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Message: <blockquote data-quote="SingularityOne" data-source="post: 1482214" data-attributes="member: 18210"><p>Question about a specific red flag...? I was just broken up with by a girl that had unresolved trauma from being raped when she was younger. She had a hard time talking about emotions and how she was feeling when talking about intimacy and when I set boundaries (albeit after I made mistakes and went to far physically in the past). She said she didn’t want to go to therapy to resolve her trauma because it was “scary.” She said that if we got married she would go to therapy with me, but having asked her to go to therapy with me once (6 months of dating or so LDR) she said she wasn’t ready to do therapy at that time to work through things. She broke up with me recently and I’m trying to make sense of things because I’m still infatuated with her... But, all this to say, is a woman who is unwilling to work through a trauma in therapy, such as this, a “red flag?”</p></blockquote><p></p>