Tiger woods wants to remarry

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Timoteo

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Skiers tend to have that "I don't give a fuck" attitude, and do what they want regardless of what people think. It's a good thing too, because she'll need it! Anyway, this is a SOLID bounce-back for Tiger. He upgraded to a hotter chick that's actually accomplished something. She obviously knows about his past situation and is cool with it.
 
Stanford Education; Marry a Swedish 9 with amazing natural tits, trade her in for an American 7 with no tits and a fat skier ass. Pay the Swedish 9 $100* million to go away. (*perhaps $500mil +)

Swedish Education: Marry rich idiot, take $100* million from him. Move on to handsome billionaire. Rinse and repeat?
 

speakeasy

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Barron

 
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Patrice O'Neal explained all this long ago. Men have ego's and that's what kills us with women. We want to believe they're our possession and will be loyal to us like we are to them so we become emotionally (ego) invested, ie oneitis. Obviously Tiger Woods has massive pride and that's what keeps him stuck on Elin. He can't get over her because he's not in control of his ego, he's not willing to take a loss. He doesn't realize that relationships are exactly like sports in that, "in order to play you have to be willing to lose."

He believes he "had it all" back when he was married with a happy family and a wife because he's a blue pill novice that never had the chance to explore masculinity and allow it to humble him. He, like so many other athletes, fails with women because they had the discipline and dedication to focus completely on their craft but never on their character.
 

TravelerKai

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NomadofEU said:
Patrice O'Neal explained all this long ago. Men have ego's and that's what kills us with women. We want to believe they're our possession and will be loyal to us like we are to them so we become emotionally (ego) invested, ie oneitis. Obviously Tiger Woods has massive pride and that's what keeps him stuck on Elin. He can't get over her because he's not in control of his ego, he's not willing to take a loss. He doesn't realize that relationships are exactly like sports in that, "in order to play you have to be willing to lose."

He believes he "had it all" back when he was married with a happy family and a wife because he's a blue pill novice that never had the chance to explore masculinity and allow it to humble him. He, like so many other athletes, fails with women because they had the discipline and dedication to focus completely on their craft but never on their character.

He did have it all. Just like the previous poster in this thread Bonkers stated, there was not much more he could have asked for from Elin.

Thing is, Tiger humiliated her in ways very few women have ever been humiliated before. You see couples splitting over infidelity all the time, but no one knows who the 3rd wheel was. The split up is somewhat uneventful. Tiger on the other hand had his extremely embarrassing voicemails and text messages read over radio and TV for weeks, over god damn pornstars, escorts, and restaurant waitresses. It's one thing when a man is getting pussy on the side from a quiet hoe that is not looking for the bright lights, it's another thing when you were all but walking around with your penis out at every good looking blonde woman on the streets as if you were dying of thirst (for pussy of course). It's as if your very well known wife is not taking care of your needs back home or worst you are some sick and disgusting freak.

The entire village (the world) knows about his cheating. Elin probably still feels like she cannot come out of the rock she feels she needs to crawl under. Can you imagine the stares she gets in public? It's not rocket science why she bought that giant mansion far away from everyone. She said it was to protect her children, but lets be real. That was to protect her and those kids from shame. Tiger practically ruined his entire family's life. The level of irresponsibility he displayed as a professional, a man, and a husband is difficult to find in an equal.

You know I go back and forth sometimes about if she even let him get some on the side, was completely in the dark, had other hoes calling her, was told by a journo that they were going to break the story, or only got pissed because maybe he passed an STD on her. The bottom line is that he made a complete circus out of his family. It's almost unforgivable in many ways.

Speakeasy's picture of IRT Tiger, while pretty fucked up, has some merit to it. This dude has serious insecurities and put blonde pussy on such a high pedestal, that it fell down and crushed him.

NomadEU is also right about him being a beta as fuck nerd, that never took advantage of his position when he was in his prime enough. We can take it further though. Apparently his old man was a poon hound too. Sometimes, dudes will copy their old man for better or for worse. I have a brother like that, he will copy cat damn near anything my dad does, regardless of if he thinks it was right or wrong. Also his father not being alive possibly hurt things. Looks like he had Tiger when he was around 40 or so. Young men can use a father's influence deep into their 30s. The father-son dynamic is a complex one that could warrant it's own thread.
 

germanico

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Tiger woods wants to remarry

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TravelerKai post is golden, and on point. The dude brought it upon himself. I wont judge him for cheating, but whats this about waitresses and hookers? When one is at that level, you cant go below you. (I was going to write "you cant be seen", but its not a matter of getting caught, its a matter of your own dignity.)

