TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

[Wayout]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

Has anyone actually watched the whole episode? Who do you think will be last past 90 days? Did you notice how Aziza ( The Russian girl) always dreamt about coming to America, even learned American English. She had a minimal accent when she was speaking. I think out of all the brides,the Colombian was the most sincere. The Russian is the least. Oh and the hot one with a guy from Scottsdale is an obvious gold digger. I envy the most the guy from Scottsdale! )

 

[Mentavious]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

I saw the previews for next Sunday and it looks like one of the girls will be doing Some modeling.

Not good for him.

 

[Mentavious]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

Exactly what Akula said.

One guy is showing her around LA while the other shows her NY.

Wait until reality hits when they leave.

 

[Menace]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

How is it possible for Len, who runs a FITNESS GYM FOR WOMEN, to not regularly tap ass? Fucking Bikram whatever his name is (inventor of the Yoga system), was doing this systematically and repeatedly to his students (now accused of sexual assault). A Russian girl will eat a guy like Len alive because you can be sure that he has deluded notions regarding women. He gets up at 4 and is in bed by 8:30-9? What young girl wants a life like that? She wants to enjoy life, to feel, etc.

 

[Wayout]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

How is it possible for Len, who runs a FITNESS GYM FOR WOMEN, to not regularly tap ass? Fucking Bikram whatever his name is (inventor of the Yoga system), was doing this systematically and repeatedly to his students (now accused of sexual assault). A Russian girl will eat a guy like Len alive because you can be sure that he has deluded notions regarding women. He gets up at 4 and is in bed by 8:30-9? What young girl wants a life like that? She wants to enjoy life, to feel, etc.

Yep - she'll take half of his house,his money and hius gym with half of the women! Russian bitches are like hurricanes - when they are gone, your house and your possessions are gone too!
I hope he doesn't' expect she'll be going to bed with him at 9 pm in Scottsdale! Scottsdale is the party central of the Southwest of the US!
The other guy refinced his house to bring his bride to America - also doesn't look good for him!
I hope they get to bang these hot women and peace out at 90 day mark!

 

[Suits]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

Someone needs to make a TV show about us.

It would be a ratings monster

Probably. People do sometimes watch stuff with the sole purpose of being offended. However, the show would probably lead to us receiving a sympathetic acceptance. Many of our members, when you meet them, have a background that pretty much justifies a lifestyle focused on self-improvement.

The problem is, we'd have to give up our anonymity.

 

[TripleG]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

Has anyone actually watched the whole episode? Who do you think will be last past 90 days? Did you notice how Aziza ( The Russian girl) always dreamt about coming to America, even learned American English. She had a minimal accent when she was speaking. I think out of all the brides,the Colombian was the most sincere. The Russian is the least. Oh and the hot one with a guy from Scottsdale is an obvious gold digger. I envy the most the guy from Scottsdale! )

Yes, I watched the first episode. That was actually the highlight for me Sunday evening. Been waiting for some refreshing new shows on cable tv as I am slowly getting tired of my favorite show (Gold Rush).

So, based on what I saw I would give Mike, the Cleveland IT guy probably a 15% chance of staying with his Russian girl Aziza past 90 days. He is really dating up...I would say the guy is a 5 while the chick is around a 7.5
They do not seem very affectionate towards each other and the fact that this girl had already applied unsuccessfully for a work visa is a red flag. Also, he does not seem to be rich, lives in a small apartment in Cleveland, which is not exactly a fun city to live in. I'm sure the girl would die of boredom as Akula mentioned in earlier post.

The second couple which includes the Brazilian chick (Kirlyam) and the Mormon guy (Alan) I would give about a 15% chance of staying together as well though if the girl is Mormon herself I'd increase that figure to 50%+ (they did not mention her religion on the first show though the guy did meet her while preaching)
It helps Alan that she comes from a Brazilian village, is very young (Virgin?) and does not realize her beauty yet....Once she spends a month in USA and becomes a bit more westernized and get's hit on every day she will change for the worse. Already on the first episode a Johnny Depp looking street-actor hits on her and Alan gets very jealous. I can only imagine what would happen if she were in a more social setting such as a club...

