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<blockquote data-quote="kazimierzdabrowski" data-source="post: 558640" data-attributes="member: 17190"><p>lonewolf1, where do you see this relationship going? I&#039;ve just gotten out of something very similar and your story sounds a lot like mine. She was dependent and clingy wirh you for 5 whole years? Sometimes toxic? Did she have a counter-dependent mindset (I hate you, don&#039;t leave me. I love you, go away.)? It sounds like you were in an ingenue-type&#039;s rotation. It&#039;s hard to look at a situation with a woman like that and say one way or the other if she left because she wanted an actual LTR and the dread game (sounds more like toxic passivity on your end, especially if she was bringing up potential monkey branches in front of you) pushed her over the edge, or if she wanted to go back on the carousel, because often enough they don&#039;t know themselves. What do you want here, lonewolf1? Answer that question before you decide to break no contact.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="kazimierzdabrowski, post: 558640, member: 17190"] lonewolf1, where do you see this relationship going? I've just gotten out of something very similar and your story sounds a lot like mine. She was dependent and clingy wirh you for 5 whole years? Sometimes toxic? Did she have a counter-dependent mindset (I hate you, don't leave me. I love you, go away.)? It sounds like you were in an ingenue-type's rotation. It's hard to look at a situation with a woman like that and say one way or the other if she left because she wanted an actual LTR and the dread game (sounds more like toxic passivity on your end, especially if she was bringing up potential monkey branches in front of you) pushed her over the edge, or if she wanted to go back on the carousel, because often enough they don't know themselves. What do you want here, lonewolf1? Answer that question before you decide to break no contact. [/QUOTE]

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