You should have escalated and tried to get the bang. She flat out wrote that you were good looking, clearly wanted the D.
Roosh said:https://medium.com/welcome-to-the-scream-room/im-with-the-banned-8d1b6e0b2932
At the same party was a mangina from Vox who was intimidated by my appearance
Now Penny has seemingly quit Twitter declaring: ‘I’m leaving Twitter until all this bloody fuss dies down. Honestly, it would have been less trouble to get run over.
Look, I am kind of an idiot. I am constantly walking into things, losing my phone and keys, and wandering into traffic because I'm thinking about something else or have spotted something interesting in the sky, and that's when I'm not in a country where all the cars come in the wrong direction. Friends and complete strangers prevent me from taking the fast-lane death walk in New York City on a regular basis, and the reason that this happens is that people are actually surprisingly decent when you get down to it. If Ryan Gosling hadn't happened to be the nearest person at the time, I'm sure the girl standing next to me, who confirmed Gosling's identity, would have prevented me from meandering into an early grave.
In the interests of composed reporting, I really think the sentiment "Ryan Gosling is a total hero and saved this woman's life!" needs to be reassessed, even though it's technically accurate.
But as a feminist, a writer, and a gentlewoman of fortune, I refuse to be cast in any sort of boring supporting female role, even though I have occasional trouble crossing the road, and even though I did swoon the teeniest tiniest bit when I realized it was him. I think that's lazy storytelling, and I'm sure Ryan Gosling would agree with me.
debeguiled said:Let's not forget, Laurie Penny is the girl who complained about having her life saved by flipping Ryan Gosling:
Roosh said:Number two: I seek to destroy the nuclear family, and disturb traditional relationships between men and women. This is also true.
And there is Daryush Valizadeh, also known as Roosh V, self-styled leader in the “neo-masculinity” movement
The Lizard of Oz said:Milo is a fag who just doesn't give a shit because all real fags want is to be entertained and enjoy the show while it lasts.
If 14 seconds isn't allowed, can men stare at women for 13 seconds? Here's all you need to know
Vivek Surendran
New Delhi, August 16, 2016
Kerala Excise Commissioner Rishiraj Singh made a statement that men who stare annoyingly at women for more than 14 seconds can be booked. Social media users got a topic to troll and the statement got us thinking about the practicality of such a rule.
Kerala Excise Commissioner Rishiraj Singh is synonymous to controversy. From making controversial statements to going against the official code of conduct, Singh has managed to stay in news. He has also earned many loyal supporters who refer to him as the 'Lion of Kerala'.
Yes, Singham! And now 'Singham returns' by making a new statement that has not gone down well with many.
Singh, while speaking at an event held in Kochi on Sunday, said, "A case can be filed against men who 'annoyingly' stare at women for more than 14 seconds". He also urged women to come forward and speak up against all physical/sexual harassment they face and asked them to carry small knives or pepper sprays to defend themselves in case of molestation bids.
Kerala Sports Minister EP Jayarajan said Singh's statement is 'annoying' and that he will bring this to the notice of the Excise Minister K Babu.
Mr Singh, you are being trolled
Rishiraj Singh's statement is being trolled big time on social media. Memes are being made using popular scenes from Malayalam movies. Here are five of them, and for those who can't read Malayalam, we have translated it
Girls tells her friend that a guy is staring at her. Friend responds by saying he stared at me for 13 seconds and then shifted to you to avoid trouble.
What does the Indian law say?
Section 354 of the Indian Penal Code states, "Whoever assaults or uses criminal force to any woman, intending to outrage or knowing it to be likely that he will thereby outrage her modesty, shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to two years, or with fine, or with both."
Under Section 354D of the Indian Penal Code, stalking is described as follows -
1) Follows a woman and contacts, or attempts to contact such woman to foster personal interaction repeatedly despite a clear indication of disinterest by such woman;
or
2) Monitors the use by a woman of the internet, email or any other form of electronic communication, commits the offence of stalking.
Although stalking, using expletives, offering work benefits in exchange of sexual favours, sharing content on social media with an intent to harass, are all punishable offences under various sections of IPC, but staring has not been included as of yet.
Is staring an offence anywhere else in the world?
A thread on Roosh V Forum has a user Feldeinsamkeit stating that staring is "now to be categorized as a form of sexual harassment that is in and of itself worthy of being reported to the police."
A Quora thread asking "When does staring at a woman become sexual harassment?" got an answer that states "frequently staring at someone, particularly in a manner that this person has expressed a disliking for, could be one element of harassment. But by itself it really would have a hard time fitting the US Federal definition of Sexual Harassment."
