The NoPorn / NoFap Thread - For Those Who're Serious

R.G.Camara

Kingfisher
I broke a few weeks ago my streak of no pron. I watched hours of hardcore porn after being clean from it nearly for a year, and clean from masturbating to it for 4+ years.

I realized why: I've let myself backslide. Let me explain.

When I first tried no faps, I found it too hard to go cold turkey. So I first decided no watching porn. I made myself an out though: I could masturbate to memories of old porn I recalled, but not any new porn or images. The purpose was to divorce the link in my brain between orgasm and the porn movie as much as possible. This was successful, as by doing so I was able to tone down my masturbatory urges and begin streaks of no fap.

Although I'd cut porn out, I began to look at Twitter accounts of porn stars I'd liked previously, and of course many of them post nude/suggestive clad photos of themselves or else video clips that I'd "accidentally" watch. Or I'd look at ads for escorts, which I used in the past; these, too, portrayed women in provocative poses in little to no clothing.

Although I didn't masturbate to these images, they triggered memories of old porn I'd enjoyed, especially with the porn sluts whose Twitter accounts I watched. So then I found it harder and harder to keep up a streak of no faps, but couldn't understand why. Then when I broke and just watched and j.o.'d to porn on my screen a few weeks ago, I was confused.

Now I get it: while many of the Twitter /escort ads I saw weren't porn for the most part, they were "porn to me", because they triggered masturbatory behavior and memories.

So I'm back on the wagon. No Twitter accounts of porn sluts or escort ads to trigger memories.

Wish me luck! And beware the slippery slope!
 

westernman

Sparrow
I'm on two months of no masturbation. During this time I've had a few wet dreams, but no relapses.

I feel strong but frustrated. Like my life isn't going anywhere. I am looking into paths to a more meaningful life. I would really like to relocate to Europe and start a life there. America is so incredibly demoralized
 
I would really like to relocate to Europe and start a life there. America is so incredibly demoralized
I hate to break it to you, but Europe is arguably worse. There's still a bit to be found, depending where you are in America. Less densely populated parts of southern states have a lot more good community, and it's not hard to find a church that genuinely believes in the Gospel. (Downside: Fat people everywhere.) Same can't be said for Europe.
 

westernman

Sparrow
I hate to break it to you, but Europe is arguably worse. There's still a bit to be found, depending where you are in America. Less densely populated parts of southern states have a lot more good community, and it's not hard to find a church that genuinely believes in the Gospel. (Downside: Fat people everywhere.) Same can't be said for Europe.
You aren't breaking anything to me.

I have lived in Europe and the states, and the quality of life is higher in the homeland, without a doubt. People there are surrounded by ethnocentric beauty, and live much healthier lives as a result. America is a consoomer hellhole, and the only strategy to live a normal life here is to retreat far far away from others. I prefer living in a community of like-minded people who get it, versus retreating away from the world.

In America Its RARE to find whites with a strong sense of identity, values tradition, and doesn't spend their free time drinking, snorting, smoking, and squirting. In Europe, it's not.
 
I broke a few weeks ago my streak of no pron. I watched hours of hardcore porn after being clean from it nearly for a year, and clean from masturbating to it for 4+ years.

I realized why: I've let myself backslide. Let me explain.

When I first tried no faps, I found it too hard to go cold turkey. So I first decided no watching porn. I made myself an out though: I could masturbate to memories of old porn I recalled, but not any new porn or images. The purpose was to divorce the link in my brain between orgasm and the porn movie as much as possible. This was successful, as by doing so I was able to tone down my masturbatory urges and begin streaks of no fap.

Although I'd cut porn out, I began to look at Twitter accounts of porn stars I'd liked previously, and of course many of them post nude/suggestive clad photos of themselves or else video clips that I'd "accidentally" watch. Or I'd look at ads for escorts, which I used in the past; these, too, portrayed women in provocative poses in little to no clothing.

Although I didn't masturbate to these images, they triggered memories of old porn I'd enjoyed, especially with the porn sluts whose Twitter accounts I watched. So then I found it harder and harder to keep up a streak of no faps, but couldn't understand why. Then when I broke and just watched and j.o.'d to porn on my screen a few weeks ago, I was confused.

Now I get it: while many of the Twitter /escort ads I saw weren't porn for the most part, they were "porn to me", because they triggered masturbatory behavior and memories.

So I'm back on the wagon. No Twitter accounts of porn sluts or escort ads to trigger memories.

Wish me luck! And beware the slippery slope!

That's why God said to flee from temptation. Any temptation. Just Run. Don't even entertain it.

Do it in conjunction with fasting and praying at least once a week to start with.
 

denskiz

Chicken
Currently sitting at around a month and a half, I don't exactly count days but definitely 40+. There is a very real possibility that I will have sex in a week. I am seriously considering fapping today or tomorrow, just so that I wouldn't underperform during the next weekend. I am not trying to rationalize fapping - I would never break my streak if I didn't have an objective reason to do so. Also, I would only fap to my imagination, I would never in a million years go back to watching porn. Porn is evil and it's not a part of my life, forever. I am not tempted by porn in the slightest.

