tomzestatlu said:So recently I have met with my ex few times, my last LTR that ended 1 year and 4 months ago.
At first I wanted to meet her, because I missed her, of course. But I guess it´s real purpose is now to asure myself I don´t need her.
First two things that came to my mind: she´s gained weight and she is 25 now, too old. She´s not fat, but her body was something I loved about her, especially skinny long legs and now you see fat on her legs and hands and she´s far from what she has been before. She was a lot of into sports and was very adventurous and yesterday, when we met, she was bitching how difficult it was to climb up some not so big hill and how she almost died. And what was the worst - she was defending her looks and laziness all the time, without being it even a topic of a conversation.
We agreed on going on a walk and I was hungry, so I told her I will just grab some fastfood to my hands and eat it while we walk and she told me she wants to it too and wanted to go to some restaurant. That reminded me another thing. She wasn´t okay with money and she probably still isn´t and even though she eats at restauants. At least she paid for herself.
No contact is being said as only option in this thread, but actually contact with "who she did become" helps me a lot realize, that I am not missing anything.
I remember you writing about bumping into her.
Good to hear about your wins buddy..