Singapore Legal Advice website states, "The use of the term "outrage of modesty" originates from section 354 of the Penal Code which criminalises the offence of the "assault or use of criminal force to a person with intent to outrage modesty". The use of criminal force is a key element. Hence, simply staring at someone inappropriately would not fall afoul of this section, which has mainly been applied to molestation cases."
Staring at someone in a disturbing way could be considered wrong and not acceptable as a social etiquette, but it has not been listed as illegal anywhere. It could be, however, be a part of sexual harassment laws or under "outrage of modesty".
Uttar Pradesh came up with a similar rule in 2013
A video report by Aaj Ki Khabar states that through an amendment in the Section 354D of IPC, harassment of women via social media and mobile phones were made punishable offences. It also says that staring has also been listed as a punishable offence under this section.
We weren't able to confirm this.
In the video, people question the apparent '30 second stare rule' where men could be booked if they stare at a woman for over 30 seconds. Men are worried they could become soft targets and says such a law could be misused by women.
How much is too much? What is the logic behind 14-second-stare-rule?
Being stared at by random people could be quite disturbing, intimidating and awkward. But how much is too much?
We couldn't come up with a possible explanation of rationale for the 14-second-rule. Social media users have been raising questions like -
1) Who'd keep a check that a person's stare is not crossing 14 seconds?
2) What happens if you stop staring at the 13th second?
3) Is staring for 13 seconds or lesser legal and acceptable?
4) What if men wear sunglasses and women can't make out they're being stared at?
5) Will blinking have an effect?
Soon after news broke that Ghostbusters star Leslie Jones’s website had been hacked and replaced with stolen nude photos and racist memes, I got an urgent email from Whitney Phillips, one of the world’s foremost experts on online trolling and harassment (Phillips quite literally has a doctorate in 4chan). Phillips wanted to know if Motherboard was going to cover the hack, and how we were going to do it.
“I have some thoughts on the ethics of amplification—how, we can't not comment on stories like this, but commenting perpetuates the disgusting narrative and associated imagery. The question being, what's the ethical way not just for journalists and academics to respond, but for individuals, as well?” she said.
“Is more harm than good done when the association of Jones with Harambe is given longer life? I'm honestly not sure,” she added. “BUT I WANT TO HAVE THAT CONVERSATION.”
In her book This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things, Phillips explores how early trolls from 4chan’s /b/ board manipulated the media into spreading their message. Though “trolling” is now an outdated, imprecise term, the Twitter harassment and illegal hacking of Jones’s website are amplified the more journalists write about it, the more people retweet it, the more we allow it to stay in our collective consciousness. (Take a look at how the alt-right celebrated after Hillary Clinton vindicated the movement's existence).
Phillips emailed me as I was also considering whether there’s an ethical way to cover abhorrent behavior on the internet—decisions about how and whether to write about racially, sexually, or xenophobically motivated hacks and harassment is a question the Motherboard staff considers all the time, but it’s rarely a conversation that ever makes it to the public.
And so I decided to have that conversation with Phillips and the roles we all play in amplifying questionable or grotesque online behavior. This is an edited transcript of that discussion; the entire audio of the conversation is this week’s episode of the Radio Motherboard podcast. (You can subscribe here, or on any podcasting app).
MOTHERBOARD: When something like this happens you don’t want to give the people harassing her or hacking her publicity, but at the same time you want people to know this is happening. To me it seems like like an analog is how we report on mass shootings—how are we supposed to cover a mass shooting without getting copycats? Or how are we supposed to cover online harassment without perpetuating what happened?
Whitney Phillips: The ideal outcome is to not incentivize further behaviors. The way this works is, there’s an immediate reaction and then a flurry of think pieces and news coverage. The ideal outcome is we don’t create a space, a circumstance in which these behaviors are so effective for the people engaging in them. As you said, by not reporting on what’s happening, by not condemning what’s happening, then you risk almost seeming complicit, like it’s not worth mentioning. It’s a fine line between explaining what happened to condemn something, to contextualize it, to talk about it, and incentivizing future behaviors.
Those two things happen almost simultaneously, so it really is a bind cultural critics and journalists are in but also one individuals face. This is a space where individuals can lend their voices to important conversations, but in so doing it amplifies the story. Every retweet, even if it’s a retweet in order to condemn, it still is furthering a particular message.
