Deluge said:
"I swear I thought it was just a plain old futon, and not a casting couch. All 999 of those cocks don't count, cos the only man in my life I need now is Jesus.
So if you ever see Jesus Ramirez, let him know that Ellen Page, the crazy canuck, is looking for him. Ah, those swarthy Central Americans. It's all right [name of lesbian lover], that's all in the past. And if you dare bring it up in an argument, then we'll both know you're racist. Besides, why would we need to have sex when we can connect on the spiritual level?
It's not like you didn't know...I mean, how hard is it to abstain, when lesbian bed death is a fact of life? What do you mean you're a sexual creature? There are so many better ways to bond! We don't need sex to express the love we have for each other.
That's what a domestic violence suit is for."
TravelerKai said:That mommy brain thing is very interesting. My wife has changed enough for me to notice. She has alot of street sense and common sense, but she has actually for once had a handful of blonde moments, which is kinda strange for a serious minded Chinese girl. She is much more nurturing than she was before. She is an ENTJ which is rare for females, so she has a great deal of practicality in her personality. I was nervous that she would not bond well with the baby when she was pregnant, but now that concern is gone. She is totally locked onto the baby. She also makes clumsy moves more often too. It could just be that she is still stressed and lacking sleep, but I cannot give her anti-inflammatory/andrenal gland repairing tea like I drink because it would stop her ability to make breast milk. When she gets normal sleep back I wonder if she will be more like her usual self before the baby or still have ditzy moments from time to time.
Caduceus said:TravelerKai said:That mommy brain thing is very interesting. My wife has changed enough for me to notice. She has alot of street sense and common sense, but she has actually for once had a handful of blonde moments, which is kinda strange for a serious minded Chinese girl. She is much more nurturing than she was before. She is an ENTJ which is rare for females, so she has a great deal of practicality in her personality. I was nervous that she would not bond well with the baby when she was pregnant, but now that concern is gone. She is totally locked onto the baby. She also makes clumsy moves more often too. It could just be that she is still stressed and lacking sleep, but I cannot give her anti-inflammatory/andrenal gland repairing tea like I drink because it would stop her ability to make breast milk. When she gets normal sleep back I wonder if she will be more like her usual self before the baby or still have ditzy moments from time to time.
TravelerKai, you wrote this 4 years ago.
Can you give us an update how your wife's "mommy brain" developed over the course of the last 4 years ? Did it stay the same or did she go back to her former self (meaning the mental state prior to birth of her 1st child) after she stopped breastfeeding ?
Feisbook Control said:With regard to veteran (female) Japanese porn stars, am I the only one who has noticed that Maria Ozawa is starting to hit the wall in a big way, much bigger than most Japanese porn stars? She's going to look fucking awful by the time she's 40, I think (she's 28 now). An obvious difference between her and most others is obviously genetic: she's half Caucasian. There's also another very interesting fact about her. The overwhelming majority of Japanese porn stars are scouted. Maria Ozawa purposely sought out the industry herself. I don't know her family history (other than that she's half French-Canadian), but I suspect there's something in there that's off. I wouldn't be surprised at all if she had a big drug habit either.
TravelerKai said:Caduceus said:TravelerKai said:That mommy brain thing is very interesting. My wife has changed enough for me to notice. She has alot of street sense and common sense, but she has actually for once had a handful of blonde moments, which is kinda strange for a serious minded Chinese girl. She is much more nurturing than she was before. She is an ENTJ which is rare for females, so she has a great deal of practicality in her personality. I was nervous that she would not bond well with the baby when she was pregnant, but now that concern is gone. She is totally locked onto the baby. She also makes clumsy moves more often too. It could just be that she is still stressed and lacking sleep, but I cannot give her anti-inflammatory/andrenal gland repairing tea like I drink because it would stop her ability to make breast milk. When she gets normal sleep back I wonder if she will be more like her usual self before the baby or still have ditzy moments from time to time.
TravelerKai, you wrote this 4 years ago.
Can you give us an update how your wife's "mommy brain" developed over the course of the last 4 years ? Did it stay the same or did she go back to her former self (meaning the mental state prior to birth of her 1st child) after she stopped breastfeeding ?
Cot damn. I forgot all about this post.
She went back to normal when the first kid turned ~2. Then she went right back into Mommy Brain syndrome again because of being pregnant with kid number two.
Now kid number 2 is almost 2 years old and while she is not as ditzy or airheaded as before, she is still clumsy (dropping things, etc.) I think clumsy is probably her personality. I don't think that is going away. She is still a big chested Chinese version Blonde.
The cliff notes is that it seems to take around 2 years (plus or minus 6 months) after birth for the hormone levels to level off and stop giving them the mental fog. I wish I had gotten blood work done on her to compare and contrast it. Maybe some guys super knowledgeable on hormones on the forum may have insight on female hormones during pregnancy and post pregnancy. I recently got on TRT myself and my mental fog is completely gone, so it does make me curious. As for the breastfeeding, the breast feeding stopped before 2 years, but did not impact anything as far as I can tell. Women can still squeeze a drop out sometimes even if they cut off the milk. Again, that is hormone driven.
Another thing I noticed is that it did take a little longer for her to lose the weight from the second baby compared to the first and the mommy brain seemed to be correlated to that as well, because it did not seem to go away when the weight started to fall off.
So to sum up, is it all just elevated estrogen (estradiol) and progesterone, etc. levels?
Flux said:Interestingly enough, I do feel like I'm doing some sort of duty when I sleep with a new girl, I feel good beyond the orgasm, I feel like a better person afterwards, more virtuous.
Nature is perfect.