Top ten red flags

bmw633

Robin
Doing porn for a woman is no small thing. It will follow her for life. Most females recognize this, but some just don't think it through, until it's too late.

Corporate America and public and private school systems are especially strict about it. But then you have the San Fernando Valley area, where I believe if a woman has not done porn in 7 years, she is allowed to be hired as a teacher, by some of the public school districts there. I read an interview with one such teacher, who would be teaching sixth grades boys! Lol
Young women today look at doing Fans Only and IG as a career move. Unless they are raised in a shielded environment, many girls care more about making some bank than their chastity and reputation.

The Julia Roberts movie, "PRETTY WOMAN", glamorized prostitution as being just a personal choice, as Richard Geer wined and dined her, and took her shopping, and to the Polo Games before he did the deed. My exwife let my 9 and 10 year old daughters watch it, then when they came to my house for the weekend, I was shocked she let those young minds see such trash. They told me it was a CINDERELLA STORY!!! If I remember correctly, Cinderella met the Prince, danced, then they got married. She wasn't selling her body to the night, right?
 
Young women today look at doing Fans Only and IG as a career move. Unless they are raised in a shielded environment, many girls care more about making some bank than their chastity and reputation.

The Julia Roberts movie, "PRETTY WOMAN", glamorized prostitution as being just a personal choice, as Richard Geer wined and dined her, and took her shopping, and to the Polo Games before he did the deed. My exwife let my 9 and 10 year old daughters watch it, then when they came to my house for the weekend, I was shocked she let those young minds see such trash. They told me it was a CINDERELLA STORY!!! If I remember correctly, Cinderella met the Prince, danced, then they got married. She wasn't selling her body to the night, right?
I read an article (I can't remember the name/website) where the journalist interviewed a group of girls from the American Midwest, who wanted to become porn actresses. They were all seemingly, the sweet girl next door type. In private, he asked each one if they had ever been molested or used in a way that could make them vulnerable to doing this sort of work. They all said no. At a certain point he realized it was all just a matter of them wanting to do "easy work" that paid lots of money, and could possibly make them famous, and grant a flashy lifestyle. The horrible part was when he talked to the poor longsuffering fathers, who had tried to talk their daughters out of it, and felt sick to their stomachs. And yes, they had loving dads, and not the stereotypical father who either sexually molested them, or were never there. There was even a picture of the girls with their fathers, which was very telling. The girls all had huge smiles, and the fathers had hollow expressions of melancholy sadness. A very eye opening article about female nature.
 
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bmw633

Robin
I read an article (I can't remember the name/website) where the journalist interviewed a group of girls from the American Midwest, who wanted to become porn actresses. They were all seemingly, the sweet girl next door type. In private, he asked each one if they had ever been molested or used in a way that could make them vulnerable to doing this sort of work. They all said no. At a certain point he realized it was all just a matter of them wanting to do "easy work" that paid lots of money, and could possibly make them famous, and grant a flashy lifestyle. The horrible part was when he talked to the poor longsuffering fathers, who had tried to talk their daughters out of it, and felt sick to their stomachs. And yes, they had loving dads, and not the stereotypical father who either sexually molested them, or were never there. There was even a picture of the girls with their fathers, which was very telling. The girls all had huge smiles, and the fathers had hollow expressions of melancholy sadness. A very eye opening article about female nature.
The downside of prostitution/sugar babies/cam girls/porn is never publicized. It is only publicized and glamorized when a girl becomes famous due to a SEX TAPE or whatever. Children have been sexualized at too young an age, homosexuality/transgenderism is portrayed as mainstream, and kids are exposed to sexual content at too young an age. YT has childrens' videos where women are being dry humped. Pretty bad.

I watched the Brendon Fraser movie " BLAST FROM THE PAST" recently, and growing up in a bunker made the character such a decent and nice man. The disappointing thing was the slutty woman who hooked him, but I guess nice, virtuous women are only found in the Philippines, where I met my wife. Haha!!!
 
I have noticed YT changing their policies... I have a friend with a mentally retarded teenage son, who found a pretty R rated lesbian sex scene, there.

I will have to see that film. I'm a Brendon Fraser fan. I enjoyed his work in Doom Patrol, where he plays the human brain in a robot body. But not a series for kids.
 
Porn is an extremely sinister business that breaks people.

I once asked the mother of an 11-year-old girl if she would be OK with her daughter becoming a prostitute, She said yes. This was a middle-class mother, not some crack whore. I think this speaks a lot about the normalization of prostitution.
I have a friend who surprised me by saying that he would not mind if his daughter worked in an upscale strip joint as a dancer, but even he drew the line at prostitution.
 

bmw633

Robin
So question, 25 years old tired of casual dating . I’m in California . Any advice ? I want to be with Christ and have a family that’s it you know?
At 25, your brain is just now reaching the end of its growth, focus on being the best version of yourself for the next ten years. Or, become an Amish, Mennonite, Mormon, or some other Religious group. There should be some uncorrupted women you could meet there.