I don’t know who is responsible for these actions, I don’t know what kind of people they are like in bodied spaces, but if i had to guess, part of the “game” for them is to trick regular Americans and journalists alike into continuing the harassment. Every time we repeat what they’ve done, we are amplifying that message. We are keeping it in cultural circulation. And those images—it’s not just about the impact it has on Leslie Jones, but any person of color, any woman, any person who is thoughtful—that’s harmful.
Do you think journalists are beginning to think about the things you brought up? I remember when the Fappening, which was the celebrity iCloud leaks, happened, everyone was like "Oh my God, let’s report this," but not too many people thought "Hey, maybe we shouldn’t publicize this" because the publication of the fact that this happened is going to lead people to seek out those photos. I feel like there was eventually a backlash to that sort of coverage.
Motherboard kind of sat that one kind of completely out because we thought "We don’t want to amplify this message."
But eventually that story became so huge that it was like, "Why aren’t we condemning this, Why aren’t we saying something about this?" And since then we’ve taken the tack of we should report on this stuff because people deserve to know what’s going on—we’re an online culture publication, but we’re sensitive about how we’re going to report on these things.
It seems like the Fappening was a turning point and people are being more mindful of these things now and don’t just have a bonanza of coverage every time something bad happens online. But I don’t have insight into other newsrooms and you talk to journalists all the time—has the tone of your interviews changed?
Definitely—they’ve started to think of their complicity in amplifying this content. People were still repeating and sensationalizing the Fappening as they had done with online harassment up to that point. But things started to change for last year’s pro-rape rally organized by the pick-up artist and all around… piece of work Roosh V.
The journalists I talked to in the US and overseas were worried if they filed stories on this case—it’s just some guy, his reach is limited, but it becomes much different when you give him a national or global platform. You risk drawing additional participants, not just genuine participants, but you attract people who enjoy controversy or just want to stir the pot for the sake of stirring the pot, and so journalists were in this moment—they recognized that risk. They also recognized the risk of not reporting on the story. In order to combat violent misogyny, you have to name it and show examples of it.
No one had answers, but I could hear in their voices that they were genuinely concerned and wanted to do right by the people who are negatively affected. But our media ecosystem doesn’t do well with nuance, and sort of—it values clickbait and sensationalism, it values likes and views.
It puts journalists in the position that, regardless of what their conscience is saying, that’s not the business model, and so you have a conflict between sort of editorial demands and human ethical moral demands. Those two things don’t always go together in this moment of media history. It has been heartening to see the conversations are happening. The consensus is that people don’t really know, and they’re worried about the impact their stories are having.
I can’t help but thinking it’s important to have these conversations about motivations, but obviously there’s a very concrete and public victim here: Leslie Jones. We don’t have her to talk to right now, but how should the victim’s wishes factor into how we cover it?
That’s a tough question. The problem is there are so many victims of these behaviors that we probably have a reasonable sample size to pull from, and that’s not a joke. This happens so frequently, you know—it would be, I would wonder what each individually thinks. We don’t often (or ever) have access to their inner thoughts, and it’s completely understandable if any of us put ourselves in her shoes, the last thing we would want to be doing is engaging with a bunch of journalists and answering their questions about stuff. I would want to disappear for a long time off the internet and out of the public eye.
Regardless of whether we know what they want, we should defer to what is going to do the least harm. It’s such an egregious case, it’s an issue of justice and fairness—in the end we should try to rally around our own, meaning a human who has feelings and a family and people who worry. What would we do if this was our mom or our sister? We would want to protect them and be kind to them and anything we could do to not make it worse, that’s what we would do. Thinking about this case, treating the victim as imagining what we would do if we loved or knew them, I think that’s why these conversations are so critical, because there are lives at stake.
The Hollywood Reporter interviewed Milo Yiannopoulos from Breitbart and asked what he thought about Leslie Jones getting hacked. Milo was the one who initially incited a lot of the early Twitter harassment, and I couldn’t help but think that this is the old school, "let’s cover this from every possible angle" sort of journalism that isn’t helpful and amplifies a message.
But then I looked and their tweet about it was highly successful, that story got a lot of attention. People on the internet click bad things. Everyone wanted to know what Milo thought because he started this. So like, there’s always going to be someone who says "Here’s where you can find the photos," "Here’s what one of the harassers thinks"—are we fighting a losing battle?
The danger there in framing it as an "us vs them" is those things we’re accusing "them" of doing are pretty endemic to the "us" as well. Milo is an extreme example of someone behaving in grotesque ways, and other instigators like him are similarly grotesque. And it’s really tempting to point the finger and say "They’re the problem, they’re the bad guys, they’re the ones that are doing this," that he started it.