The third couple, Russ & Paola (also the only couple so far who are banging), seem to be the most compatible. She speaks fluent English and he speaks very good Spanish. They are both similar in age (26/27) and both look good (no homo), though the guy seems a bit too metrosexual. Also, he works on an oil rig and is away almost all the time. Finally, at the end of the 1st episode Paola ends up moving in with his parents who seem very religious...Russ' mother and Paola don't seem to get along at the dinner table later that night. I'd say this couple probably has a 20% chance of making it past 90 days.

I am really looking forward to next Sunday's episode when alpha male
Len get's introduced. Btw, I saw other members commenting about this guy owning a women's gym and not being able to get laid. Have you guys seen women's gyms in USA, for example the "Curves" chain. Shoot, 80% of the women who go there are beasts...factor in the fact the majority of the other one's are married, with kids, in serious relationships, etc. and Len can realistically hit on only 5% of his clients. (I am assuming Len has high standards)
So guys, wouldn't you think the wait would be worth it??? Len finally get's a Ukrainian model (a solid 8). If he is smart he would sign a pre-nup and get Alina employed at his gym. That way she would make money and wouldn't be bored plus he could keep a close eye on her.

 

[mikeymike]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

The third couple, Russ & Paola (also the only couple so far who are banging), seem to be the most compatible. She speaks fluent English and he speaks very good Spanish. They are both similar in age (26/27) and both look good (no homo), though the guy seems a bit too metrosexual. Also, he works on an oil rig and is away almost all the time. Finally, at the end of the 1st episode Paola ends up moving in with his parents who seem very religious...Russ' mother and Paola don't seem to get along at the dinner table later that night. I'd say this couple probably has a 20% chance of making it past 90 days.

I was with a chick earlier and she went in to change so I flipped on her tv and this show was on and I was annoyed that I missed it so I sat there and watched the whole thing. Such different takes from me and my girl, she felt like the girls were sincere and that none of the guys were that bad. Leave it to a girl to see whats not there rather than admit that another girls intentions may not be pure. I thought Russ was a full fledge gay dude, his mannerisms and the way he speaks, it sends off a huge gay vibe to me but he does have good taste in women shes a worthy bang. She also runs the show, he wants to live at home, she says no, not gonna happen, she's got his balls and can do whatever she wants with him. At least looks wise they fit if he werent interested in dudes.

The guy with the brazilian girl who im crushin on a little bit is lame as fuck. They wont last, hes dated way up and shes gonna figure it out and have guys let her know asap. If he were man enough he could deal with that but hes already acting like a bitch and she'll tire of it asap plus hes got no style, and a pot belly, hes fighting a losing battle. Mormon or not he should've banged her while hes got her, cause he wont get to do it for long.

The fat guy with the Russian, poor guy is clueless. Hes gonna drop some good cash on her and shes gonna walk.

those are the only ones I saw from when I turned it on.

 

[Wayout]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

You know I posted a link to watch it online? Watch all you want it's free.
I will most likely move to Scottsdale this year, I shall look up that Len guy and his gym! ))

 

[Sp5]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

You know I posted a link to watch it online? Watch all you want it's free.
I will most likely move to Scottsdale this year, I shall look up that Len guy and his gym! ))

Thanks, I watched it.

1. All three women are smarter than average.

2. Russ and Paola showed good attraction and physical chemistry. i give them a good chance of making it, much better than 20%. The in-law drama may just be ginned up to TV. I gotta think his father is comparing her to his fat sour wife. Russ should be making good money in the oil biz as an engineer, and should move out.

3. Alan seems like he has no confidence and seems to want to suppress her Brazilian exuberance. Trouble ahead.

4. Mike the guy with the Russian is doomed. Even considering selective editing, the body language, her story and the age and SMV difference are all wrong.

 

