rottenapple said:
Some more questions:
-I've read many times that women are the most fertile 2 days before and after the 14th day of their period, I assume now that this is mainly said because the 14th day is just an estimate + the fact that the sperm can stay alive, hence 2 days before ovulation is still dangerous, because if we were certain to know when a girl would ovulate and disregarding the sperm can stay alive fact then 1 or 2 days before ovulation she would be infertile correct?
-what info do you have on mood changes during various phases of the cycle. We generally know many girls are hornier during ovulation and crankier during menstruation. What else can you tell us? Also my current girl is on her best behavior during menstruation actually and the worst the 1-2 days before she starts bleeding. She might be a special case. From my experience girls are the horniest during both menstruation and ovulation, although in the former they will be more resistant due to the messiness.
-does alcohol affect the chance of impregnating a girl (alcohol on the men and/or on the females side)?
-is there any scientific evidence that girls are more likely to get pregnant when they are really into the guy? I've heard also when the girl has an orgasm the chance increases correct?
And not sure if you have good info on this, but if you do, feel free to share. How does the pill influence female psychology?
With regards to your first question: assuming that a woman has a textbook 28 day cycle (which doesn't really exist) and assuming that a woman releases only one egg at ovulation and does not have any follow up eggs, then she will ovulate at day 14, and by day 16 the egg will have died if it has not been fertilized. Since a woman can release follow-up eggs after the first one, and since most women's cycles are not really 28 days, that model is an oversimplification.
Second question: there is a pre-ovulation syndrome and a pre-menstrual syndrome. The exact symptoms/signs of the syndromes vary between individuals, but in general: pre-ovulation is accompanied by better mood, need to socialise, flushing of the lips and cheeks, breast and buttock enlargement, increased vaginal fluids. Pre-menstrual syndrome is accompanied by irritableness, mood swings, bloatedness, constipation, and genital dryness.
The exact causes of these syndromes are thought to be due to the effect of peak blood oestrogen for pre-ovulation and due to the peak and fall of progesterone levels for pre-menstrual syndrome. That said, pre-ovulation and PMS are both very poorly understood and the exact mechanisms underlying them have not been discovered. The person or team that discovers exactly what PMS is on a biological/cell level could very well win a nobel peace prize, because it has remained a stubborn mystery for a while now.
Third question: strictly speaking, alcohol is toxic to sperm, so technically it should reduce the chances of pregnancy; but realistically speaking, alcohol increases the chance of having unplanned unprotected sex, so it balances out. On the females side, alcohol may destroy the egg if there is a high enough concentration at the uterine wall, but that will have to happen several days after fertilization, when the egg tries to implant itself.
Put it this way: despite being toxic, alcohol seems to cause more pregnancies than it prevents.
Fourth question: A girl who is into a guy or who is having an orgasm will release vaginal, cervical and uterine fluids which are very sperm friendly, containing lots of nutrients for the sperm to eat, lots of water to make it easier for the sperm to swim, and very few defense mechanisms to prevent killing of sperm. So yes, this can increase the chances of pregnancy, but it is not a requirement.
If you are more interested in sperm and how they get to the egg, this is a great introductory video:
Fifth question: the female contraceptive pill works by suppressing the release of either LH or FSH. Without these hormones, follicles cannot mature their eggs and also cannot release their eggs. This is done by maintaining high levels of progesterone and/or oestrogen in the blood stream, which shuts down the brain's desire to create LH or FSH.
Other effects on physiology depend on the woman, and there is a great variation in effects, but commonly: improvement in skin (this is due to high hormone levels cancelling out testosterone effects), bloating, constipation, water retention, mood changes, personality changes, weight gain. Most of the bad side effects on a woman's body are due to the effects of Progesterone, which causes water retention.
There is also some conflicting evidence with regards to some cancers, but if a woman develops a hormone responsive cancer, she may make it worse by being on the pill. The pill also speeds up blood clotting, which in some women can cause thrombosis, especially if they are also smokers.