Is she wrong, though? Listen to the message, not the messenger.
I think she is absolutely correct.
Look at your life and see how many decent-looking if not downright handsome black men you see with absolute thumb-faced dumptrucks of white wives.
Why?
He might have the looks, the masculinity, and the swagger, but she has the 780 FICO, the cars, the mortgage, and the near-six-figure job. He certainly has a certain radius of influence, but at the end of the day, he always has to talk to his wife about virtually any decision. And again, he is allowed a certain latitude, but when push comes to shove and she yanks his chain, he submits. He has to. Otherwise, its not just back to the hood with you, boy, but kiss 15-50% of your reported earnings good-bye through child support/alimony and to hell with you even seeing your kids because at the end of the day, when you raise your voice and argue about it, I'm a white woman and you're a black man - who are the cops going to believe, Tom Robinson or Mayella? Carolyn Bryant or Emmett Till?
Its an arrangement without being arranged, an agreement that doesn't need to be explicitly verbalized, but its a modern indentured-servitude-by-marriage. Matrimonial slavery if you will.
That's why you'll see more Denzels with Mimi from The Drew Carey Show than would happen organically.
Maybe someone should let the brothers know...