[jimukr104]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

1. They are ALL gold diggers..whether money or passport(opportunity). They marry guys they barely know? That is not how it works in their own country.
2. i wouldn't be surprised if the marriage agencies are supporting these shows. The industry is practically dying from a legitimate perspective .They have a lot of trouble getting sincere women to sign up. 1998 was best year and they have been dying out since. Trust me I was almost a partner in one of them and my wife did translation work for agencies...most is just a game.
3. I know only 2 other men who married fsu girls that they met overseas who are still married. Both lived and worked in the country and dated like normal folks before they married. 100% of guys who met and quickly got married or bought girl on fiance visa is divorced. my wife's ex friend(sure you can guess why they are x friends) left guy right at 3 yrs when she could get a passport.
4. Bringing girls over to use them for 90 days has risks. The FSU girls have forums where they get advice(like we do on here) about how to scam men and leave before 90 days but get residency. Its called calling the cops and reporting the guy abused you. If they do..you end up in jail and she gets battered women protection and a green card. It happens all the time. my wife use to read the Russian forum where women tell other women to do shit like this. They talk about divorce, green cards and getting support payments all the time.
5. you basically have to stop them for socializing with their own. Not so bad in Brooklyn because plenty of happy married couples but in lets say other states they end up joining the Russian church.
The guys at the Russian church will talk them into leaving the American guy and help them to make a case against him. Remember, these Russian guys are beta males who desire to keep FSU blooded gals for themselves. That's their motivation.
6. The only way to win at this game is to keep them in their own country and be the star..NOT make them the star.

7.Wayout says" Yep - she'll take half of his house,his money and hius gym with half of the women!"

No she won't because his house and money isn't marital property since he had it before they met.....she can only get a % of marital property. You exaggerate the situation. But god forbid he has a kid with her..then hes fucked. His biggest problem is being used and she getting him arrested.

Interestingly these guys are ok to good-looking(not the fat ones)..at least compared to the ones one often sees at those socials.If America wasn't so full of overweight chicks those guys could score similar leveled American girls .The pussy economics really messes up shit!

 

[samsamsam]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

There were several reality shows about "us" - "The pick up artist" for example and I can't remember the name,but it was MTV production. Type of "Made". Their ratings sucked,that's why they were all cancelled.

Link toEpisode 1 for your convenience .

Thanks for reminding us you posted the link. Already 75 seconds into it and the giant guy is tearing up.

I just feel like we will be watching trainwrecks. Maybe not during the duration of the show but afterwards when they are on to season 2. Sort of like the bachelor where you hear they broke up.

Edit:
1) These guys seem like nice people. I sure hope it works out - but being on TV is never a good idea for stability.
2) Good God that Brazilian chick is adorable pretty if you know what I mean - shit you know she could manipulate any guy with that gentle exterior. That guy Alan lives in LA.
oh oh...

 

[Nolecbo]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

4. Bringing girls over to use them for 90 days has risks. The FSU girls have forums where they get advice(like we do on here) about how to scam men and leave before 90 days but get residency. Its called calling the cops and reporting the guy abused you. If they do..you end up in jail and she gets battered women protection and a green card. It happens all the time. my wife use to read the Russian forum where women tell other women to do shit like this. They talk about divorce, green cards and getting support payments all the time.

This is great advice. You're the man jimukr104!

 

[Wayout]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

4. Bringing girls over to use them for 90 days has risks. The FSU girls have forums where they get advice(like we do on here) about how to scam men and leave before 90 days but get residency. Its called calling the cops and reporting the guy abused you. If they do..you end up in jail and she gets battered women protection and a green card. It happens all the time. my wife use to read the Russian forum where women tell other women to do shit like this. They talk about divorce, green cards and getting support payments all the time.

This is great advice. You're the man jimukr104!

This should be easy to counter act - and the joke will be on her! When you feel she might pull this card on you ( the abuse card) - install hidden home surveillance! When cops come and arrest you,you can show them the footage and SHE will get in trouble for this! Then it's a fast track home for her. Perhaps installing a key logger on your computer would be wise too.
Is it worth the 90 day sex though? The K-1 visa is a huge hastle to obtain in the first place - from medical exams and interviews to actually paying the fees. Then ticket to the States. Easier to use an escort and live happy.

 

[jimukr104]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

I just watched part of it. I am confused. Most of those guys (except fat one) is above avg. They are mostly young and good looking(society standards NOT holly wood). What made them do this?

 

[Akula]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

Great insights jimurk104. Interesting to hear those perspectives. Re 'What made them do this" well I think such is the state of dating and the sexual marketplace in the USA. Way too many fatties, sluts and entitled princesses with an over-inflated sense of worth gives men relatively few options for marriage material, sad to say. At least outside the social circles. Given the prevalence of divorce rape and the lack of comparably suitable women (for marriage) I wonder why anyone gets married in the US anymore really. Seem like you need to go 2-3 notches down to play in the 'marriage dating pool' in most places outside NYC & Miami.

