I have buddy I work with who is having a terrible time of it with his ex & really needs help & support right now.
Got married young to a girl whose parents siblings are intwined with his own extended family. Had 3 kids, 2 boys & a girl who at this stage are all under 8 years old. Beautiful kids. He broke up with her 7 years ago & she has been tormenting him ever since. Dude is going quietly insane with her super stalky behaviour (phone games, signing into his iCloud acc etc), soliciting info from his so-called friends as to his activities & whereabouts & using this info against him, poisoning the well amoungst family or any new friends or romantic interests, turning the kids against him etc. Its breaking his heart & he's experiencing depression & anxiety leading to occasional SSRI & illicit use etc.
I wanna get him reading the forum & am hoping you guys might remember threads discussing similar situations that I can get him started with so he does not feel completely alone & also some useful insight into his situation & how he can manoeuvre his way through it.
He's started talking about moving to another state & while I would be all for it if there were no kids involved, I know that if he did do that he would just be running from the problem & would hate himself for abandoning his kids. Interstate travel would kill him financially & time wise. Also, the kids will be left in the (non) care of a narcicisstic bitch who clearly has no place being a mother.
Any links on RVF or otherwise would be greatly appreciated. This guy needs the red pill fuckin badly.