Top ten red flags

[Zanardi]

Thank you, @monsquid for your input

Dogs give unconditional love and do not argue back

I didn't see that part when I thought about this first. A nice eye-opener.

Best to avoid this one and save your time, money, and energy.

I was going to avoid her anyway because I have the feeling that if I were to be in a relationship with her, she would be a cold woman. Again, I spent a few hours with her so I am not 100% sure that I am right but this and the above three points made me say pass.

 

[BigTony]

- A woman that craves attention.
- Any woman that wants to go to a place where bikers hang out.

I'm a Christian now but many years ago I was talking to a lady that let it be known that she wanted to go with her girlfriends
to Bike Week in Myrtle Beach, SC. This alone should have made me cut all ties to her but I was really naive. Years later, I found
out exactly what they do down there. Hint- It wasn't to go siteseeing.

 

[Seeker79]

- A woman that craves attention.
- Any woman that wants to go to a place where bikers hang out.

I'm a Christian now but many years ago I was talking to a lady that let it be known that she wanted to go with her girlfriends
to Bike Week in Myrtle Beach, SC. This alone should have made me cut all ties to her but I was really naive. Years later, I found
out exactly what they do down there. Hint- It wasn't to go siteseeing.

Myrtle Beach is one of the trashiest places in the U.S. It's very telling when someone considers Myrtle Beach a good place to spend their precious vacation time.

 

[Red Wings]

Not sure this is best thread to ask this but I don't see any other suitable one so here it goes :
What would you guys consider to be a "suitable" notch count for a woman? To be honest I don't expect to find a virgin in 2021, on top of all the other criterion… I am 22 and met a girl that is 22 recently. I have yet to ask for her N-count but I'd say 3 is the limit. What would you say?

Also she says she can't see herself not working, and it's true she's smart and has a lot of talent and is very devoted. I think she can see reason though on that point, so I'm not too bothered.

Bruh if you’re 22 you can pull an 18 year old easy

 

[Sinabelus]

Bruh if you’re 22 you can pull an 18 year old easy

I'm having trouble finding a decent woman at all, I can't have the luxury to reject women because is their age is only 90% optimal.

 

[Red Wings]

Yeah but here’s the thing the younger they are typically the higher quality they are the less time they have had for modern hedonistic life experiences to spoil them. If you’re having trouble I would suggest expand your search, this is a matter of probability as statistically speaking good women are rare

 

[Pioneer]

I'm having trouble finding a decent woman at all, I can't have the luxury to reject women because is their age is only 90% optimal.

@Sinabelus You should give this a consideration! Perhaps next year? https://yagincincy.org/

 

[Sinabelus]

@Sinabelus You should give this a consideration! Perhaps next year? https://yagincincy.org/

Well what would you know it looks like the perfect sede get-together. Unfortunately I do not live in the US, but this is an excellent initiative. The only way for us to flourish is to form strong communities bonded by a solid faith and built around families.

 

[Philosopher]

The biggest red flag: she doesn't wear a headcovering to church every Sunday.

All my friends who married church-attending, veil-wearing women are doing just fine. For all my other friends, their marriages seem to last maybe two years or so.

Other notable red flags:
- You can imagine her sharing sex stories with her mom.
- Her dad doesn't offer you a dowry.
- Her hymen is not intact.

Exactly-my wife did not wear a head cover

 

[Viktor Zeegelaar]

For me now a woman being secular is the dividing line that will cut off 90% of women. I cannot imagine anymore to play the clown and have a relationship based on short term dopamine hits. Always on the run, always something new, always running out of time, always the tension that she can go away for something ''better'' or you have to go away for something ''better''. It's just a terror attack on your brain if you have that kind of relationship. And then I'm not even talking about the lack of masculine-feminine roles in the household, the dominance of the man and the submission of the woman, the raising of children with a good vs evil understanding whereas the woman in this case understands good as evil and evil as good. There's just no base for a stable relationship at all. Bringing her to the faith may be a possibility with outliers, but if it's done out of habit just to comply and set a mark it's going to end disastrous too. So then what remains if a woman who has faith already or is at a point where she's changing to the faith because she like many of us has been destroyed by the world and seeks the truth out of the lies that have been told her, although that is very hard for a woman to do on her own given her proclivity to adhere to the standard (secular) norms.

 

[elkokun]

Could a girl being pro vaxx and vaxxed be considerate a red flag?

 

[Huginn]

Could a girl being pro vaxx and vaxxed be considerate a red flag?