Dude deserves what he gets, for thinking hes not worthy, for settling for less than that, for being reckless and indiscreet in his affairs, and for making his family and private life public.

And when this woman catches him cheating and takes him once again to the cleaners, he will deserve that too.
 

TravelerKai

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Allegedly Lindsey dumped him for cheating or something along those lines as well. What makes him think that his ex-wife has not noticed that as well? There is no real such thing as cheating on a boyfriend or girlfriend but he cannot even get the benefit of the doubt on that.
 

heavy

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bonkers said:
I know marriage isn't viewed favourably by a lot of people here, but I gotta go into bat for Nordegren a bit here.

She did her part in the marriage. She was/is stunning in her prime and was willing to to marry Tiger in her prime (this is what we would like women to be like, instead of being hypergamous and then look to settle down as they are approaching the wall). As far as I know, she was not hypergamous.

After she got married, she did the right things:
-she looked after herself and didn't let herself go
-she had children and took the time to look after them
-even after multiple children, she didn't use that as an excuse to let herself go and maintained a great figure
-she didn't seek any extra media attention or use her status as the wife of Tiger to whore herself out
-she didn't seek divorce until after his cheating came to light. and really who can blame her for asking for a divorce in those circumstances, especially when she seems to have done most of the right things

also from Tiger's performances before and after the breakup, you can see that she probably did the wife's duty in supporting her husband and did not extensively seek the limelight.

If there were more women in this world who looked as good as her, looked after herself and had a similar mindset (rather than the prevalent hypergamous/attention seeking/vapid/instant gratification that we see with so many western women today), the world would probably be a better place

This thread has some great pieces of wisdom. The first thing I thought when I saw this old bumped thread was, well yeah, of course he wants her back. He fucked up. I'm guessing she wasn't pleasing him (sexually of course) and he was frustrated so he whores around, it's positively reinforced, and then the big blow up.

The misunderstanding, however, is what exactly is positively reinforced. It wasn't him cheating >> her not pleasing him >> him cheating more >> her not pleasing him.

It was he's beta >> her not pleasing him >> he's behaving more beta >> she's pleasing him even less.

And like any guy, he wants to fuck, and he's rich and famous, so it's easy for him to get waffle house waitresses.

It started with him. He was a pussy, so she wasn't pleasing him. If he would have been emotionally/relationally alpha - with his status, wealth, fame - she would have made sure he didn't wander.

Why? Because she wouldn't have wanted him to move on to a better wife, a better life, better kids...she wouldn't have wanted to lose *him*.

But she knew, subconsciously, he couldn't find a better life. She knew, deep down, he was a pussy who couldn't do better than a waitress or porn star. His world depended on her, so she stopped pleasing him because she wasn't attracted to him. She already had half his stuff, already had his genetically superior children. I guarantee you she wasn't suckin him off to keep his urges to a minimum.

The excellent post above articulates Elin's participation in the marriage so well.

TravelerKai said:
NomadofEU said:
Patrice O'Neal explained all this long ago. Men have ego's and that's what kills us with women. We want to believe they're our possession and will be loyal to us like we are to them so we become emotionally (ego) invested, ie oneitis. Obviously Tiger Woods has massive pride and that's what keeps him stuck on Elin. He can't get over her because he's not in control of his ego, he's not willing to take a loss. He doesn't realize that relationships are exactly like sports in that, "in order to play you have to be willing to lose."

He believes he "had it all" back when he was married with a happy family and a wife because he's a blue pill novice that never had the chance to explore masculinity and allow it to humble him. He, like so many other athletes, fails with women because they had the discipline and dedication to focus completely on their craft but never on their character.

He did have it all. Just like the previous poster in this thread Bonkers stated, there was not much more he could have asked for from Elin.

Thing is, Tiger humiliated her in ways very few women have ever been humiliated before. You see couples splitting over infidelity all the time, but no one knows who the 3rd wheel was. The split up is somewhat uneventful. Tiger on the other hand had his extremely embarrassing voicemails and text messages read over radio and TV for weeks, over god damn pornstars, escorts, and restaurant waitresses. It's one thing when a man is getting pussy on the side from a quiet hoe that is not looking for the bright lights, it's another thing when you were all but walking around with your penis out at every good looking blonde woman on the streets as if you were dying of thirst (for pussy of course). It's as if your very well known wife is not taking care of your needs back home or worst you are some sick and disgusting freak.

The entire village (the world) knows about his cheating. Elin probably still feels like she cannot come out of the rock she feels she needs to crawl under. Can you imagine the stares she gets in public? It's not rocket science why she bought that giant mansion far away from everyone. She said it was to protect her children, but lets be real. That was to protect her and those kids from shame. Tiger practically ruined his entire family's life. The level of irresponsibility he displayed as a professional, a man, and a husband is difficult to find in an equal.

