The Hollow Lure of Female Attractiveness

[Coja Petrus Uscan]

We're living in an age where there is now an army of women who are attractive for a living. An attractiveness that is maintained by the amount of time they spend on their body. And time which is afforded by an even greater army of thirsty men throwing their money and attention at them.

This multi-billion dollar mammary-industrial complex has served to give men a ridiculous standard of beauty beyond natural beauty. If there is a part of this industry that is for naturally beautiful women (no makeup) it is an obscure niche. It's mostly various strains of thots.

And for women it has shown the extreme value that can be extracted from even fairly average looking thotted out women. A woman can get far by marketing herself on her appearance and feigning she is beyond naturally beautiful.

It also appears apparent that there is a huge overlap between women who market themselves on looks and being shallow and disconnected from impulses to settle down and have children (at least in a healthy manner). The better players of the game have little reason to develop much else, as males will always entertain their superficial whims and sate their short-term desires.

This has led to a somewhat catch-22 evolutionary biological scenario whereby men are drawn to women who are beyond naturally beautiful; and women are drawn towards the resources they can get from making themselves beyond naturally beautiful.

As far as I experienced, there was at best nothing presented by mainstream society during my entire life that suggested women were valuable for anything other than being pleasurable to look at (or in the workforce). It was only when I was about 25 that I started to hear otherwise, from what I am told is the woman-hating alt-reich. Write a story about that, Joe Bernstein, you lurking cuck.

Recently I've realised how much it's affected my mind (probably physically) being raised in this environment where such emphasis is placed on attractiveness and nothing on womanly virtues. If I had been raised to look for women who have obviously good morals, can restrain themselves from the carousel etc. then I think my mind would be very different. Instead we've been drowned in a sea of ever-increasing cleavage, hips, ass and video evidence of prostitution. And for most this is completely normal. Most will go to their grave without hearing an argument as to why any of this might not be a good idea. And so men have provided women little reason to develop other parts of themselves.

The reason I write all this is I am interested in how members perceive this situation that allows them to see past the thots and to seek genuinely valuable women.

Currently I am in a position where the allure of flesh has diminished somewhat. When I am exposed to thottery I am irked. I think this is from the combined reminder of the irremovable control women have over men with their looks; my increasing moral distaste for what tends to lie behind thots often feigned beauty; the effect it has on society and probably the declining interest in thots that seems to come with age.

Also I can't quite get to the position where I am prepared to put aside a girl is less attractive than me, but otherwise good wife material.

 

[debeguiled]

MWGA



A video by a woman which doesn't show her body or face.

 

[tier9]

It was only when I was about 25 that I started to hear otherwise, from what I am told is the woman-hating alt-reich. Write a story about that, Joe Bernstein, you lurking cuck.

Who is Joe Bernstein, and how do you know he lurks here?

The reason I write all this is I am interested in how members perceive this situation that allows them to see past the thots and to seek genuinely valuable women.

Use your big head, not your little head. It's not unusual for men to age and have what they're looking for in a woman change as well. Your body also goes through physical changes as you get older too, so that plays a part as well.

I realize that in the Manosphere, it's very popular to say men are peaking at ages 40 or 50 or 60 or whatever age they can come up with that is middle to older age. I'll go against the grain and say that for most men, you're going to have to accept that you are not the most sought after demographic from youthful woman.

Yes, there are exceptions, I know PappayaTapper has written on here about how he's almost 50 and is dating Czech supermodels and that is great. But we all have limits, just like woman do, and it's important to recognize those limits and not hamster (though always self improve, obviously).

Gework, I'm not nearly as old as you (I think your upper 30's/40's, right?), but I'll say this: At the end of the day, every woman is going to age, especially if she has several kids. So her beauty, is finite. Her other attributes, will go on forever though. And that's what's important, you're going to need something more than looks to keep a marriage going. And no, no matter how much you self improve, you're not going to be a top catch for the ladies at age 70 either. There's no shame in getting old, don't hamster around that.

At the end of the day, if you want a family, who cares if a girl is less attractive than what you perceive yourself to be if she has other qualities that you like? No woman is ever going to look like she did in her early 20's, they all age. That 9/10 at age 20 is going to look pretty similar to that 6/10 20 year old when they're both 40 anyways. Maybe the 9/10 has better genetics and will be a point or two above the 6/10 in attractiviness when they reach middle age, but again, if the 6/10 has great qualities and helped you raise a family, who gives a shit?

