At the end of dinner, for your own sanity, you should have taken off your mask and gone "surprise! I'm not vaxxed, but you are all brainwashed!!"When the Delta/Omicron stuff began to kick off, she sent us e-mails about how she wanted us to get boosted. I lied about this, too, thinking, OK - let's just get through Christmas, I bought an awful lot of gifts for other people this year. She did, since I got "boosted" with a coworker only last week, demand that I take a negative test a few days before the gathering to prove I wasn't sick. I caved in on this request and did, feeling pretty crummy about that too.
Oh man, I was bothered myself at a family gathering but it wasn't like that. Actually, the worst I could say, was going to post in the "normies" thread. Just that the silence was deafening. Not a single word about all the lies, tyrrany and trouble in the world. A lot of people in the family have caught covid (including myself), some vaccinated, some not, and the fact that nothing that bad has happened to any of them may have made them slightly relaxed about it. Won't hold the silence against them, at least they are focussed on their lives rather than the brainwashing from the media, although some of them are at least lightly brainwashed.
I have been known to blurt out at family dinners "It's all a lie." I think we will rot our souls if we pretend to be in agreement with the lie more than just occasionally. Note to self not to do what you did today again.