You know I go back and forth sometimes about if she even let him get some on the side, was completely in the dark, had other hoes calling her, was told by a journo that they were going to break the story, or only got pissed because maybe he passed an STD on her. The bottom line is that he made a complete circus out of his family. It's almost unforgivable in many ways.
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Clap, clap clap, bravo.

I can tell you, Elin will never take him back emotionally. I suspect she will never lose her deep disgust for him.

I'm close with a woman in her late 30s who is and was in a similar situation (relationally) as Elin. She was a great stay-at-home wife who homeschooled the kids, great cook, dinner every night, lunch for work, and I think good sex life. Sure, she isn't perfect. She bitches and moans and annoys like anyone, like any wife, but you'd be hard pressed to find a better replacement.

Husband cheated on her with 2 LTRs (ie not random trip to Vegas but legit relationship where he ignores her and spends their money on a mistress). She found out, she put up with the reality (because she still loved him), mistress broke it off, a year later he got into another relationship, she eventually found out, she put up with it for a while, but eventually she realized he wasn't devoted and she didn't want to have to go back to work till she was dead with zero retirement, so she divorced.

18 years into the marriage, 6 years after he first cheated on her, she left.

The nail in the coffin? In hindsight it made sense for her long-term well-being (finances). But I can tell you a huge breaking point. She discovered (inadvertently, actually it was on his old phone that her kids were playing with...yeah) he was involved in some weird orgy shit where he watches dudes nail his girlfriend while he fucks some fatty.

She nearly threw up in revolt. She was sick for days. She had discovered the deep-seated beta-ness of her husband, and that was it. While the relationship had dissolved and divorce had seemed imminent, her discovery made the decision much easier.

Her disgust has worn off post-divorce over time, but she'll never have feeling for her ex. She looks down on him, she pities him, but nothing would get her to take him back.
 

djk100

Robin
heavy said:
bonkers said:
I know marriage isn't viewed favourably by a lot of people here, but I gotta go into bat for Nordegren a bit here.

She did her part in the marriage. She was/is stunning in her prime and was willing to to marry Tiger in her prime (this is what we would like women to be like, instead of being hypergamous and then look to settle down as they are approaching the wall). As far as I know, she was not hypergamous.

After she got married, she did the right things:
-she looked after herself and didn't let herself go
-she had children and took the time to look after them
-even after multiple children, she didn't use that as an excuse to let herself go and maintained a great figure
-she didn't seek any extra media attention or use her status as the wife of Tiger to whore herself out
-she didn't seek divorce until after his cheating came to light. and really who can blame her for asking for a divorce in those circumstances, especially when she seems to have done most of the right things

also from Tiger's performances before and after the breakup, you can see that she probably did the wife's duty in supporting her husband and did not extensively seek the limelight.

If there were more women in this world who looked as good as her, looked after herself and had a similar mindset (rather than the prevalent hypergamous/attention seeking/vapid/instant gratification that we see with so many western women today), the world would probably be a better place

This thread has some great pieces of wisdom. The first thing I thought when I saw this old bumped thread was, well yeah, of course he wants her back. He fucked up. I'm guessing she wasn't pleasing him (sexually of course) and he was frustrated so he whores around, it's positively reinforced, and then the big blow up.

The misunderstanding, however, is what exactly is positively reinforced. It wasn't him cheating >> her not pleasing him >> him cheating more >> her not pleasing him.

It was he's beta >> her not pleasing him >> he's behaving more beta >> she's pleasing him even less.

And like any guy, he wants to fuck, and he's rich and famous, so it's easy for him to get waffle house waitresses.

It started with him. He was a pussy, so she wasn't pleasing him. If he would have been emotionally/relationally alpha - with his status, wealth, fame - she would have made sure he didn't wander.

Why? Because she wouldn't have wanted him to move on to a better wife, a better life, better kids...she wouldn't have wanted to lose *him*.

But she knew, subconsciously, he couldn't find a better life. She knew, deep down, he was a pussy who couldn't do better than a waitress or porn star. His world depended on her, so she stopped pleasing him because she wasn't attracted to him. She already had half his stuff, already had his genetically superior children. I guarantee you she wasn't suckin him off to keep his urges to a minimum.

The excellent post above articulates Elin's participation in the marriage so well.

TravelerKai said:
NomadofEU said:
Patrice O'Neal explained all this long ago. Men have ego's and that's what kills us with women. We want to believe they're our possession and will be loyal to us like we are to them so we become emotionally (ego) invested, ie oneitis. Obviously Tiger Woods has massive pride and that's what keeps him stuck on Elin. He can't get over her because he's not in control of his ego, he's not willing to take a loss. He doesn't realize that relationships are exactly like sports in that, "in order to play you have to be willing to lose."