My post was long and hopefully it wasn't to confusing. What I was trying to say is that the way that I deal with seeing past a woman's natural beauty is to remember that the 6/10 and the 9/10 are going to look pretty similar past the age of 40 anyways and damn near the same from 60 and upwards. If you want a family, which I'm assuming you want one day Geowork, than just remember that a woman's beauty isn't going to matter nearly as much when they both get older.

Again - Use your big head, not your little head.

 

[Rigsby]

gework, you are back home in the motherland.

The place I was born. My family going back generations and generations.

It's changed. It's homogenised.

Cardiff could be Bristol. Swansea could be Newcastle. Drop an alien off...

It's gone lad.

I think I'm probably a bit older than you.

Cockles and laver bread from Swansea Market on a Saturday?

The women from this part of the world are among the most beautiful specimens on the whole planet. Blondes, Italians, Welsh?

And a combination that would make any sane man salivate.

And what a great fucking attitude most of them had as well. Would stick by you. Through thick and thin.

Maybe not the most amazing looking women, but definitely the most strong and loyal women. I've traveled far and wide (ok, not as much as you) but those Welsh tarts are among the best anywhere. Ask the kings of Middle Eastern countries.

But it's gone. It's over. I'm not sure you even knew the world I knew there. There was a point where it was going to work. But the councillors took over and fucking butchered the roads and the town.



It's gone mate.

We provided over 60 percent of all copper at certain points in the industrial revolution in the 1800's. We provided 50 percent of the world's coal, before there was oil. We had the first railway ever built.

There were programs for regeneration. This was a wasteland, a desert. But the trees and the flowers started to grow again, and for what?

Damn you, God Damn you all to hell..


Welsh girls are hot as fuck. They used to be good wife material. But there is no good wife material left anywhere on the planet.

I've fucked girls from all over the planet. Black, white and yellow.

None compare to those beauties.

But it's gone now.

You might find yourself a good girl from the valleys of Glynneath or Pontrhydyfen or Ystalyfera or Tonypandy, but good luck with that.

Venture out to LLanelli.

It's an insular world, and those that travel are marked, almost signed as some kind of traitor in fact for leaving the village. And don't you ever go back there trying to educate the savages.

Jante law applies.

The ten rules state:

You're not to think you are anything special.
You're not to think you are as good as we are.
You're not to think you are smarter than we are.
You're not to imagine yourself better than we are.
You're not to think you know more than we do.
You're not to think you are more important than we are.
You're not to think you are good at anything.
You're not to laugh at us.
You're not to think anyone cares about you.
You're not to think you can teach us anything.


But all is not lost my brother.

If you can find yourself a good ugly girl (that you find strangely attractive) from somewhere in the valleys (you won't find her in Townhill), and if you can convince her big burly brothers that you mean well, well, then you might be set for life. In fact, you might have the best chance out of all of us.

There is life there gework. Dig for it. Deep. The way our forefathers dug out the coal from the seams.

I'm ashamed to say, but a lot of the men there are weak. If you have any kind of testicular fortitude (and it seems you do), I think you can do ok.

We aren't a beautiful people, but we are a real people.

Slowly we are finding much in common with the Irish and the Scots. But it's probably all a bit late for that now.

There's Gold in that land lad! I promise you.

Become a miner.

All it takes is to hit one rich seam, to find one rare nugget.

Have you got it in you?

I think you do.

Give it a go.

I promise you, the women there are like no other women on earth. They are the holy grail.

Dig deep now.

You are mining for Gold:

 

[questor70]

There is something in me that, when I see my personal platonic ideal in a woman's beauty, I immediately focus or lock on. The infatuation starts. But these women, while very rare, are not unique. It might be once in a lifetime to see one on the street, but not hard to find one online to fantasize over.

There are so damn many humans on this planet that even if the ratio is 1 woman in 100,000 there are more perfect 10s out there than any guy can get fixated on, and as each of these hit the wall, more and more arrive on the scene, like some grand conveyor-belt. That's one thing age has taught me. So many women who were my precious childhood idols hit the wall and others took their place, some looking similar enough to be drop-in replacements. That sense of rarity isn't the same anymore.

I think beauty in general (not just women) should not be demonized. It's a wonderful thing and I think maybe men are the true connoisseurs in being able to judge and appreciate beauty. Women demonize male gaze but I strongly believe that good taste is a personal asset, and definitely a prerequisite to doing anything creative. It's just important to know what beauty signifies and what it doesn't. It's hard to stop equating beauty with inner qualities like innocence and virtue.

