ImmoralPsychology said:If you think it's ok to insult people for how they look and to disregard other people's feelings, you lack integrity and self-respect, are not a man and don't know what it is to be one.
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Oh yes,i've had the pleasure to quote thisisthinprivilege here before,it is pure gold
ImmoralPsychology said:If you think it's ok to insult people for how they look and to disregard other people's feelings, you lack integrity and self-respect, are not a man and don't know what it is to be one...
...No, the best way to change things is for guys to stop sticking their dicks in these genetic cesspools.
Wadsworth said:ImmoralPsychology said:If you think it's ok to insult people for how they look and to disregard other people's feelings, you lack integrity and self-respect, are not a man and don't know what it is to be one...
...No, the best way to change things is for guys to stop sticking their dicks in these genetic cesspools.
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Also, even taking your premise on its face, that isn't what's happening. What's happening on that blog is that fatties are attacking people for being thin, calling them privileged.
ImmoralPsychology said:Really? This is your justification for thinking it's OK to be a straight up asshole? You can't disparage fat girls for insulting skinny girls or feminists for hating men and then do the exact same thing. You certainly can't justify the behavior by comparing yourself to those types of people.
ImmoralPsychology said:The best way to fix the fat problem is not by being insulting and trying to shame them. First of all, you give up your right to call yourself a man.
ImmoralPsychology said:But even more importantly, or maybe just more realistically, is that shaming simply won't work. There are too many now. They can't be beat anymore, at least not that way. The single best way to effect change is through simple economics of supply and demand. As long as they continue to get dick that they're reasonably happy with, absolutely nothing else will matter.
ImmoralPsychology said:And that's why I bring up the "would you bang" thread. There are what I would assume to be guys with much better options out there than me and yet they would be willing to bang girls that I wouldn't even let touch my food before eating.
Handsome Creepy Eel said:Thyroid can't conjure food out of thin air. The only diseases that involve actual uncontrollable weight gain are extremely rare and based on water retention and edema all around the body, which is not nearly the same as classic obesity.
ImmoralPsychology said:But even more importantly, or maybe just more realistically, is that shaming simply won't work. There are too many now. They can't be beat anymore, at least not that way. The single best way to effect change is through simple economics of supply and demand.
AnonymousBosch said:ImmoralPsychology said:Really? This is your justification for thinking it's OK to be a straight up asshole? You can't disparage fat girls for insulting skinny girls or feminists for hating men and then do the exact same thing. You certainly can't justify the behavior by comparing yourself to those types of people.
It's not my justification, because I simply don't give a fuck if people think i'm an asshole or not. I'm speaking about their cognitive dissonance in expecting preferential treatment whilst engaging in the same behaviour they're pillorising.
I grew up in a violent, male-dominated culture where admitting any kind of weakness could have gotten me, or those in my circle, killed. I have no time for the bullshit excuses of weak people expecting the rest of culture to change to protect their fragile egos, when they could learn some fucking resilence and, by doing so, create lasting positive change in their lives. Jesus, the narcissism on display on the average Tumblr or Livejournal blog.
I'm simply not responsible for their feelings, or their continued pathology. They will surround themselves with people who'll tell them what they want to hear, not what they need to hear.
White Knight for them all you want, but be aware that the weak will throw the strong under the bus to save themselves, *because* they possess no resilence, and can never accept themselves being to blame. Surround yourself with winners, and you'll go further.