I think this is a great subject that is just part of the bigger picture of the elites dragging our society down into the lowest form. Hosier/Stockings/Tights, whatever you want to call them are at the height of feminine classy dressing. Men don't wear them, much like heels, because they are very feminine and thus are very attractive to both men and women.
The only male comparison would be a nice fitting suit. It can make most any man look good, within reason. And men rarely wear suits these days as well and if they do they end up wearing them with jeans or some kind of "dress" tennis shoe.
I too couldn't wait to get out of college and dress nice and go into the office full of other nicely dressed people. By the time I hit the professional office, after college, it had mostly become business casual. Over time that changed to full on casual. Now almost everyone wears jeans and tennis shoes into the office. It looks so unprofessional to me. Like they had a day off and got called in at the last second and were going to leave ASAP the current emergency was fixed. I rarely ever wear jeans, I don't find them as comfortable as dress slacks and I don't think they look as good. There is a time and place for jeans and I am rarely in that time and place.
Compared to 30 years ago (1992, yikes!) I am sure our obese population has doubled, if not more so. We have more people who are depressed. We have no rules stating we must dress nicely, regardless of the function. I have seen the average American woman is 5'4" and weighs 170 lbs. That is catastrophic, and women of this build likely wouldn't be comfortable in anything other than very baggy clothes. Or they unfortunately wear yoga pants with flip flops and really make themselves look unattractive.
@Luna Novem I suggest you go ahead and wear pantyhose if they make you feel more comfortable/attractive/confident, etc. You will set a great example for the next generation of women. When you want to wear them but not stand out too much, go with nude. Most people would not be able to tell you are wearing them if you wear nude.