Got an almost 3 month old, up on the middle of night to feed him and put him back to sleep. What you're saying is eye opening but not surprising. It's a form of idolatry or inversion to put your child above your wife. I've even told my wife I love her more than the baby because it's true. We were joined in a sacramental union which was consummated, therefore we are one flesh, whereas our son is begotten of our flesh.This morning I read an article on parenting and I was appalled by the negative sentiment to parents, abusive parents, parents with no attention for kids, parents who are neglecting, it's so 1 directional that the parent needs to turn the anger inward, be ashamed and improve their actions (for the benefit of the kid).
It felt this is so familiar, I have seen this before.
Turns out there is a whole industry called developmental psychology. A majority Jewish industry that pushing this narrative. An industry that makes kids the central point of existence in a very scary way.
In modern culture kids are constantly asked what they would like to do, what they would like to eat, where they want to go for vacation, what they like in school, who they like in school, which sport they want to do, what they want to become, if they feel good.
As a contrast, all these questions are totally incomprehensible for the generation of my grandfather. They adapted as kids and if they didn't listen, they got a literal smack to get them in line.
In modern families, the parents are servants to the kids, which has been pushed since the 1930s and 1940s victimizing children and blaming parents for all the problems adults face later in life. Take up any modern magazine and parents are blamed for all the bad. This might also be another factor in the low birth rates we are seeing.
Instead of honor your parents, it's blame your parents today.
This form of neuroticism in parents to do good has been pushed by mostly Jewish psychologists, psychoanalists, psychiatrists and media.
"All about the kids"
Below a list with the most influential developmental "psychologists". This whole field of child and developmental psychology and psychiatry is Jewish (with some exceptions). I have been going through the rabbit hole yesterday, and literally anyone I looked into of the well known developmental / child psychologists / psychiatrists are Jewish of which many adopted European names.
It's a total subversion to a normal healthy family relationship, where a man listens to god, the wife listen to the man and the kids to the mother.
- Leo Kanner - In 1943, Kanner published his landmark paper Autistic Disturbances of Affective Contact, describing 11 children who were highly intelligent but displayed "a powerful desire for aloneness"
- On 1945 Rene Spitsz raise concerns about negative impact of institutional life on children.
- Howard Earl Gardner, American developmental psychologist
- Bronfenbrenner on Ecological systems theory
- Sigmund Freud
- Erik Erikson on stages of psychosocial development
- Alice Miller, writer of drama of the gifted child
To any young parents please don't listen to these quacks, who have been institutionalized nowadays. Be careful what they feed you and you feed your kids. Would you trust your kids around them? I wouldn't.
Even though this is not new to me, I just keep discovering more, also this. It's sickening how deeply rotten our modern culture is, how controlled it is.
Trust your gut and have faith in God and wish you blessed holy week.
I think this misunderstanding is one of the reasons my wife's and my parents ended up getting divorced. They had limited time and resources and gave what little they had to us, the children, which is akin to prioritizing food and hotel services to the passengers of the Titanic, instead of watchmen, navigators, and engineers. Also probably why so many children blame themselves for their parents' divorce.