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<blockquote data-quote="Mage" data-source="post: 1277439" data-attributes="member: 1809">There is no difference between traits in looking for mother and traits in looking for wife.But psychologically men would do well when looking for wife to to always remember that they are also looking for future mother of their children. This will make the selection process much more demanding and effective.While for some men it seems common sense, I suspect that many men are foolish and only look for superficial qualities in women, imagining nothing much but dates and bedroom time, not seeing the almost certain near future of children. The more a bastard the man is - the more he sees a woman this way. A bastard is a man or woman untrained into thinking in family terms - likely someone who grew up with an absent or divorced parent. Men who are raised in stable families themselves will be less likely to have this problem, although no one is fully protected from any dysfunctional influence in modern society.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Mage, post: 1277439, member: 1809"] There is no difference between traits in looking for mother and traits in looking for wife. But psychologically men would do well when looking for wife to to always remember that they are also looking for future mother of their children. This will make the selection process much more demanding and effective. While for some men it seems common sense, I suspect that many men are foolish and only look for superficial qualities in women, imagining nothing much but dates and bedroom time, not seeing the almost certain near future of children. The more a bastard the man is - the more he sees a woman this way. A bastard is a man or woman untrained into thinking in family terms - likely someone who grew up with an absent or divorced parent. Men who are raised in stable families themselves will be less likely to have this problem, although no one is fully protected from any dysfunctional influence in modern society. [/QUOTE]

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