 

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Since your first sentence addresses women who make a living being good looking (i.e. online thots), I'll address that.

The popularity is short-lived. It gets old fast looking at the same woman day after day.

I've noticed that whenever I find a nice-looking woman on Instagram, she's good for about three months tops. After that, her "sexy" poses start looking ridiculous, then annoying. And then inevitably she'll put out obnoxious messages or hashtags that make me unfollow her.

Sometimes it's even the amount of photos that make me unfollow someone. The most recent example is Kathy Zhu, the beauty queen who got dethroned (or whatever) because she supported Trump. I initially followed her because I wanted to back her. I felt she was thrown out of the pageant unfairly. And her photos were pretty hot.

But she put out a barrage photos -- sometimes several per day. It only took a couple of weeks before I was like "Enough already! No more pics!! I can't take it anymore!!" It was just overkill.

You can only experience something so many times before you start to hate it. It's like a song the radio won't stop playing. Or like a magazine that won't stop putting the same model on the cover, week after week.

The larger point here is that without that third dimension of actually knowing the woman in real time, these women just become disposable likenesses of humans, not real people. I don't even remember half the ones I unfollowed. I am guessing I'm not the only one who has experienced this. When it becomes assumed knowledge someday, I think the online thot business will go out of business.

 

[Kid Twist]

It seems that we'll unfortunately see it continuously get worse before it gets better. I have worse news even ... what makes it better will first make it markedly uncomfortable for the overwhelming majority of people, but maybe this will have a simple living silver lining that will make us all appreciate one another again, and not each other through technology.

When this rebound occurs, I'll be intrigued to see if we a) post and b) if we post, what we say about these times versus those to come.

 

[griffinmill]

"We are living in a world where beauty is considered an accomplishment."

- Bret Easton Ellis, Glamorama

 

[TooFineAPoint]

^

When everyone is told that they are beautiful at any size, YouGoGurl, etc etc... beauty is certainly an accomplishment.

Modesty + loyalty + beauty is of course the greater accomplishment.

 

[PharaohRa]

Women are only good for sex, children and to test a man's resolve. Women that are pretty are, on average, have good genes! Women that are not pretty are, on average, do not have as good genes as pretty women.

 

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Women are only good for sex, children and to test a man's resolve. Women that are pretty are, on average, have good genes! Women that are not pretty are, on average, do not have as good genes as pretty women.

This has to be a troll post. But I'll address it anyway.

Saying women are mere baby machines is on the level of saying men are only on earth to be workhorses and cannon fodder. There's truth it in, but it's a small percent of the whole truth.

Some women don't want families; some men don't want kids. Some people want to paint or make music. That's their choice.

The problem isn't them. We've always had men and women like this. The problem is that the new churches that control people's decisions (i.e. the corporations) are sending non-stop messages to women that their main value is in being worker bees and/or tawdry sex objects on places like Instagram.

Not coincidentally, it also benefits the corporations when women work for them and use their services. No one seems to see that end of it. But "follow the money" became an expression for a reason.

To bring it back to this post, women can pose on Instagram all they want. But if you put yourself out there as a one-dimensional sex object, don't be surprised if that's the only way people view you.

And if enough women do this, then don't be surprised when the image of women as a whole becomes altered and you get a world of men who "don't respect women."

Women are quick to judge men by the smallest of details ("He didn't go to an Ivy League school!") but seem bewildered when they themselves are judged by major things like putting their tits in people's faces 24/7. Once again, this came about because the corporations told us this through their propaganda-driven magazines.

But it's human to judge and unrealistic to think actions have no consequences. No matter what Cosmo says.

 

[Aizen]

Back in my blue-pill days, I would idolize thots, as they seemed to be the perfect andidote for my chaotic, teenage sex drive. A few years later, and a couple red pills down the hatch, thots only provoke disgust in me. I see plenty of thots that are 9s in looks and 4s in personality. For a women to forgo modesty to hypersexualize themselves is nothing less than shameful, and I find myself immediately turned off by this deep character flaw. Many wise men on this forum have expressed similar thoughts in regards to these fallen angels.

The most important trait that a woman can possess is pure femininity. Most men in the West can go years without seeing even a single example of this, so it doesn't even cross their mind that such a trait can exist on women. So far I've only seen truly feminine character in the Japanese women I've dated; I'm sure that there are other small pockets of the world where this value has preservered. The more masculine the man, the more he desires a pure, feminine woman.