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<blockquote data-quote="crottstep" data-source="post: 1062581" data-attributes="member: 12669">Why would I take it personally? You're raising a very good point. I didn't read much into the coach story and I'm not empathizing with that 40 y.o. loser at all. If anything, I was projecting my current insecurity about the realistic feasibility of dating significantly younger women, even if you've achieved a certain level of financial prosperity / status. Reconciling that with whether I'd actually be ok with my own daughter dating a significantly older guy, like you've said. Because right now I honestly wouldn't, regardless of his standing in society.I'm just having quite a hard time believing such a dynamic can work for a multitude of reasons. Which only serves to increase my general anxiety about the prospect of locking down a girl worthy of long-term right now. Although I haven't actually been gaming for years on end, I've become completely desensitized to casual sex / mini LTRs at this point.Good luck, you can try shaming those guys all you want. I have a hard time believing you'll have much success given their downright sociopathic nature. The job would be on the father's end to make sure his daughter actually uses her brain instead of giving in to emotion and screens men thoroughly.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="crottstep, post: 1062581, member: 12669"] Why would I take it personally? You're raising a very good point. I didn't read much into the coach story and I'm not empathizing with that 40 y.o. loser at all. If anything, I was projecting my current insecurity about the realistic feasibility of dating significantly younger women, even if you've achieved a certain level of financial prosperity / status. Reconciling that with whether I'd actually be ok with my own daughter dating a significantly older guy, like you've said. Because right now I honestly wouldn't, regardless of his standing in society. I'm just having quite a hard time believing such a dynamic can work for a multitude of reasons. Which only serves to increase my general anxiety about the prospect of locking down a girl worthy of long-term right now. Although I haven't actually been gaming for years on end, I've become completely desensitized to casual sex / mini LTRs at this point. Good luck, you can try shaming those guys all you want. I have a hard time believing you'll have much success given their downright sociopathic nature. The job would be on the father's end to make sure his daughter actually uses her brain instead of giving in to emotion and screens men thoroughly. [/QUOTE]

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