If she is both then yes, definitely a red flag. If she got vaxxed because of peer pressure and/or misinformation but is open to the discussion of why getting vaxxed is a bad idea, understands your reasoning and accepts her mistake, she may have some qualities in her. Remember that women give in way more easily to peer pressure than men do.
However, if the goal is to get married and have children with a vaxxed woman I would reconsider this because chances are high that she won't be able to give birth or live long enough to do so.

 

[Aizen]

Could a girl being pro vaxx and vaxxed be considerate a red flag?

Yes, for several reasons:

- Shows that she's plugged into the matrix and will call the secret police on you once she learns you are a free thinker
- Definitive sign of low IQ; she didn't bother to do any research beyond what they said on TV
- Possibility exists that she will drop dead soon or get cancer 5-10 years down the line
- Infertility is almost a given at this point (r/CovidVaccinated reddit post)

Just keep in mind that excluding jabbed women will drastically reduce your dating pool. Unvaccinated women will see their value shoot up exponentially once the elites decide to fianlly pull the trigger on the jabbed normtards.

 

[bucky]

Yes, for several reasons:

- Shows that she's plugged into the matrix and will call the secret police on you once she learns you are a free thinker
- Definitive sign of low IQ; she didn't bother to do any research beyond what they said on TV
- Possibility exists that she will drop dead soon or get cancer 5-10 years down the line
- Infertility is almost a given at this point (r/CovidVaccinated reddit post)

Just keep in mind that excluding jabbed women will drastically reduce your dating pool. Unvaccinated women will see their value shoot up exponentially once the elites decide to fianlly pull the trigger on the jabbed normtards.

I agree that overall it's a very bad sign if a girl is both vaxxed and pro-vax, but I disagree about it indicating low IQ. People with higher IQ are good at solving problems on IQ tests but often very bad at common sense. Black people are the segment of the US the population that is the least vaccinated and I don't think anyone is going to argue that they're generally high IQ. They just have more common sense than everyone else, at least in this case. You could probably find other examples of black people having more common sense. Caring more about their "community" than everyone else comes to mind.

I was out and about trying to get my shopping done before the sabbath yesterday, and I noticed that almost all of the very few young white women who were not obese or marred by hideous tattoos, piercings, and weirdly colored and shaved hair were still walking around with masks, even though they're no longer required where I live. Made me feel bad for the normal guys out there who would just like to find a nice wife to be the mother of their children. The prospects don't look very good.

 

[Early Bird]

Great thread. I have not read every single post, so excuse any duplicate suggestions here.

I would add:

- Look at her mother / the dynamic between her mother & father -- is her mother submissive, feminine, etc. Does she 'serve' her husband in the traditional way? Does she cook and take pride in keeping a beautiful, ordered home? Does she give her husband space to talk with other men at the home, enjoying a drink with guests and discussing politics, etc. Or does she constantly need to bust his chops and be the center of attention? Is she loud, brash, the main breadwinner, etc. This is one of the most important things to look for IMO. Daughters with mothers like this (especially if they have one or more sisters) are almost universally doomed. Even if they don't explicitly identify as a feminist and are not conscious of it, they will act like a feminist because of their distorted worldview derived from an unbalanced and unnatural home/upbringing. There will be too much emphasis on the "strong, independent women" in her life and no understanding of boundaries or masculine benevolence. Typically the father gets all the blame here ("daddy issues", "will be a slut" because of an absent -- or unusually strict -- father...but watch the mother also).

- Tattoos, piercings, coloured hair of any kind, but especially unnatural colours.

- Having sex too easily. This is often a sign of low self worth and a sure bet that she's had many sexual partners.

- Look at her eyes...are they dull, sad, tired, with deep bags underneath? That's called damage from too much partying and a piling up of regrets. One of the first things I notice about a woman is how 'bright' her eyes are. They are the windows to the soul after all.

This is a good summary of the problem with modern women & feminism. If a girl squirms and gets triggered by this, save yourself a lifetime of headaches and move on from her!

 

[Matthewww]

Crazy eyebrows
Less than shoulder length hair
Tells everyone about being vaxxed
A constant stream of idiotic political/social views with no nuance posted on social media.
Thinks tranny-tots, like boys wearing dresses, are cute and a good idea.

 

[KiwiInBudapest]

Could a girl being pro vaxx and vaxxed be considerate a red flag?

I think it depends if she has the NPC view of in it or if she is a bit nuanced.

I've recently met a girl I could see something long-term in. She's Christian and hasn't had any of the flags we usually see here (guy friends, bad father, unstable family etc). Completely different to all the ones I've met during my 6-7 years of dating (most of whom won't even say as much as "thank you" after I've bought them drinks).