He believes he "had it all" back when he was married with a happy family and a wife because he's a blue pill novice that never had the chance to explore masculinity and allow it to humble him. He, like so many other athletes, fails with women because they had the discipline and dedication to focus completely on their craft but never on their character.

He did have it all. Just like the previous poster in this thread Bonkers stated, there was not much more he could have asked for from Elin.

Thing is, Tiger humiliated her in ways very few women have ever been humiliated before. You see couples splitting over infidelity all the time, but no one knows who the 3rd wheel was. The split up is somewhat uneventful. Tiger on the other hand had his extremely embarrassing voicemails and text messages read over radio and TV for weeks, over god damn pornstars, escorts, and restaurant waitresses. It's one thing when a man is getting pussy on the side from a quiet hoe that is not looking for the bright lights, it's another thing when you were all but walking around with your penis out at every good looking blonde woman on the streets as if you were dying of thirst (for pussy of course). It's as if your very well known wife is not taking care of your needs back home or worst you are some sick and disgusting freak.

The entire village (the world) knows about his cheating. Elin probably still feels like she cannot come out of the rock she feels she needs to crawl under. Can you imagine the stares she gets in public? It's not rocket science why she bought that giant mansion far away from everyone. She said it was to protect her children, but lets be real. That was to protect her and those kids from shame. Tiger practically ruined his entire family's life. The level of irresponsibility he displayed as a professional, a man, and a husband is difficult to find in an equal.

You know I go back and forth sometimes about if she even let him get some on the side, was completely in the dark, had other hoes calling her, was told by a journo that they were going to break the story, or only got pissed because maybe he passed an STD on her. The bottom line is that he made a complete circus out of his family. It's almost unforgivable in many ways.
...

Clap, clap clap, bravo.

I can tell you, Elin will never take him back emotionally. I suspect she will never lose her deep disgust for him.

I'm close with a woman in her late 30s who is and was in a similar situation (relationally) as Elin. She was a great stay-at-home wife who homeschooled the kids, great cook, dinner every night, lunch for work, and I think good sex life. Sure, she isn't perfect. She bitches and moans and annoys like anyone, like any wife, but you'd be hard pressed to find a better replacement.

Husband cheated on her with 2 LTRs (ie not random trip to Vegas but legit relationship where he ignores her and spends their money on a mistress). She found out, she put up with the reality (because she still loved him), mistress broke it off, a year later he got into another relationship, she eventually found out, she put up with it for a while, but eventually she realized he wasn't devoted and she didn't want to have to go back to work till she was dead with zero retirement, so she divorced.

18 years into the marriage, 6 years after he first cheated on her, she left.

The nail in the coffin? In hindsight it made sense for her long-term well-being (finances). But I can tell you a huge breaking point. She discovered (inadvertently, actually it was on his old phone that her kids were playing with...yeah) he was involved in some weird orgy shit where he watches dudes nail his girlfriend while he fucks some fatty.

She nearly threw up in revolt. She was sick for days. She had discovered the deep-seated beta-ness of her husband, and that was it. While the relationship had dissolved and divorce had seemed imminent, her discovery made the decision much easier.

Her disgust has worn off post-divorce over time, but she'll never have feeling for her ex. She looks down on him, she pities him, but nothing would get her to take him back.

He is probably beta deep to the core, but I think his ex relly loved the guy. It's just he is rich/famous and wanted to play it both ways, a nice wife and fucking sidepieces
 

eradicator

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Porfirio Rubirosa said:
That 35-year-old pussy must be very good to justify all this shit. Or maybe he's just super-beta.

A little bit from column A and a little bit from column C

My guess is that he thinks getting his family back will give him confidence to win majors again. For 35, that looks like some prime pussy as it goes, but he should be out banging supermodels and female pro athletes(not hope solo with her ham sandwich pussy, but hot female athletes like that skier)
 

nek

Pelican
While I think the affair thing impacted his game some, I think the media and others are attributing too much of his decline to it. He's been battling injuries for some time, is getting older, and really wrenches his body when he hits ( I saw some sports science thing on this).
 

NilNisiOptimum

Kingfisher
There's one other thing that gets glossed over when the media talks about his affair leading to his decline.

Tiger led the 2009 PGA Championship going into the final round on Sunday. He lost by three strokes. That was the first time he lost a major with the 54 hole lead. Three months later, his personal life is tabloid fodder. If that doesn't shatter one's perception of invulnerability, you never had it in the first place.
 
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