I watched the intros. The guy with the Russian girl (she's not ethnically Russian, probably from the Caucuses I gather with a name like Aziza - never heard that name before actually) is a total beta dweeb and completely kowtows to her. She calls him out for smoking and he is just defenseless and takes her sh*t and is completely in her frame. His 'best case scenario' seems to be living a miserable life with her ordering him around all the time - but most likely she'll move on very quickly given how completely spineless and beta he is. It was almost painful to watch them interacting together and they damn sure should not be engaged! Even the hairdresser dude picks up on it right away.

The guy with Paolo seems to be the most on point esp since he met her when he was working in Colombia. But even he seems to be in a tough situation given how hot she is and they are currently living in Oklahoma with his parents. Ouch.

 

[samsamsam]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

I just watched part of it. I am confused. Most of those guys (except fat one) is above avg. They are mostly young and good looking(society standards NOT holly wood). What made them do this?

Respectfully, not to be a total asshole, but I think only the Oklahoman has any looks and in shape.

 

[RockHard]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

I have a friend who's cousin was on The Bachelor. All these reality shows have an interview process that's designed to select certain people & personality types. They don't get random people on these things, they're aiming for good TV, i.e. DRAMA, so they're selecting the contestants based on likelihood of conflict.

Haven't watched the show, but it looks like that Ashton Kutcher thing a few years ago where he'd pair up hotties with dweebs.

 

[jimukr104]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

I just watched part of it. I am confused. Most of those guys (except fat one) is above avg. They are mostly young and good looking(society standards NOT holly wood). What made them do this?

Respectfully, not to be a total asshole, but I think only the Oklahoman has any looks and in shape.

Well NO homo here..but if 70% of the population is overweight(obese) , the others are by default better than 70% lol. I was going by the numbers.As for who has the face..well that's subjective to women anyway and I am NOT a homo. The cleve-land guy is obviously not above but Azizi isn't that hot in my opinion..she is a 4 at BEST in Russia. Like Akula said she is an ethnic mix, I think central Asia like Kazakhstan possibly? Caucasus women often re more Mediterranean looking). So they as a couple match, maybe hes better lol. When dealing with foreign women one has to take in consideration different things:
1. what the standard of beauty is in their country.I also include what men want in this as well. I often have read/heard that us Anglo's pursue women in foreign countries that the local population thinks is NOT hot.This is common in Asia but 20 years ago in FSU as well. The local Russian guys actually ignored thin women. I met plenty of women that we think are hot who told me childhood stories about not being desirable. Seems Soviet men preferred squat women , the type that grows into babushkas. My mother in law actually thinks my wifes sister is the better looking one(she is big bone).
Blacks and Hispanics in USA often attract to women us white guys find unattractive so most of us can relate if you think about it?
2. what level they compare with each other. Unlike Anglo sphere women who feel entitled to date up , many foreign women are seeking someone their own level(sometimes even below). Studies show couples generally = one another.
More important is will becoming Americanized make these women demand to get someone higher? my predictions is this.
A. I don't know how the Colombian girl rates because in NYC most Colombians I have seen are not that attractive. But I think Latins are happy happy and content when they move up.Cultural problems can arise though.Age range is good!

b. The FSU women will NOT work out. They have trouble understanding Anglo guys in the first place and as Akula said..he already showed weakness. You don't show Russians weakness until they LOVE you.Afterwards its ok....they will attract to sensitivity(Russian guys are actually very sensitive when you get to know them).
Also Russians have a way of comparing everything and wanting the best. Once they see a block of homes that are more expensive, they will expect to have a home like that. Same with any type of material wealth. He never will be good enough!



As for gym owner.....to many issues in addition to FSU. Age, she will never accept him being around other women. In another country him being a BUSINESSMAN would actually work though!

edit below: yes stay abroad. At least the Colombian girl was dating the guy first.

 

[samsamsam]

RE: New TLC show - 90 Day Fiance

jimukr104,

I respect your comments. And appreciate the tidbit that we are attracted to women that locals find unattractive, lucky for us.

I just think the Mormon is outgunned, the Cleveland guy is outgunned/soft, the Oklahoman has a bit of a soft side but the Colombia chick seems to really like him. I have not seen anything on he gym guy yet.

It seems that the Mormon and the Cleveland guy have not had sex yet with their girls. NO WAY should anyone bring the girl back without taking her out for a ride before bringing her to the USA.

I am convinced, as has been discussed by many men on the board, find your girl abroad and stay abroad.