But she's vaccinated. I brought it up with her that I wasn't and she said she didn't judge and that for every adult, it's up to everyone themselves to decide because some negative side-affects of the virus, which long-term effects are unknown. She said she was a bit worried herself before taking it, since she's read that it could cause fertility issues, but eventually she decided to get the jab.

Now, compare that view to some NPC girl who will judge you for taking it, acting like she has a PhD in the subject just because she's brainwashed by the media. Yes, that IS a red flag.

 

[ScannerLIV]

I think it depends if she has the NPC view of in it or if she is a bit nuanced.

I've recently met a girl I could see something long-term in. She's Christian and hasn't had any of the flags we usually see here (guy friends, bad father, unstable family etc). Completely different to all the ones I've met during my 6-7 years of dating (most of whom won't even say as much as "thank you" after I've bought them drinks).

But she's vaccinated. I brought it up with her that I wasn't and she said she didn't judge and that for every adult, it's up to everyone themselves to decide because some negative side-affects of the virus, which long-term effects are unknown. She said she was a bit worried herself before taking it, since she's read that it could cause fertility issues, but eventually she decided to get the jab.

Now, compare that view to some NPC girl who will judge you for taking it, acting like she has a PhD in the subject just because she's brainwashed by the media. Yes, that IS a red flag.

As one wise poster once commented here: you don't want even her contaminated saliva to get into your mouth.

 

[Aizen]

But she's vaccinated. I brought it up with her that I wasn't and she said she didn't judge and that for every adult, it's up to everyone themselves to decide because some negative side-affects of the virus, which long-term effects are unknown. She said she was a bit worried herself before taking it, since she's read that it could cause fertility issues, but eventually she decided to get the jab.

"Hmm, it could affect my ability to reproduce, but the female hive mind says it's okay, so I suppose I'll just take it! External research... I think I'd rather be conpliant with the mainstream narrative instead. God forbid someone thinks I'm an 'anti-vaxxer'! "

Stalin-era Soviet Union mentality. A woman like this will still throw you into the gulag. Cope if you think otherwise.

 

[Mathewsghost]

Hello, since I am not allowed to create a thread and want brotherly advice here i go. I am 27 year old man, I met a beautiful Christian woman on christian mingle who is just 19. We started talking 5 months ago just over the phone where we spent hours and hours facetimeing, laughing having serious convos etc. After getting to know each other she wanted all i wanted. We finally met in person about a month ago. I made her my girlfriend that night. We been pretty much un separable since then

That being said since then her past came out and her mask slipped a bit and then i heard about past trauma. She has attempted suicide in the past a few times, has a manipulate mother that physically abused her, never met her real father and moved out immediately at 18. She also has mentioned that when she was a child her cousin forced her to perform oral sex on her. Most concerning that caught my attention is that when she just turned 18 she hooked up with 34 year old man. She was open about and says she deeply regrets it and felt disgusting and even started crying. She said they went to 2nd base but didn't have sex. Despite all this she still is a virgin and that was a major thing we discussed before meeting her. We both want to wait till marriage and we haven't done much other than kiss since. I am not perfect and have a past filled with sexual immortality so I don't expect a perfect woman but I also do not want to fall into a bad situation either.
One thing i noticed as well is that she is controlling or attempts to be as a shit test. She started an argument with me because i didn't want to upgrade my iphone. Im not strapped for cash but i see no reason to buy a new one. Frugality goes over her head. She also HATES kids, when i am the complete opposite. That was a major red flag for me. She is very verbally intelligent for her age and put on a great act (hope it wasnt) on the phone. She is also very jealous and can be rude to others at times. She is a good girl deep down but very very very clingy furthering my belief that her virginity is valid. She is a christian but not super serious but as in more of a facebook christian. She has said multiple times she wants to go to church with me but we havent had the opportunity yet because i refuse to go to her new aged rock concert kumbaya non denominational mega church. I am not a rich man so it cant be money. I do make her laugh, I am decently attractive and a pretty confident man but thinking about how obssesed she is of me i scratch my head. I get texts often and she is super affectionate.

It feels good to vent but my main questions are; is this trauma too much to look past? Am a dealing with a manipulative woman? is it her age? or is she just a good girl who had a rough past? I have been pretty lonely, got out of a bad relationship with a really good girl but also a rape victim so i am usually somewhat lonely. I prayed to our lord before being introduced to her to find a beautiful nice christian woman to multiply with and spread the word of God and It felt like he delivered. Is it worth it to try and guide her?
I want to make sure i am not being blinded by a young attractive bubbly female.