical confrontation they'd be certain to lose, but wouldn't a status-conscious Alpha also attempt to save face by avoiding a fight he'd certainly lose? Think about how you would react to a guy like Steve Jobs if he had been working in a genius bar instead of as CEO of Apple. Is there really a transformative nature to success or are we just applying the term Alpha to aggressive people we respect and Gamma to aggressive people we don't respect?

What is the difference between the beta and the delta? Both are sociable people no one seems to have a problem with, but who wants to be a delta? As much as Vox proclaims the delta is supposedly happiest, how many guys would enjoy being described as a nice stolid everyman who takes orders well and doesn't try to rise above his position? A good dog. Doesn't sound like deltas are much respected, and it's also telling that Vox insists the best all the archetypes he dislikes could ever hope for would be to achieve the status of Delta. I would also enjoy it if everyone who disagreed with me or called me a fat racist shut-in would go through an intense course of self-help and come out of it willing to do my laundry. In comparison the beta is a nice guy as well, but somehow he ends up with more pussy and gets to sit at the bottle service table with the alpha for his trouble.

Finally look at the sigma and the omega. The observable existence of omegas is indisputable thanks to the internet, but how many sigmas are there really outside of movie protagonists and internet forums? The closest real life example I can think of was a friend from high school who decided to put his Physics degree to work living as a train hobo. Some folks did view his rebellious lifestyle in a romantic light and would have called him a sigma, but I also had an alpha friend who wanted nothing to do with the guy. Vox claims that alphas hate sigmas because they don't respect the hierarchy and alphas just can't handle the iconoclastic rebellious spirit. In practice my alpha friend's primary objection to the sigma vagabond was that he smelled.

Looking at this, I think there's really just alpha/beta/omega personalities. We're only applying the extra categories as a way of insulting people we dislike or puffing ourselves up as the case may be. If you like your boss he's alpha, if you hate him he's gamma. When you're in a good mood your buddy's a beta wingman, if you're in a bad mood he's a delta sniffing around you for pussy scraps. When I write a dissertation on an obscure internet forum late at night I'm a maverick-thinking intellectual sigma, definitely not an insomniac omega with camwhores open on the other browser tabs.

Now if you'll excuse me someone just tipped Chantrelle 500 tokens to show feet.
 
Alphas are generally not vindictive. There can be vindictive people in every personality type but only gammas are vindictive due to it as such.

Being a delta is pretty great. You are probably too sigma or gamma to understand how comfortable it is for most people. I do prefer using the term beta though, yeah.

I am not going to claim that people don't misuse the terms but I do think personality traits and measurements are pretty clear cut. That is, people don't change personalities just because you like/dislike them.

Sigmas are pretty close to gammas but also distinct. I would also say sigmas are close to alphas and omegas in different ways. I think if you look at the manifestation of the personality traits sigmas are closest to omegas.

Btw I think alphas and sigmas generally have fewer mood swings, so all of that is pretty irrelevant to them.

> Vox Day also contradicts himself by claiming Gammas are conflict avoidant but also will argue and debate relentlessly far past the point where they've been beaten.

They're both true. I know for certain gammas do the latter; and a large amount of the time they back down when getting into serious trouble. They also generally don't fight battles directly.
 
I'm not saying being a delta is bad, since it's closest to "normal" that's what most people are. But no one would enjoy being described as such, look at how we deride the bug-men for liking popular culture herd mentality stuff. Beta is another normal-sounding personality description but more flattering. And is there any difference between a delta and beta beyond just the beta being an alpha's lieutenant?

Also, if Alphas aren't vindictive then Trump is looking a lot more like a gamma. I remember reading about some woman that worked for him and later on she had a different job and he wanted a favor from her that she thought was an ethics violation so she refused. For years after that he went out of his way to trash her as a work reference in order to hurt her career. This doesn't fit with the description of the alpha only attacking to secure a strategic goal and then being magnanimous in victory. And once again that description sounds more like a movie character than a real person. Powerful people in real life don't seem to possess much in the way of honor or mercy.

I'd boil it all down to just aggressive, socialized, and antisocial personalities.
 
BortimusPrime said:
I'm not saying being a delta is bad, since it's closest to "normal" that's what most people are. But no one would enjoy being described as such, look at how we deride the bug-men for liking popular culture herd mentality stuff.

Hmm... my first instinct is that isn't true. I imagine many deltas would, if this categorisation became more popular, accept this and think it makes perfect sense.

BortimusPrime said:
Also, if Alphas aren't vindictive then Trump is looking a lot more like a gamma. I remember reading about some woman that worked for him and later on she had a different job and he wanted a favor from her that she thought was an ethics violation so she refused. For years after that he went out of his way to trash her as a work reference in order to hurt her career. This doesn't fit with the description of the alpha only attacking to secure a strategic goal and then being magnanimous in victory. And once again that description sounds more like a movie character than a real person. Powerful people in real life don't seem to possess much in the way of honor or mercy.

1) This probably says more about what fake news is than what Trump is
2) Cruelty is different from pettiness.
 

Rigsby

Pelican
Gold Member

This guy needs to get in to the Marines!

Ok, so he wouldn't pass basic.

This was so funny. The payoff at the end where he just does a comedy turn around when faced with fat dad authority.

What a coward.

Gamma to the max!
 

Rigsby

Pelican
Gold Member
So, all my prayers have been answered.