My Filipina cooks everything from scratch, no microwave in the house. She is sweet, never nags, and is a load of fun to be with. We have been locked down since March, and we haven't had a harsh word between us.
 

Daoism808

Newbie
At 25, your brain is just now reaching the end of its growth, focus on being the best version of yourself for the next ten years. Or, become an Amish, Mennonite, Mormon, or some other Religious group. There should be some uncorrupted women you could meet there.

My Filipina cooks everything from scratch, no microwave in the house. She is sweet, never nags, and is a load of fun to be with. We have been locked down since March, and we haven't had a harsh word between us.
Thanks bro , I’ve been working out and keeping myself healthy as much as I can . During this lockdown
 
The downside of prostitution/sugar babies/cam girls/porn is never publicized. It is only publicized and glamorized when a girl becomes famous due to a SEX TAPE or whatever. Children have been sexualized at too young an age, homosexuality/transgenderism is portrayed as mainstream, and kids are exposed to sexual content at too young an age. YT has childrens' videos where women are being dry humped. Pretty bad.

I watched the Brendon Fraser movie " BLAST FROM THE PAST" recently, and growing up in a bunker made the character such a decent and nice man. The disappointing thing was the slutty woman who hooked him, but I guess nice, virtuous women are only found in the Philippines, where I met my wife. Haha!!!
Netflix is releasing a film that has generated huge controversy, due to a creepy poster artwork Netflix graphics artists created, to promote the film. But those who have actually seen the movie, say it is actually strongly against the exploitation of young girls, despite the horrific Netflix poster.

My two youngest stepdaughters love to copy music video dance moves, record them onto social media, and compete with other girls, as they reap praise and likes from viewers. But it kind of worries me in that these are "sexy" dance moves intended for women and not pre-adolescent female children. And the lyrics, and not just the dance moves, can be sexual in nature. This is a very common activity in the Philippines.

"But if you’d seen the film, you’d know that French-Senegalese filmmaker Maïmouna Doucouré illustrates, very clearly, that the four girls who enter a dance contest together are far too young to be wearing skimpy outfits and performing suggestive dance moves. That’s kind of the whole thesis of the movie—that girls who barely understand the concept of sex are pressured by society to present themselves as “sexy,” and that’s very much a bad thing."

The film may be fine and raise some important matters to be discussed by parents and authorities, but the judgment and leadership of Netflix is definitely in question for creating and promoting the notorious poster...

 
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Maecenas

Sparrow
There's been a few who've mentioned poor relationship with mom or dad or divorced parents. I wouldn't advise judging people based on things from their past that were out of their control. Better to judge the girl's character and get a sense of how they've responded. Also it's not impossible to help soothe a girl who's troubled with this sort of stuff, you can get a feel for how it's disturbed her and get a feel for how you can support her.
 

Maecenas

Sparrow
A lot of the red flags in this thread come down to avoid super lefty SJWs. I'm curious about red flags for a more conservative-acting, moderate girl, which is more difficult to reason about.
 
Young women today look at doing Fans Only and IG as a career move. Unless they are raised in a shielded environment, many girls care more about making some bank than their chastity and reputation.

The Julia Roberts movie, "PRETTY WOMAN", glamorized prostitution as being just a personal choice, as Richard Geer wined and dined her, and took her shopping, and to the Polo Games before he did the deed. My exwife let my 9 and 10 year old daughters watch it, then when they came to my house for the weekend, I was shocked she let those young minds see such trash. They told me it was a CINDERELLA STORY!!! If I remember correctly, Cinderella met the Prince, danced, then they got married. She wasn't selling her body to the night, right?
You got that right!
 

Maecenas

Sparrow
Maybe there aren't any?
One red flag would definitely be a woman who seems very courteous, very graceful, and feminine, but you have no idea why she's giving you attention. This recently happened to me. She was out of my league and she was five years older than me. If she was really that much of a catch, we wouldn't have met in the circumstances we did (an app) and she wouldn't be entertaining my attention.

I decided maybe she was just using me and other guys in the app to practice courteous manners. Or maybe she was a very high attention seeker. I'll never really know, I started getting creepy vibes so I stopped talking with her.
 
One red flag would definitely be a woman who seems very courteous, very graceful, and feminine, but you have no idea why she's giving you attention. This recently happened to me. She was out of my league and she was five years older than me. If she was really that much of a catch, we wouldn't have met in the circumstances we did (an app) and she wouldn't be entertaining my attention.

I decided maybe she was just using me and other guys in the app to practice courteous manners. Or maybe she was a very high attention seeker. I'll never really know, I started getting creepy vibes so I stopped talking with her.
Now that I think about it, perhaps one could be communication skills. I had a date a long time ago with someone that didn't ask me any questions all night. I asked them every question I could possibly think of over the course of several hours and not one time did she ask me the same question. It was a long interview session. It was a lot of talk but really no communication and relating to each other.
 
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