What's your opinion on this? Is it a smart idea to fap to my imagination, just for the sake of not ruining the first sexual experience with my new LTR? I would like to hear the stories of guys who broke their long no-fap streaks by having sex, did you bust in 3 seconds like I expect to or did you miraculously manage to have a normal experience?
I had sex with a with a smoking hot 21yo this week after weeks of NoFap. I wanted to bust 3 seconds after entering. I just pulled out and come on her stomach. Took a 10min break and started having sex again.
 
You aren't breaking anything to me.

I have lived in Europe and the states, and the quality of life is higher in the homeland, without a doubt. People there are surrounded by ethnocentric beauty, and live much healthier lives as a result. America is a consoomer hellhole, and the only strategy to live a normal life here is to retreat far far away from others. I prefer living in a community of like-minded people who get it, versus retreating away from the world.

In America Its RARE to find whites with a strong sense of identity, values tradition, and doesn't spend their free time drinking, snorting, smoking, and squirting. In Europe, it's not.
I guess I have to tell myself otherwise as a form of American cope. I wish I was surrounded by more whites with white identity and white culture. America's particularly bad with the whole white trash culture and just the general "melting pot" mentality. What places have you lived in Europe? My family heirs from Denmark and I'd like to know if there's any strong reformed Christian community there. That's at least one upside to America, it's not that hard to find a Gospel-centered, reformed, generally conservative church.
 

Mikeyd03

Robin
After november....it will be 3 months porn free.

I can say the single biggest contributor to this streak has been staying busy. "Focus on your goals, building skills, health, and family.....so that you don't have time for porn."

I want to make it to January 1st porn free....and then 2022. These past 3 months have already granted me some great blessings:

-A new job.
-Building new skills.
-Feel less anxiety and depression.
-Feel more confident in the face of obstacles.
-Higher drive
-Feel less tempted by other vices (sugar, video games, etc)
-Feel closer to God

I can only imagine the rewards one year porn free will bring. Let's stay focused and keep fighting brothers.
 
Good evening everyone. I want to improve at this.

My accountability program isn't working as well as I'd like it too, I'm looking for new recommendations.

I'm looking for something that works well on mobile devices. What specifically can block you from accessing the chrome incognito browser, especially on mobile? The mobile versions of accountability software I've used are not as effective.

Are there any programs that prevent you from accessing adult portions of websites, e.g. reddit but allow you to use the safe portions of that website? If this is a unicorn, I can give it up. But I was wondering if such things existed.
 

Wutang

Hummingbird
Gold Member
I've been praying "Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me a sinner" 3 times every time I get hit by temptation and I feel myself slipping. It's been working for me. I'm about 34 days in so I'm at the point where women who normally wouldn't draw my attention are now catching my eye so the incidents of being tempted are rising. Saying that quick prayer and also visualizing Jesus while I'm saying it has been working well for me to fight off the attacks.
 

andrewFL

Chicken
That timeline posted by JiggyLordJr is correct.

I went almost 4 months.
EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS EXPONENTIALLY BETTER WHEN YOU'RE NO-FAP!
I can attest to those stages in the No-Fap Timeline. All true.

The day prior I had some really bad news on a legal matter, so I started drinking, ended up sleeping with a beautiful 22 year old (I'm 42).
We saw each other for a month, had amazing sex. It actually was very difficult to stop seeing her, but I was unhappy. It was just physical. No future. Not wife-material.

I'm back on no-fap. The legal matter took a very positive turn. It wasn't worth getting off of no-fap for a fling. It's important to not drink and not take caffeine because I notice that it brings out the urge to seek dopamine fixes and when I am enjoying life with no alcohol/no caffeine/no orgasm then it is much easier to stay no-fap! There was a post awhile ago from Roosh on going 30 days without alcohol/caffeine/orgasm... that is pure bliss. You develop a happiness that is deeper and a meditative state of calmness and satisfaction, no matter where you are or what you're doing.

Another great post from Roosh was to not sleep with a woman until you really get to know her because he stated that you cannot judge a woman after you start sleeping with her. It's like a drug. You're under the influence and cannot be objective. I am now abstinent until I get to know a good woman that would at least potentially be a wife and become a mother.
 

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Sparrow
Time for some accountability.

I'm on day 31, and yesterday was a struggle. Was a bit hungover from the night before and at some point images popped in my head.

I peeked at a P vid for a few seconds, felt repulsed and said to hell with it.

I think it's a sign that my brain is healing well, although I felt a tad bit ashamed for what I've done - so I read a few threads on those NoFap boards and those stories made my blood boil for a moment. The pattern is always the same : exposed to porn at a young age, knows it's wrong but thinks it's cool, consoom more and more, at 16 addicted to homo porn, not even attracted to men but the vanilla doesn't arouse anymore, etc.