Ok, not all my prayers. And the prayers I had were pretty low-key anyway. I've learned not to ask God for too many miracles. Unless I really need them. And then, it's quite surprising what he can come up with.

My step dad who I've talked about at length in this very thread before, well, he kind of nearly died. 3 times. But who's counting?

He's in a wheelchair now for the rest of his life. Which won't be long, seeing as he only had 5 years to live about 8 years ago. Borrowed time.

But that doesn't stop the old marxist lefty from going from strength to strength. Just met up with them again the other day and all that 6000 calories a day is paying off. He's getting fitter and stronger. What a hard bastard - I'll give him that.

Narcs never humble, they only appear to humble.

As soon as he got a bit better it was all Jeremy Corbyn is the saviour of the UK. He's a fellow Trot!

He really went to town on Trump as well, still calling him a prick and calling anyone who supported him a prick. The old guy was back! Yes! Full of that piss and vinegar. Wheelchair bound. In fact, bed-bound really. Nastier and more vicious than ever.

Little old mumsy looks after him. Lifts him even, even is she is recovering from cancer herself. No matter, she is a martyr.

Fixed the printer for him. Set up a new wifi and router. Printer and computers needed networking which I did. No biggie. Took me a few hours. No problemo.

Got it all set up. Said to him: there ya go, all set up now, you should be able to print remotely from any computer/laptop in the house.

Response?

Nothing. Nada. Sweet fucking fuck all.

Again, the narc waits for this moment. The gamma waits for this moment. They live for it and relish it.

Thought it might have been an anomaly so set up some other computer stuff. But no, no thanks there either.

Mumsy is getting a bit upset by this point at the abuse my crippled step father is giving out so she is extra nice to me. "Would you like some sauce on your sarnie son?". Sure, mum, knock yourself out...

Triangulation still being played.

Earlier it was my mum being a complete bitch and my step-dad playing nice policeman. God, these cunts fucking drain me.

So I set up the wifi, got the printer working. Backed up the laptop and desktop. Printed out a return for Amazon to pick up some stuff so they could get their money back. Mowed the lawn. Hoovered all the upstairs of the house.

When my step dad first got out of hospital after six months, after nearly dying a few times, he was as low as low can be.

I stayed awake till six in the morning. I heard him crying out. I went downstairs. He had dropped his piss bottle. I picked it up. He had tears in his eyes. He was so fucking thankful. Thankyou, thankyou, thankyou...

But all that is forgotten now as the old sort gets stronger. Getting bigger and fitter and meaner by the day. Mumsy cooking him 4 meals a day. Hoisting him in and out of bed to piss and shit. Fair fucking play to them both.

When I set the router up before for them, he said to me, very terse:

Are you going to get this done any time soon or do I have to pay for an engineer to come out and do this for us?

Fuck me, when you put it like that!

So I set it up.

Gammas always pretend to be nice. They fool you.

They always watch though and when you are at your weakest they strike. No matter if they are in a wheelchair or bed-bound even.

It's a marriage made in heaven: mumsy and him. A covert and an overt. Textbook.

I know I've been played like a fiddle. That's what hurts. I woke up a little while back but when I started pointing out that I knew what was going on was when the real violence started. Since then it's been cat and mouse between us.

I no longer have any feelings for my mother. I certainly have no feelings for my step-father. I'm just working out a plan to go 'no-contact' as we say in the narc recovery community.

Imagine being totally crippled. And yet, this person who you have treated like shit your whole life still forgives you and comes to help you, but you still can not resist to exercise your narc personality. Silence. Nothing. No thanks. No words. You know it unsettles. You've done it your whole life and it brings rewards.

Such fucking bollocks. I almost admire him in a way.

As always, I ain't even mad bro'...

I observe.

Not a lot I can do really as my mum is his main enabler.

Still, he's getting strong now, even with late stage heart failure and all this just being palliative care.

It just makes them more vicious.

I got everything I prayed for. I asked God 'please, set him back to his old self, make him as vicious and as obnoxious as he always was', and all my prayers were answered.

He's getting stronger by the day.

The Gamma rises!
 

debeguiled

Peacock
Gold Member
Have you ever tried carrying on the conversation you wished you were having with the narc, playing both side yourself?

Thanks for taking the time to do all that.

Oh, you are welcome.

Really, you took a good chunk out of your day.

No problem, I know you would do the same for me.


That kind of thing. The gammas hate it, and tell you that you are being childish, or that it is the least you can do.

And than you can say, innocently:

Oh, I just like to pretend people are polite. Makes the day better.
 

Leonard D Neubache

Owl
Gold Member
Explaining what they're doing and then forgiving them for it is cleansing of the soul and also fulfils your daily trolling requirements.

"You're being rude and ungrateful, but I forgive you."
 

debeguiled

Peacock
Gold Member
Leonard D Neubache said:
Explaining what they're doing and then forgiving them for it is cleansing of the soul and also fulfils your daily trolling requirements.

"You're being rude and ungrateful, but I forgive you."

Yes, LD. You got it.

The point isn't changing them.


The point is expressing your own feelings in a roundabout way, in the moment, however you decide to do that, so that you don't bottle it up and let it build for months and then you lose your temper, and the gamma can play the victim to the crowd.

I have learned this the hard way. Address your frustrations when they happen as a source of self therapy and you don't end up carrying around the gamma's bad behavior in your soul.

The trolling, of course, is the fun part, and only limited by your imagination.
 
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