But all the people who retweeted that tweet and who commented on that story and who then perpetuate it inadvertently—even the people who are doing it from a well-meaning perspective or commenting on the story in order to condemn the story—we’re all responsible for how the internet is. The internet is not bad because of a few bad eggs. If the internet is bad or if it yields more negative outcomes than positive outcomes, that’s a function of all of us. That’s why it’s so critical for all of us, regardless of where we draw the moral or ethical line and push people over that line, you’ve got to think about what can we individually do? What are we doing and how can we do better? How can we be more mindful, more compassionate?
That is a more helpful approach to those questions because we all carry some responsibility. We’re all curious about the story. We don’t necessarily all want to see the images, but we all want details, we want to know what she thinks, we want this information. That desire for information, even if it comes from a neutral place or a positive place, it still perpetuates our system.
What this example shows and the other examples show, all of these outcomes that many people condemn as being hateful or grotesque, it’s all reflective of the fact that our system doesn’t work, that our system is not set up for humane engagement, it’s set up for hot takes and clickbait and sensationalism. This is the result of that. This is the bed all of us have made.
We haven’t all embraced it, but this is the result of a media economy that privileges metrics. This is what happens. And so, in order to really think about how do we fix it, we have to think about the “we.” We deal with the we, and then we think about them later. What I hope comes out of it is some self reflection, because it’s deeply, profoundly needed.
Why Pick-Up Artists Should be Sued for False Advertising
If you’re hot for a guy who’s an asshole, it’s not because he’s an asshole, it’s probably because he’s hot. This is precisely why pick-up artists aren’t just evil and gross, they’re also guilty of false advertising.
Take, for example, the reigning king of the pick-up artists: Daryush Valizadeh (Roosh V). What a profoundly delusional idiot this guy is! He actually thinks that his sociopathic “skills” are what gets him laid. Of course, it’s obvious to any objective outside observer with common sense—indeed, even to hardcore feminists like Laurie Penny, who loathe him—that he gets laid a lot because he’s hot.
Roosh V is guilty of what Nassim Nicholas Taleb refers to as the Green Lumber Fallacy.
As Taleb makes clear in Antifragile (2012), people who are successful at something are often blissfully unaware of why they’re successful at it. They might think they know why they’re successful, but they’re often dead wrong. He refers to this as the Green Lumber Fallacy, after the trader who made a fortune buying and selling green lumber without knowing what it was. Dude thought green lumber was actually “green” as opposed to freshly cut. Funny, I know. But, what’s not funny is watching a homely computer programmer trying to apply Roosh V’s creepy techniques.
These guys fail miserably because the techniques aren’t just morally repunant, they aren’t effective.
What is effective? I’ve noticed three discernible traits when it comes to straight guys who get a lot of play: 1) they genuinely like women and/or 2) they’re hot and/or 3) they’re powerful, which is kinda hot. Successful pick-up artists need to realize that they’re getting laid in spite of their douche-y-ness, not because of it.

Quintus Curtius said:An article about Roosh in Newsweek. Just read it...it's pretty well balanced.
"I’m 37 now," he says. "How much sex do you need?"
Quintus Curtius said:An article about Roosh in Newsweek. Just read it...it's pretty well balanced.
http://www.newsweek.com/2016/10/21/roosh-v-pickup-artist-right-wing-provocateur-509319.html
Quintus Curtius said:An article about Roosh in Newsweek. Just read it...it's pretty well balanced.
http://www.newsweek.com/2016/10/21/roosh-v-pickup-artist-right-wing-provocateur-509319.html

When I meet Roosh at a Starbucks in Washington, D.C., he’s early. That’s surprising, since he tells his readers to show up five to 10 minutes late to dates. (“She’ll have anxious feelings focusing on your arrival instead of the doubts she had about coming to see you.”)
churros said:The dipshits in the Guardian have written another navel-gazing article about the alt-right. Not interesting enough to quote.
But it's amazing how they're still wrong about some basic ideas. Never come across this "corrective rape" talk...
But Roosh has become something of a poster boy! You'll have to click through to see the image.
https://www.theguardian.com/comment...ight-manosphere-mainstream-politics-breitbart
On their forums I’ve read long, furious manifestos claiming that women are all sluts who “ride the cock carousel” and sleep with a series of “alpha males” until they reach the end of their sexual prime, at which point they seek out a “beta cuck” to settle down with for financial security.