Thank God I never went down that road.

Porn has to be completely eradicated. I don't care about muh freedom libertarian as long as it doesn't hurt me BS, this stuff has so much potential for people losing touch from reality and becoming slaves to lucifer. All in the name of democracy.

I have a good friend who proudly jacks it off to porn and thinks that there's nothing wrong with it. One good look at his eyes and you realise that he's not in a good spiritual state. Little does he know that NoFap/NoPorn could potentially better his life.

Life is difficult when everyone around you is glorifying sin, but we must accept that we are mere strangers in an inhospitable space called the world.

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Time for some accountability.

I'm on day 31, and yesterday was a struggle. Was a bit hungover from the night before and at some point images popped in my head.

I peeked at a P vid for a few seconds, felt repulsed and said to hell with it.

I think it's a sign that my brain is healing well, although I felt a tad bit ashamed for what I've done - so I read a few threads on those NoFap boards and those stories made my blood boil for a moment. The pattern is always the same : exposed to porn at a young age, knows it's wrong but thinks it's cool, consoom more and more, at 16 addicted to homo porn, not even attracted to men but the vanilla doesn't arouse anymore, etc.

Thank God I never went down that road.

Porn has to be completely eradicated. I don't care about muh freedom libertarian as long as it doesn't hurt me BS, this stuff has so much potential for people losing touch from reality and becoming slaves to lucifer. All in the name of democracy.

I have a good friend who proudly jacks it off to porn and thinks that there's nothing wrong with it. One good look at his eyes and you realise that he's not in a good spiritual state. Little does he know that NoFap/NoPorn could potentially better his life.

Life is difficult when everyone around you is glorifying sin, but we must accept that we are mere strangers in an inhospitable space called the world.

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Read this THREAD:

Just banning Porn sweeps the problem under the rug. It may suppress it somewhat. Only for it to be great funders of Organized Crime and give rise to modern Mafias just as powerful as those during the Prohibition era.

Memes like you are using are crucial to winning the fight. It is one of the weapons that de-legitimizes porn. Otherwise we will get Alcohol Prohibition 2.0.

It takes a multi-pronged approach.
 
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Coja Petrus Uscan

Hummingbird
Gold Member
I think it's a sign that my brain is healing well, although I felt a tad bit ashamed for what I've done

You must forgive yourself. In trying to ride yourself of sin it is easy yo slip into another, like those opus dei people with their cilices.

from yuh heart clean and yuh have a clear conscience den di truth shouldn't be an offense

Read this THREAD:

Just banning Porn sweeps the problem under the rug.

Memes like you are using are crucial to winning the fight. It is one of the weapons that de-legitimizes porn. Otherwise we will get Alcohol Prohibition 2.0.

It takes a multi-pronged approach.

Matt Walsh is the only guy in Shapiro-land I like and I don't know why they are letting him get away with his borderline-theocratic-tyranny. Maybe Shapiro is secretly sheep dipping us and he's really far-right. Very subversive, Ben!


I am at about 7 months and can't really see a full slip happening at this point. I recently had a very big problem and it brought tugging to the fore, and it has also brought a lot of sess thoughts up. This has coincided with not keeping an icon next to my computer. It really works. You can't be pulling it out with that there. A large mural in the wall would be even more effective.

On a different note I have noted that my mast has returned to a reliably stoic quality that it was when I was a young teenager. Near the end of my coonsoomption career I was entering the territory where ED might be a reality. Over the last several years I wasn't able to get a truly full mast on demand. Maybe it happened once a month. It is not as easy to fly the flag as it was when I was fourteen. Back then the mere sight of an alluring woman would start heady bloodflows. That's gone, but the overall quality is back.
 
You must forgive yourself. In trying to ride yourself of sin it is easy yo slip into another, like those opus dei people with their cilices.





Matt Walsh is the only guy in Shapiro-land I like and I don't know why they are letting him get away with his borderline-theocratic-tyranny. Maybe Shapiro is secretly sheep dipping us and he's really far-right. Very subversive, Ben!


I am at about 7 months and can't really see a full slip happening at this point. I recently had a very big problem and it brought tugging to the fore, and it has also brought a lot of sess thoughts up. This has coincided with not keeping an icon next to my computer. It really works. You can't be pulling it out with that there. A large mural in the wall would be even more effective.

On a different note I have noted that my mast has returned to a reliably stoic quality that it was when I was a young teenager. Near the end of my coonsoomption career I was entering the territory where ED might be a reality. Over the last several years I wasn't able to get a truly full mast on demand. Maybe it happened once a month. It is not as easy to fly the flag as it was when I was fourteen. Back then the mere sight of an alluring woman would start heady bloodflows. That's gone, but the overall quality is back.
The other thing I recommend is exercise and eating healthy as in a Keto Diet combined with intermittent fasting. A strong healthy heart helps with a strong mast.
 
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